Don’t Be Boring – The idea that sex can become boring sounds almost laughable to those who don’t get laid much. Those who have a healthy sex life know that sex can in fact become boring. It can even feel routine at some point. Sex can easily feel like cooking breakfast. You go through the motions until it’s over and then go to sleep. Sex doesn’t have to be this way. You can be together with your partner for years and sex can still be great.
Things To Try – Here is a short list of things that you can do to spice up your sex life. Keep it exciting and you’ll always enjoy sex. The minute sex becomes boring there’s a problem. Boring sex can be just as bad as getting none at all. Again, that’s probably hard for some to believe who get no action in between the sheets. Role-playing is a great way to unleash the inner actor in you. Give it a try. The gal can be the dirty whore or the guy can be the strict principal. Be creative and even consider doing a little cosplay. There’s no reason why you can’t act out your favorite cartoon characters in the sack. Public sex can always be fun. Just remember to not get caught by the police. It would suck pretty bad to end up in jail. Threesomes can be fun if you’re the type who likes swinging. It’s best to have a threesome with someone who isn’t a close friend. It’ll be awkward the next time that you see them. Adding food to the mix can be a total blast. Just remember to keep it away from the vagina. The addition of anything there can offset the body’s natural bacteria and all that stuff. Simply put: Keep all food away from the pussy. Try a little BDSM. You don’t have to go full force and build a dungeon. Start out small with some silky rope or furry handcuffs. Go all out with the romance. This is fun from time to time. Have a romantic candlelight dinner. Put on some soft music and break out the lingerie. Sometimes going over the top can be very rewarding in the sack. Skip the sex and just enjoy foreplay. Oral sex is a total blast for both him and her. You don’t need to go all the way every time. Suck and lick until both of you get off. Sometimes it’s just more fun that way.
Relax a Little – A drink or two before sex can make it more fun. Keep the drinking at a minimum. You don’t want to end up drunk and knocked up. A couple of drinks can add a new twist to your love making. It’ll make you looser and more apt to trying something new. As you can see there are tons of ways you can spice things up. Don’t let sex get dull and boring. If that happens, you very well could see your sex life dry up. That could have a potentially devastating impact on your relationship. Keep sex fresh and exciting. It’s the best way to ensure that you’ll not only enjoy yourself, but you’ll get more action in the long run.
DTF? – Online dating is now the norm. It’s no longer seen as an illegitimate way of hooking up. As life gets more complex and busy, online dating offers people the chance to mingle without ever having to leave the house. The process couldn’t be easier thanks to smartphones. Now all you have to do is swipe in one direction or the other. This also means that finding casual sex partners is easier than before. You can find and hook up with potentially limitless amount of people. This is definitely good news if you’re the type who’s promiscuous.
Don’t Let a Moment of Fun Cost You Your Health – However, there are some precautions that you should take. That’s what we’re going to talk about here. Sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise in some communities and the cause of this is believed to be dating sites. People are connecting and having sex with greater ease these days. Quite a few of these people aren’t practicing safe sex. This is like committing suicide in today’s world. People think just because HIV isn’t the death sentence it once was that it’s okay to have sex without a condom. It’s true that people are living longer with HIV and other STDs. This is no excuse from not protecting yourself. These diseases will drain you of your very lifeblood. Plus, no one is going to want to fuck you if they hear you’ve got some disease. That’s just a blunt way of saying the truth. Beyond practicing safe sex, you also want to think of your own personal safety as well. Even people with innocent looking smiles have pretty devious intentions. It’s not unheard of for women to be raped and men to be drugged. Robberies and all kinds of physical violence has been encountered by those meeting strangers off of the internet. This isn’t meant to scare anyone. It’s to make you aware that not everyone has the same intent.
Caution and Care – You may just want to have a night filled with sex. A drug addict may want to rob you blind. You don’t know what the other person intends on doing until it’s been done. Your first encounter should be at some place safe. You may even want to nix the idea of sex on the first date. Meet up at a local mall or restaurant. If you’re really wanting to screw, then be safe. Don’t be shy about asking for the person’s full name. You can do a background check online. It may sound like an extreme to get yourself a little piece of action. But, the last thing you want is for it all to turn into something really bad.
Limp As a Dishrag – You’ve got a problem. A limp problem. Your man can’t get his dick up. It makes you feel like shit. What are you doing wrong? That’s what we’re going to talk about here. Women tend to think that a guy’s penis works all the time. This isn’t always the case. There are many reasons why a healthy man may not be able to get hard. Some of those reasons very well could be you. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror before you try to make your man’s cock hard as a rock. What do you look like? Should your man get excited seeing you in your current state? If not, then you need to do something about it.
Pretty Yourself Up – Guys are visual creatures. You need to look good to get his attention. You don’t have to look red carpet great. Just look like someone who’s fuckable. That’s it really. Treat your man like a man. Cook him a nice meal. Pour him a drink. Give him a nice back massage. Life is stressful for men. It’s also stressful for women. You were getting ready to say that. But, we’re talking about men right now. You’re trying to get your man excited, not have a contest to see who’s under more stress. You also need to understand that men and women process stress differently. Lingerie, makeup, and perfume are all important. Doll yourself up and that should get his attention. If it doesn’t, then you need to figure out what the problem is. Maybe he’s just tired or has an undiagnosed medical condition. That can happen.
It’s Not Me, It’s YOU – If you’re trying your hardest to make his dick hard and it doesn’t work, then there’s a real problem. You need to sit down and talk about it. This is a very touchy subject for a lot of people. It’s understandable that some of this may sound sexist. Arousing a man can sound very sexist to a woman who’s overly sensitive about her own sexuality. Men think like men. There’s nothing at all wrong with that. You’re not getting action in the sack. We’re trying to solve that. He may need some of those blue pills or you very well need to change things. It can be your fault. But, there can be other reasons as well. Go out there and try to give him a boner that will chip a tooth. If it doesn’t work, both of you should go to the doctor and talk to them about it.
Looking For Love, No Matter Your Age – It may surprise some people that a growing community of senior citizens exist online. Each and every day there are more older people going to the internet to do many things. Computing technology has changed over the past decade. Everyone has the iPhone to thank for that. Today it’s possible to surf the internet with a device that literally fits in the palm of your hand. Never before has the internet been so accessible to people from all corners of the globe. The world of dating may seem frightening if you’re an older person. It shouldn’t be.
Be Yourself – Older people can use many of the same dating sites that younger people use. There are even dating sites that are geared towards older people. The fact is, there are sites that focus on just about any type of person you may be looking for. Do you live in a rural farming community? If so, there’s even a dating site for you. Here is a short list of tips for anyone who may be considering online dating: Don’t give too much information in your profile. You don’t need to give them your address or anything like that. Just tell potential dates about yourself. Be honest and straightforward. You should be clear what you’re looking for in a partner. Post up to date pictures in your profile. You don’t need to go over the top and dress like you’re on the red carpet. You also don’t want to use a picture that’s thirty years old. Just imagine the shocked look on their face when they see you don’t actually look like that any more. Use your cam and talk before meeting. Sure, you can talk on the phone. Seeing the person is much better. Most smartphones and laptops have cams. You can use free software like Skype to connect and talk with each other. You should take a look at the person before meeting them.
New Ways to Meet – You’d be surprised by how much you can pick up about a person from seeing and talking to them. Meet each other in a public place. Restaurants are fantastic places to meet. So are bowling alleys and shopping malls. You don’t want to put yourself at risk by inviting them to your home. Never trust anyone who you don’t know. Just because they seem nice online doesn’t mean they aren’t a crook. Always practice safe sex. Even though pregnancy isn’t an issue, that doesn’t mean you’re home free. Sexually transmitted diseases are what you’re concerned about. Use a condom. At this point in your life you know how to use one. Protect yourself and learn about your new partner. Go get tested if you want to not use protection. Each day older people are connecting and forming relationships. It may surprise the younger generations that these relationships are budding as the result of online dating. Love is precious no matter how old you are. Every person deserves to experience the joy of being in love. No person, regardless of age, should ever deny themselves of this wonderful thing.
How About You? – How often does the average couple have sex? Most guys think they’re not having enough sex. If they only knew how little action the average guy gets. Couples have sex anywhere from once a week to just one time per month. That’s the normal range for the typical couple. Think about that for just a second. Do you get laid that often? If so, you should consider yourself lucky. It’s not uncommon for new couples to have sex all the time. The sex tends to tamper down as the relationship grows. Kids play another factor in that. Family life can be very draining. It eats up your time and all of your energy. Life has a way of getting in between couples and sex.
Make Sex a Priority – Gone are the days of 9-5 jobs. It used to be that couples worked the same hours. It was just a few short decades ago that women debated about working outside of the home. Sex was a whole lot easier when the old lady was home and dinner was on the table. Today, lives are busy and couples are far apart from each other. How many times a month do you get laid? More than four? If so, you’re in the minority. Less than once and you’ve got a problem. Don’t shoot for sex every day of the week. It’s not possible for most couples these days.
Don’t Let it Slide – A few times a week is optimum for new couples. As you age the number will go down. This is natural and you shouldn’t be alarmed by it. You should only be alarmed if the sex dries up completely. Sex has an ebb and flow to it. You may get laid more during vacations or holidays. Times that are stressful may produce less results in the sack. A healthy relationship is one that fluctuates in the amount of sex you have. Nothing in life is truly consistent. Don’t be surprised if the action in the bedroom isn’t.
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