What’s Love Got To Do With It? – Love and sex are two very different things. It can be easily mashed up into something that doesn’t reflect reality. The difference tends to go along the lines of how men and women think. A man can easily have sex with a woman and have no feelings of love towards her at all. For men, sex is much like food. You probably don’t feel all warm and fuzzy for a cheeseburger you’re about to eat. The same could be said in many sexual situations that men find themselves in.
Let’s Keep It Casual – Sex for a man is more about availability than anything else. A woman has sex with a man for emotional reasons. Most often than not, it’s all about love. The woman feels an emotional connection to the man and has sex with him. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some women who can freely have sex without any feeling of attachment. This isn’t the norm and women who are honest with themselves understand this.
Why Do You Want Me ? – The differences in male and female sexuality is merely about how we perceive the world around us. Why is this important? We live in a society were we’re constantly trying to read in between the lines. Why does this guy want to fuck me? Why did she suck my cock last night? Look deeper into the reasoning behind the person’s actions. By doing so you’ll understand what their intent is. Maybe the chick that blew you last night was just drunk and horny. The guy that keeps chasing you around the office really may be in love with you. Don’t ever allow yourself to read into something that may not exist. Your guy friend may just want some pussy and he doesn’t really care about your love of artisan cheese in the slightest. Understand the motivation of people in your sex life will help you to determine what type of relationship is right.
A Kiss Is Just A Kiss – What is a kiss? It’s something that you should think about the next time you enjoy one. Kissing can be the most sexual experience ever. It can also be a quick reminder of love. The value of a kiss or it’s importance should never be underestimated. Every person reading this should kiss more often. It’s something that you should do every single day of your life. Why aren’t you? That’s the real question anyone in a relationship should ask themselves. A couple that kisses is a couple that loves each other.
Kiss Me Quick – Kissing should be part of any foreplay. With that said, it should be a part of your daily routine. Increase the bond you have with your partner by kissing them more often. Kiss them in the morning and before you go to bed at night. Kiss each other throughout the day and you’ll begin to notice what it does to your bond. The strength of your relationship can be determined by the bond you and your partner has. There’s no amount of money or sex that will increase this bond in a way that is lasting. Kissing however, it goes where those two things can’t. The relationship you have with your partner will go a long ways in improving the sex life you have.
I Love You – Most people make the mistake of detaching sex from every other aspect of their life. Don’t be one of those people. Always work to improve your relationship by strengthening the bond you and your partner share. Doing so may just get you in the sack more often. The most important thing is, you’ll actually end up enjoying the person you’re with more. With your level of enjoyment going up, so does the level of satisfaction in the sack. The go together hand in hand and every happy couple knows it.
How Did This Happen? – What do you if you find yourself in a sexless relationship? No one ever goes into a relationship hoping there is no sex involved. Here we’re going to talk about what you do if you find yourself in such a situation. It’s not uncommon and you very well may find yourself in a situation like this. Try to identify why you’re not having sex. Did your spouse just give birth or go through a traumatic event? If so, they may simply not be in the mood to have sex.
The Long Road Back – It’s going to be a matter of time before things get back to normal. A traumatic event may also include infidelity. It can be difficult for your partner get the cheating out of their mind. It’s one of the many prices a person ends up paying for being unfaithful. Your partner may be having health problems they haven’t talked about. Men are notorious for keeping health concerns close to the vest. If your man doesn’t want to have sex, he might be having problems getting it up. The reason why you’re not having fun in the sack may be cured by a simple visit to the doctor.
Do You Feel Ok? – Keep an eye on your partner’s health and it may answer the question as to why you’re not having sex. Your relationship may be in need of some work. Usually there are other problems in a relationship when sex stops happening. These problems can ruin a relationship and lead to a divorce or breakup. If you value the relationship you’re in, then you’ve got to do something about this. You’ll want to talk to a marriage councilor and work out your problems. Many people think this is something bad and should be avoided. The worst thing is living in a sexless relationship where other problems also exist. The sex life of a couple is like the canary in a coal mine. The canary will be whistling and enjoying life as long as everything is good. The second things turn bad, then it’s down hill from here.
Can This Be Fixed? – Identify the reason why you’re not having sex and immediately do something about it. If there’s been a traumatic event, then wait it out. Things will more than likely improve as time goes on. If it’s something other than trauma, nip it in the bud and fix your problem. Your relationship is far too valuable to sit around and do nothing.
Differing Sex Drives – How do you cope when your partner has a higher or lower sex drive? Let’s face it, no two people are exactly alike. You’re never going to find anyone with the exact same sex drive as you. Men generally have a higher sex drive than women. This isn’t always the case however. This article is geared towards someone that has a super charged sex drive and their partner doesn’t. What do you do in a situation like this?
Anticipation – The first thing you talk about it and try to have sex more often. As we’ve talked in other articles, you’ve got to plan for sex. This is one way you can get over the hurdle of different sex drives. You can make a schedule that lays out exactly when you’re going to have sex. It’s not instantaneous, but that doesn’t mean this type of sex is boring. In fact, it can be quite the opposite. You can prepare yourself throughout the day for the sex you’ll have later on. Think of it as knowing you’re going to have a steak for supper. Your mouth will water all day long knowing that delicious meat will be on your plate. You’ve tried all of his and you’re still not getting enough sex. What is a person supposed to do? You play with yourself. What else can you do? You don’t want to step out on your relationship and risk putting an end to it.
Weigh The Risks – Disease is always something you have to keep in the back of your mind when cheating. What you’re left with is the only viable option, which is to masturbate. No relationship is perfect in every way. Sex is important, but it’s not a matter of not getting any. It’s simply a matter of not getting enough. A problem that most people with a strong sex drive will have to get used to.
Agree On Terms – What is cheating? It’s a question that doesn’t have a singular answer. Cheating has no definition in a relationship until it’s given one. This is the key thing for everyone to understand when it comes to relationships. What you think of as cheating may not be the same as your partner. This is why it’s important to define the term early on in your relationship. Don’t let a situation arise where hurt feelings may occur over not understanding the level of commitment expected from each other. A kiss or even flirting can be seen as cheating.
Is Playing Ok? – Some couples are okay with the idea of mutual masturbation or even oral sex. While others may totally be comfortable with their partner having sex with someone else. This is why what is cheating needs to be established early on in the relationship. Going behind the back o f your partner is never a good idea. Lies do not make for a solid foundation. Anything other than that will crack at some point and the relationship will be over. What do you think is cheating? Tell your partner and get it out in the open. This is one area that you can’t leave to interpretation.
Trust Is Key – You have to set boundaries or things will eventually get out of hand. Most relationships can’t and won’t last if there are trust issues. It goes far beyond sex and it determines a person’s character. The limits you place will also help in judging your partners honesty. Never think you fully know someone until you actually do.
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