The Answer Is No – How do you handle the dreaded word no? You’re going to hear it quite a few times in your lifetime. Every person reading this has been horny at least once when their partner wasn’t. More than likely, it’s happened quite a bit in your life. It happens to both guys and gals. Yes, there are even times when men don’t want to have sex. It make come as a shock to some women, but it’s been known to happen.
The Opposite Of Yes – How you handle being told no more than likely depends on how often you hear that word. If you hear it often, there’s a problem. Then, it’s a matter of sitting down and dealing with the problem. If it’s just something you hear occasionally, then don’t be alarmed. What you’re experiencing is just a part of life. It happens to couples more than you probably realize. Don’t freak out about it. That’s the last thing you want to do. Coping with the no word isn’t all that difficult. At first, it very well may be. You’ll get used to it over time.
Timing Is Everything – Hearing the word no too often may very well be due to poor planning. Sex is something that you have to plan. This is true later on in life. It would be great if were always a spontaneous thing. Those days are a thing of the past, once you start taking life serious. Sorry, that’s just the way it is. Santa isn’t real and neither is the tooth fairy. It was probably best to burst your bubble all at once and not piece by piece.
Honey, We Need To Talk – How do you tell your partner they’re doing something you don’t like? Most people like to think they’re great in the sack. Every person does at least one thing that they’re partner doesn’t like. It can be difficult telling someone that you don’t like what they’re doing. How do you do it in a way that doesn’t make them feel uncomfortable? Feeling uncomfortable in the bedroom, can actually wreck a relationship. Your partner could very well be doing something that isn’t pleasureful, or in fact hurts.
Break It To Them Gently – The first thing you want to do is make sure that you’re breaking the news in a way that isn’t angry or hurtful. You don’t want to scream down their throat that you don’t like them gnawing on your testicles. You may end up with a tooth stuck right in the middle of one by doing so. Instead, be calm and upfront about it. Tell them what you like about what they’re doing. Then, tell them what you don’t like. You should go into it thinking that they very well may be heart broken by what you say. This can be especially true if you’re talking about an issue with their sexual performance in general.
That’s Not Wood You’re Gnawing On – Understanding that a topic such as this can be quite sensitive is important for how you address it. Feelings can easily be hurt and this is why you need to skate on thin ice. It’s either that, or live with a raw clitoris every time your partner goes down on you. That’s probably not something you’re going to want to live with for the rest of your life. So, you better find a way to break it to your partner without causing them a nervous breakdown.
Stop Masturbating? – Want to improve the quality of sex that you have? Give up masturbating. The world isn’t coming to an end. You don’t need to hide beneath your bed. Masturbation is a great tool for those who aren’t getting any sex. This article isn’t for those of you that don’t get laid. Masturbation can ruin your sexual appetite. It can make you not want to have sex with your partner. Ever wonder why your partner isn’t chasing you around the house begging for sex? They’re probably masturbating and it’s taking away their urge to have sex. This has a negative impact on several aspects of a relationship.
Build Up Your Sexual Appetite – All of which will eventually trickle right down into the bedroom. Don’t allow your natural sex drive to be tampered down by masturbating. There’s nothing wrong with being horny. Allowing yourself to be horny will make your partner feel more attractive. Masturbation can dull your senses and make you less interested in your partner. This is the true hazard of playing with yourself. It’s not going blind or developing hairy palms. It’s a lack of sex drive that very well could be translated into a lack of desire. No one wants to share a bed with someone that doesn’t find them desirable. Cut back masturbating to just a few times per month. The fewer times, the better.
Quality, Not Quantity – Work harder at increasing the amount of sex you have. Masturbation is a lot like fast food. Sure, it’s easy and it gets rid of the hunger. However, it’ll leave you wanting more each and every time. This is why you shouldn’t eat cheeseburgers every day. Your body will be left wanting more, as fast food is devoid of nutrients and anything healthy. The same thing on some level could be said about masturbation. The difference is, masturbation on some level is healthy. Just make sure you’re having sex more often than you masturbate.
Make Your Partner Your Priority – We live in a digital era where everyone is connected. Chances are you use a computer at work. You probably have a smartphone and use it throughout the day. Think about how much time you spend with electronics. Now, think about how much time you spend with your partner. It can be extremely easy for people to lose focus on spending time with each other. Sending someone an instant message online isn’t spending time together.
Cool it With The Cell Phone – Relationships can’t grow if two people don’t connect to each other outside of the electronic world. Why aren’t you getting laid? It’s probably because you’re not talking with your partner. Instead of talking, both of you are staring at electronic devices. You’re not going to get any action if neither of you are connecting with each other. Most people don’t realize the problems their sex lives face tend to be what’s right in front of them. The average person isn’t a complicated work of art that needs years to decipher. People tend to be straight forward and understanding them isn’t all that difficult. What can you do to lessen the digital divide between you and your partner?
Turn On Your Partner, Not Your Phone – The first thing, have a rule that no electronic devices are allowed at the table. Yes, you’re going to have to talk to each other. Mealtime should always be a special time where the two of you can discuss things and simply chat. The second rule should be no electronic devices in bed. This includes the television as well. Turn everything off and work at turning each other on. These are two simple rules that will do wonders for your sex life. Don’t let electronics get in your way of spending some quality time in the sack with your partner. They can do just that and quite a few of you aren’t even aware that it’s happening.
Break Up, Or Make Up? – When is it a good idea to stop having sex with your partner? This is an odd question that actually comes up quite a bit in relationships. Yes, there is a time to quit having sex with someone. When is it? That’s what we’re going to talk about here. The vast majority of the people reading this will have more than one relationship during their lifetime. This more than likely means you’ll several sex partners. At some point you need to realize when the relationship is over and it’s time to move on. That’s not easy and there’s going to be quite a few hurt feelings to deal with.
I Can’t Say No To You – You should stop having sex with your partner if one or both of you are no longer monogamous. You don’t want to expose yourself or your partner to sexually transmitted diseases. The relationship is coming to an end and there’s no reason to drag it out more. Having sex will do just that. You’ll end up making the break up take longer than it should. Put an end to the sex and respect yourself. To be successful in life you have to be able to show restraint. This is true in your professional and personal life as well.
Walk Away – How do you go about telling your partner the sex is over? This isn’t usually a problem because they know the relationship is about to end. We’re not talking about couples that slowly drift apart and stop having sex with each other. This is about couples that are about go break up and go their separate ways. The best advice anyone will ever give you is to put an end to the relationship and the sex as quickly as possible. Create enough space you and your partner so both sides can work on the healing process. It’s the healthiest and most adult thing to do.
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