Shy Girls – One thing that constantly perplexes me is guys telling me girls are too shy to have phone sex. They can have cyber sex until their clits are numb, but try to get some on the phone and they won’t do it. Some will conclude they are guys and this is why they won’t take the next leap. I won’t go on cam, yet chat by voice with anyone, even non sexual talks, yet unless you will go on cam, some guys will also say you are a man, at which point I mention my audios, but they are so convinced you’re a man unless you go on cam, they won’t even bother listening to an audio to hear your voice.
Be Brave – So many guys seem to have a sense of entitlement to seeing your pics, seeing you on cam, it’s ridiculous. If someone asks for pics, it personally makes me more reluctant to share. Don’t ask and I will share, ask and I’m put off. It’s that sense of them thinking they deserve to be granted some sort of special access they haven’t been invited to yet, annoys the hell out of me. Back to the topic at hand though, personally I don’t get why a girl is reluctant to phone. Ones not wanting to give their phone number can either get Google voice, if they are in the US, or use Yahoo or Skype or our own chat rooms that have audio.
Don’t Hide Your Light Under A Bushel – I say ones reluctant to have phone sex haven’t had good phone sex, because I can promise you once you do, it’s your favorite addiction and hobby. You don’t have to show yourself to them, it’s private, there’s nothing like being listened to as you cum and breathe heavy for someone else, it’s so sexy you’d never be shy once you experienced it and shared that orgasm with another interested party. Ladies, you are missing out, do not let another week go by without experiencing what masturbation can truly be like if you share it with someone. It’s a magical experience.
Phone Sex Rocks – So tell me, have you enjoyed any phone sex lately? Masturbation is oh so much more enjoyable if you share it with someone. So many gals seem to be shy to try it, guys tell me all the time gals will cyber with them, but not phone and they don’t get it. I have no answers for them as I don’t get it either. It’s harmless, fun and in many cases free if you use Yahoo or Skype or our own climaxconnection chat rooms with free audio and video chat.
Privacy Concerns – For ones that prefer to use a real phone and are worried about their privacy if they engage in phone sex, they can use things like Google Voice to get a free phone number they can give to someone without actually giving them their actual phone number. It is only for Americans at this point though. I’m Canadian and some overly paranoid guys have given me a Google Voice number rather than their actual phone number. I can call the Google Voice number, but can’t acquire one myself. Many people don’t even know about this option. You can also get similar Skype forwarding numbers. Many are concerned about sharing their numbers, but there is a way around it if you search.
Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine – Listening to another person get off at the same time you are is so much better than alone it’s not even comparable. Once you get into phone sex, alone simply does not cut it anymore. Ladies are seriously missing out if they don’t join in on the fun. Some guys will say they never did it before, or they wouldn’t know what to say. Honestly, it’s not rocket science people. I’ve had several “first timers” that were wonderful, sexy partners and pleased me a lot with their sounds. Others are quieter and there’s not a lot of talking, mainly listening to each other moan and breathe and trust me, that can be plenty sexy as well if their sounds are hot. So if you haven’t tried phone sex yet, by all means try it out, it’s hotter that Miami in July!
Don’t Be A Jerk – I wrote the following to a member who had written me and asked what he could do to cut down on his experiences with women online that were cybering or camming with him and then going offline as soon as they came, leaving him in the lurch. I decided my reply was sensible enough to be posted for others to see and hopefully learn something from. Even if you are not a religious sort, the do unto others as you would have them do onto you bit is sound advice that every single person should be practicing.
Assholes Online – Many online are assholes, this will come as no revelation, I am sure. Keyboard warriors who are bold due to their anonymity alone. One way to avoid getting dropped during a cam, phone or cyber session, is not to engage in one until you know the person better, but I know most people come on when they are horny and want something right then. This has never been my personal game plan, it’s like going shopping when you are starving, you’ll grab the nearest morsel you can get.
Don’t Just Be Horny, Be Polite – I realize my personal “audition process” is not what most people do, but it cuts down on bad experiences when you chat with someone a few times before playing, there’s more of an investment of time, so they are not as apt to run off as soon as they cum. Even with this method though, it has happened to me. I have been hung up on by a handful of guys after they came, and I was livid and immediately deleted and blocked them. One I even had chatted with for 6 weeks before playing with him and he did this to me the first and only time we played. I have never done this to one person I have phoned with, even when I knew I’d made a bad choice and would never be playing with them again, I got through it and did it and finished the call.
Cum & Go – I have heard countless guys tell me girls they were phoning, camming, or cybering with some girl who immediately left when they came. There are some rude, inconsiderate individuals out there. Obviously they wouldn’t do that to someone they were looking for a long term online playing relationship with. But a “hit and run encounter” with someone they have no intention of playing with again, they just don’t care. Other sites will be the same, CC doesn’t have the market cornered on thoughtless jerks and bitches, all sites will have the same sorts. Selfish idiots looking to get off and only their own orgasm to care about. Show others some respect and let them finish, even if you know you will not be playing with them again.
You Get What You Give – Karma is a reality, what goes around does indeed come around. Show others the same courtesy and respect you yourself would wish to be shown. Would you like to be hung up on? Your screen go black as they have turned off their cam? See them log out in chat when they say they have cum? I doubt you would. Treat others decently and maybe you will have someone to play with again in the future, and not some one time hit and run encounter that you’d be embarrassed to be confronted about.
The following blog post was written by ClimaxConnection member “typeaer“.
Aurally Eargasmic – why I love sounds.
I was recently asked by an anonymous female chatter: “what’s so special about phone sex and why do you love it so much?
My reply: “Do you want the long or short answer?”
To which she replied: “Both.”
You Sound Hot – In short, sounds are the sensual reward to saying the right word, touching the right spot, letting your lover know how fucking good it feels. Sounds are critical to the passion and essential to making you wet and your man rock hard. Sounds let me know you’re getting close, very close and I’m doing the right thing in just the right way.
Hearing You Cum – Hearing without the benefit of seeing is the ultimate tease. The slide of a zipper, the faint slap of material as roaming hands explore the borders at the fringe of wetness and or hardness – therein lies the turn on. Sounds are involuntary signs marking the transition from one excitement level to another. They’re an auditory right of passage symbolizing my finger has just dipped into your wetness or your hand has just gripped and squeezed the extent of my hardness. Sounds trigger the duration, timing and urgency of not only foreplay and sex but most importantly, our impending climaxes.
What is my Kryptonite? My Achilles heal? Hearing everything that brings her to and ultimately makes her cry out: “I’m cumming. . .”
Sex Sounds – Sounds feed the voyeur in us. They tell an entire story with a single breath, gasp or sigh. Sounds reflect the temperature of your libido and embellish the experience by adding sexually charged fuel to the fire. Sounds complete the visual experience and intensify the scents and flavors of the moment. Without sound, sex is just a silent movie and that is why I love phone sex so much.
Before she signed off she replied:
“Fucking hell you have a talent with words. I want to call you up right now :$ If I had a dick, it would be painfully hard right now but I don’t so I just gotta deal with these wet panties. . .”
Call Me Up And Let’s Masturbate – If you’re looking for free phone sex, then you can likely find a willing partner here at ClimaxConnection. We have many horny guys and gals that are also looking to spice up their masturbation by adding in a healthy dose of phone sex. Masturbating with a partner is far more fun than alone, and you may soon find you are downright addicted to it and don’t even want to play alone anymore.
Auditory Stimulation – Alone is like black and white, together is like technicolor. Once you discover a good and compatible phone sex partner, or hopefully more than one even, you will wonder why on earth you didn’t get into this fantastic and fun hobby years ago. People simply do not know what they are missing if they do not try it. Our chat rooms often have randy and willing people in them looking to play and they may be horny the very moment you pop in to look!
Find Masturbation Partners – Our profile pages are also filled with people looking for that Climax Connection with just the right partner. You can easily search by interest from the members page. You can find others profiles that have phone sex listed as an interest and then message them and hopefully have a fun time together. Some are just looking for a one time connection, others are looking for a more reliable and regular phone sex partner to have fun with on a regular basis, hopefully you will find just what you are looking for and have the most fantastic orgasms you ever had while masturbating.
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