What Does It Mean? – First of all what it stands for – Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission. Im sure most of you must have wanted to try it at some time but you are probably too afraid what your partner might think of it. What you dont know is, women are just as wild as you are in many cases on the inside. Some may want you to be in charge while some may want to be in full control. But if you never ask or talk to them, you will never know! The popularity of movies and books like the Fifty Shades of Gray series has really brought BDSM to the attention of the masses, and not just the fringes of society
Fun Accessories – The first thing that comes to your mind from BDSM must be blindfolds, chains, handcuffs and strap-ons. There is much more to it actually but yes, those are the little steps. You can find all of these things online. If you want to save yourself some bucks, go for a combined bondage fantasy kit. It will contain all of the above-stated items and much more. Maybe some floggers, candles for dripping hot wax, all kinds of goodies.
Reversing Roles – If you already know that your partner is open to all sorts of kinky stuff, you can plan a whole surprise for her, or ladies, you can do it for your man as well. Sometimes men don’t like to be in charge and want you to be the creative one and in control. Be his domme for the night, and him your more than willing submissive, there is nothing as sexy as a woman who can show what she wants and how its done. So break out those whips and blindfolds and try something different tonight!
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Explore The Dark Side – 50 Shades of Grey introduced the world to bondage. Now many people want to experience it for themselves. Some of you may be a little apprehensive about it. You shouldn’t be and here we’re going to tell you why that is. Exploring your sexuality in the bedroom is always a good thing. In fact, it’s something that you should do quite often. There’s nothing more free than being with a partner that will allow you to explore you deepest desires. It’s not to say that you will end up liking bondage. You very well may end up not liking it. After all, life is rarely as it is on the big screen. With that said, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t at the very least give it a try.
Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down – It should be noted that bondage and violence are two separate things. A partner that gets off on violence has some real issues. If they’re beating you while having sex or during any part of your relationship, it’s time to get out. A violent person will never change and it’s down right stupid to think otherwise. Bondage gear can be made out of rope or anything used to tie someone’s hands and feet. You’re going to want to make sure whatever materials used don’t cause too much discomfort. Your local adult bookstore should have some handcuffs that are lined with fur. Get a few pairs of those and give them a try. Actually, your local adult bookstore very well may be the best place for you to go for all of your bondage gear.
Hurts So Good – Many of you may think the hardware store is the best place, but all the stuff they sell there will cause pain and possible permanent injury. Always remember to have a safe word that you can use to tell your partner to stop. You may also want to take it easy the first few times and not be so rough. There is a point where pain can cross into pleasure. The problem is, the pain may be a bit much to handle in the early stages of experiencing bondage.
50 Shades Of Naughty – Have you and your lover been looking for more exciting ways to get each other going? Maybe some sex toys might get you more aroused than just the same old normal routine. BDSM is something more and more couples are exploring and delving into these days. Missionary in the dark is fine, but for ones that want to put a bit more va va voom in their sex life, it might be worth exploring to see how you like it.
Tie Me Up, Please – Many times couples get into a sexual rut and need some variety to spice things up, after all, even steak every night can become boring. Toys, restraints, cuffs, all serve to further fantasy and roleplay that many find make things a lot more arousing than the same old routine. Many movies and books have storylines that might inspire you or excite you in ways you didn’t imagine would get your juices flowing. The 80’s classic “9 1/2 Weeks” has some very arousing scenes in it that might inspire you to kick things up a notch with your lover.
Please Sir, Give Me More – It can be very seductive to hand over control of your orgasm to another and have them make you beg for it, having them bring you to the brink and back again until you can’t take anymore. Give it to your lover across the backside with a riding crop. Being tied up can be very erotic. Blindfolding your lover can bring an element of surprise to each and every touch. Make them quiver and flinch! Submission and domination can be very sexy role reversals we are not used to in our everyday lives. Often seeking the opposite position to that which we normally hold.
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