Listen To Me….
Call Me – What do you think would greatly jazz up your masturbation routine? Phone sex, that’s what. If you haven’t tried it, I seriously encourage you to get on the phone sex bandwagon. The sound of another person as they are breathing heavy right into your ear as they are stroking themselves is fantastic. The right partner makes all the difference. If you find someone and are just looking for what I call “hit and run phone sex”, you’re likely going to be disappointed.
Hear Me Roar – If you find someone and chat with them a few times before getting naughty though, you’re much more likely to have a good experience and not as high of a chance of someone hanging up on you and leaving you hanging and wanting more and perhaps having to finish alone. Many people think because they are online and their identities are not revealed that manners do not apply, so they behave accordingly. I shudder to think if they behave the same way to people in their real lives. It’s always much nicer to play with someone you’re familiar with and occasional phone sex partners with than a stranger you anticipate will just be a one time thing.
Sounds Like Fun – A long term phone sex relationship can be a wonderful thing. That’s not to say you’re going to fall in love with them, or them with you, it’s just a comfort thing. You can feel so much more relaxed with someone when you know what to expect and what they expect from you. Phone sex buddies can be like fuck buddies I guess, though I never had one of those. Casual sex isn’t for me, but phone sex, you rarely know the people you play with well usually, so it feels fine to be semi casual with phone partners. Looking online for just the right match for you can be tricky, but it certainly can and does happen, but it can take lots of hunting. Chat rooms are a good place to try and find like minded people looking for the same thing. So check out the chat rooms and see who interests you.