Looking For Love
Seeking Intimacy Online – Not everyone is looking for love when they decide to visit adult chat rooms. Most would laugh at the very idea and question the sensibilities of ones that are. Well, maybe not love, but a connection, a special connection that might evolve into more than just online fun. Some people are very explicit on their profiles they are only looking to chat on the site and will not even give out so much as their Yahoo or Skype. I can’t relate to being that way, but obviously some are since I’ve seen it many times. I guess they know what they want and they aren’t looking for more.
Sexual Begging – Desperation is not attractive, and it’s a sad fact that there’s countless guys that will literally beg you to watch them on cam, have phone sex with them or cyber sex, it’s like the bar at closing time and they have no one to go home and get off with. Yet, it happens a lot. For many I think if finding online fun partners isn’t easy, maybe you need to look at it as a special treat, not an everyday diet, which can be difficult, since once you’ve had it and good, alone simply doesn’t cut it anymore and you always want to share your orgasm.
Close To You – You can find people to be close with online, even if it’s fleeting, which it usually seems to be. Many times one will seek more than the other and then one person stands to get hurt when their online fun partner means more to them than they do to their partner. You can fall in love with people you’ve had fabulous phone sex with many times, sometimes for years, you can want them more than anyone you have in your own real life, but to some of these partners, you are just that, an online masturbation partner and that’s all you will ever be. If only feelings were always returned, things would hurt a lot less for some of us. You just have to keep looking, maybe that perfect partner is out there that will seek the same intimacy you do, you just have to keep looking.