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I Can Go Either Way – One thing many have remarked about Climax Connection is how many gay and bisexual members we have, especially the ladies. I am glad we make them feel comfortable and free to explore and be themselves here. Many online I find are much more adventurous than they would actually be in their real, everyday lives. Much more open to exploring fantasies and scenarios, often with ones of the same sex.
Let’s Try It Out – Many guys I have chatted with over the years have either had cam sex or phone sex with other guys, and likely unknowingly had cyber sex as well with men masquerading as other women. Some though knowingly have, yet wouldn’t necessarily in their normal lives have anything to do with such same sex explorations. I’ve joked to some that it’s perhaps since there’s many more men online looking for online fun than women, that it’s like prison. They aren’t really looking for other men to play with, but with women being in shorter supply, they turn towards other men, who’s available, and make do.
Trust Me You’ll Like It – Some women that are bi or lesbian can be as pushy as men I have found if they have set their caps for you. They will be very pushy trying to get a straight one to play with and really try and convince you that you are only reluctant since you haven’t tried it before, that once you see the gates of heaven open once you play with them, you’ll never be straight anymore! I’ve never phoned with another woman personally, but I have considered it as something interesting to try, who knows…A site like this is a safe playground for ones to explore their fantasies on and we welcome people of all orientations and want them to find what turns them on, even if it’s not something they may act on in their real lives.
Let’s Get Naked – Webcam sex is an interest to many people, it’s as close to actual sex as you can get online. The two of you both masturbating together and for each other and talking to each other, you can’t get much closer than that to the real thing. Many men are born exhibitionists it seems and LOVE to show off and masturbate for the ladies, and likely for other guys they aren’t aware are actually guys.
Watch Me Masturbate – Ones that have been blessed by nature to have a larger than average cock seem to feel it’s their duty to show this to as many people as possible, they are proud of their “gift” and flashing online even to ones that have not asked to see it nor want to see it is one of their greatest goals. Right here in our own climaxconnection chat rooms, guys all the time “cam bomb” people and you’ve got unasked for dick in face. They think, “How you could you NOT want to see my magnificent penis I have been given? How could you NOT want to see me masturbate for you?” I take great fun in outing such “cam bombers”. I’m all for ones having as much cam sex as they’d like, but at least ask before you turn on your cam and penis to unsuspecting people!
Mutual Masturbation – When two people decide to masturbate together or even just one watch the other, that’s wonderful. Our chat rooms here have free built in audio and video chat for ones that might be a bit uncomfortable, or impatient, to give out their Yahoo or Skype ID’s to another person. Guys are very visual and adore watching a lady pleasure herself for them on cam. Unlike many sites, we do not tolerate paid cam girls here, we are not on the take, do not take kickbacks to allow them to flourish and never will. They ruin sites like this and it simply will not be allowed. They are banned on first report. Cam girls have their place online and deserve to make a living, but let the clients go find them on their paid sites, not come here and fish for them. Here is for free, mutual fun only.
Erotic Chat – If you enjoy erotic chat, than an adult chat site like this one is a good place for you to find some other naughty like minded others to chat with on. Chat rooms are a wonderful place to find partners on if you’ve been looking for hot cyber sex, phone sex partners or web cam sex partners. Many also like sexting on their cell phones and haven’t found anyone to play with on other sites they frequent.
Naughty Talk – Some visitors to erotic chat websites like to keep things separate from their regular lives and are hesitant to exchange online ID’s for their Skype or Yahoo and prefer to keep things online only, by messaging to each others inbox or chatting in the chat rooms. It depends on people’s comfort levels and their level of paranoia. Some would be insulted to be called paranoid, but some are. It only takes one run in with a nut case online to sour you against others, even though they wouldn’t ever do anything bad to you.
Adult Chat Rooms – An erotic chat room isn’t only for naughty talk with potential partners, but fun and flirty adult conversations about all kinds of topics. It’s fun to come and unwind in an adult chat room after a long day at work and let loose. All kinds of things get discussed, fun things, current events and of course dirty jokes and funny stories as well. Cyber sex is a great release for many that are not into phone sex or that simply may not have the privacy for it if they are worried about being overheard. Erotic chat is a fun diversion for many people these days, so enjoy all that our chat rooms have to offer today!
Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.
Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.
Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!
Let’s Meet – Now obviously it goes without saying a site like this one is mainly meant for online fun. Finding phone sex, cyber sex, web cam sex and sexting partners. However some people do seek real life meets on a site like this even though it’s not your average or technically speaking, a dating site. In the forums we do have a section for ones looking for real life sexual encounters.
Can We Make This Work – Most want to keep things online strictly online, many don’t even wish to exchange phone numbers or even chat on yahoo or Skype. They truly want to keep things only online. For ones that may get bit attached and the other not, that can prove a problem. Many are looking for casual sex and although we are not a hook up site like some are, I’m sure some have likely met with ones they found here and had fun with them if that’s what they are both looking for.
Dating Sites – Many true dating sites you wouldn’t think attract ones looking for casual sex, but trust me, they are. I have gotten countless message on genuine dating sites, not online fun sites and the guys were only looking for casual sex. Some dating sites even have an intimate encounters section for ones looking for that. Yes, there’s always an element of concern when meeting an online person, but you could meet a real nutjob at WalMart or the grocery store as well, and seeing as most people are online, it’s not really any greater a risk than meeting someone at a bar.
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