Communication In Bed Is Key

Stop Doing That – How do you handle your partner’s bad habits in the sack? Maybe your woman always wants to stick her finger up your ass during oral sex. Your guy may be yanking a little too hard on your ponytail while nailing you from behind. How do you tell your partner to stop doing these things? Chances are your partner does at least one thing in the sack that you don’t like. At some point you’re going to have to break the news to them.

Break It Gently – The first thing you want to do is make sure you’re not condescending about it. People are very sensitive when it comes to their sexual performance. You don’t want to tell you’re partner they aren’t the best in the world. It’ll bum them out in ways that you can’t even begin to understand. Egos are really big when it comes to sex. That’s why you have to let them down easy. Be gentle and overly cautious when telling them about something you don’t like.

Pay Attention – Communication is key for any relationship. No relationship can survive without it. You’re going to have to talk about these things. Sure, you could tattoo a message near your asshole letting them know no fingers are allowed. How can you be certain they’ll read it? You could end up going through a lot of trouble for little to no results. Great sex is the product of many things. Communication is one of those things. Tell him your nipples aren’t a chew toy. Hopefully they’ll catch on eventually.

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