You Too Can Have Phone Sex – Many people ask me how they can have phone sex if they have never done it before. There is no right or wrong way to have phone sex, what might arouse another person to the point of frenzy may very well leave the next person cold. Sexual interests are as varied as ice cream flavors, something different for every taste. Many first timers, ones who’ve never phoned before are often reluctant to phone, nervous as to how they will be, especially with a more experienced partner. First timers can be just as exciting and arousing to listen to as ones at it for years.
Sexy Is As Sexy Does – If you sound sexy, it doesn’t matter if you’re inexperienced. I’ve had some very hot partners that never phoned with anyone until I corrupted them. LOL…..They were plenty hot. It seems to be an innate talent some have. I think ones that are good at communication can be good at it, since they have a good vocabulary and descriptive ability to begin with likely. Some calls with some phone sex partners can be ret hot without even much talking at all, the breathing and moaning and panting can be more than enough with the right people.
Some Will Just Be Too Shy – Try as some might, they will always be best suited to cyber, they are just too shy to talk or verbalize to another person as they masturbate. Whether due to inexperience or just overall shyness. It is such a hot hobby though, I full encourage ones to try phone sex and see what they have been missing. Once you find a few good partners, or even just one, you will wish you’d been into it years ago and wonder why you waited.
Sex Sounds For You – Visual porn not for everyone, for some it’s just mechanical, fake and crude. Audio can be honest, arousing and genuine. For ones aroused by sounds over visuals, and many times visually impaired people are big fans of erotic audios, the heavy breathing, panting and moaning of another in the throes of orgasm, or someone with a sexy voice telling an erotic story is better than any porn video.
Ohhhh, You Sound Hot – The right kinds of sounds can make you hard or wet within mere seconds. Some do love the body rubbing, wet pussy squishy sounds, or a hard cock being rubbed with a well lubed hand, some like those body rubbing sounds. Must be awful to be deaf and never know such erotic sounds your lover could make when you play their body like a musical instrument. You don’t need to actually be with a lover to enjoy their sounds, phone sex and long distance lovers go a long way to enhance our masturbation.
Tell Me A Story – Some boys never outgrow the love of being told a bedtime story. When they get older though, it’s usually a hot story to listen to as they masturbate when they can’t find someone to phone with, or just to get aroused and highly turned on. Couples can even use erotic audios to enhance their lovemaking, quite a different choice than your soothing jazz many would choose. Almost like a different kind of threesome. So lay back, close your eyes, and relax as you listen to the sexy sounds and stories of another.
Tell Me A Story – Erotic short fiction can be just the fan to flame your already smoldering desire and enhance your masturbation experience. Maybe the next time you have a passionate evening planned, try reading a few naughty stories before hand and see just how much more aroused you become when you’ve read the naughty scenarios and are primed to play afterwards. Erotica is one of the earliest and most creative forms of “porn”. You are painting a picture with your words and descriptions and your mind plays out the little movie that it creates, arousing you.
Erotica Stokes Your Desire – Many men are obviously into the visuals that are porn, a lot of women though and many men, enjoy a good, racy story. It’s exciting to read what another person has written that they find sexually arousing that you can then play out with your own mind visualizing it. You can easily become wet or hard while reading erotica without even touching yourself, merely imagining the things you are reading about. That it is you in the role that is being seduced and teased. Way back before the internet, when porn wasn’t just a click away, to find a racy book would be a real treat and in many cases was all you’d have to enhance your masturbation.
Written Masturbation Material – I can’t even count the number of times after school I’d “borrow” one of my mom’s naughty books and masturbate to the same few pages of my favorite sections over and over. Before the internet, these were the things we did. We managed with what we had and were grateful for anything in the least bit naughty. Many have said romance novels are like porn for women, and some such books can have very arousing and graphic passages, that no doubt many have masturbated with. Erotic short stories are an excellent way to spice up your masturbation!
Tell Me You Love Me – People look for different sorts of interactions when they look online for fun partners. Most are just looking for a fun, good and casual time. Many are happy with one time encounters, like horny ships passing in the night. Others are looking for longer term pairings, where if they are horny they can go back to one another again and again, some such pairings can literally last for years. I was a bit shocked when recently my longest term phone partner of 5 years said I’d been in his life longer than any real life girlfriend he’d had.
I Want You – Some partners for phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex can get involved in each others lives to a degree, others are more secretive and without much real life info from their online partners. Worried about privacy or stalkers or any number of things infringing on their offline life. It can be awkward when one starts to feel more deeply than the other one does and in fact they can fall in love with their online partner. I’d heard many times about the “girlfriend experience”, but one said recently some girls were seeking a “boyfriend experience”. They want an online boyfriend to be there for them, tell them they love them, and sometimes seek offline real encounters as well, and sad to say most guys are only seeking online fun, and are not looking to carry things over into real life.
Online Better Than Real – Many times what we see online is the best of someone, the sexy, adorable side of someone and we grow to fall for them and idealize them. We don’t know what they are really like in their day to day life, we only know what they have chosen to reveal to us, and when all we see is the good and sexy part, it’s not that hard to fall for some of them. Sadly, some of us get hurt in such a situation. Some guys can get scared and flee when an online girl they play with gets “clingy”. I’ve heard this many times from guys. Many guys enjoy bringing an element of realism into especially phone sex play and talk about real life meetings, “Oh wouldn’t it be hot…”, yet when you buy into it and agree to go along, boy do some of them run scared. It’s cruel to lead someone on. Many girls and ladies are emotional sorts and can indeed fall for the online Casanova’s out there and get hurt when things don’t progress as we’d like them to.
50 Shades Of Naughty – Have you and your lover been looking for more exciting ways to get each other going? Maybe some sex toys might get you more aroused than just the same old normal routine. BDSM is something more and more couples are exploring and delving into these days. Missionary in the dark is fine, but for ones that want to put a bit more va va voom in their sex life, it might be worth exploring to see how you like it.
Tie Me Up, Please – Many times couples get into a sexual rut and need some variety to spice things up, after all, even steak every night can become boring. Toys, restraints, cuffs, all serve to further fantasy and roleplay that many find make things a lot more arousing than the same old routine. Many movies and books have storylines that might inspire you or excite you in ways you didn’t imagine would get your juices flowing. The 80’s classic “9 1/2 Weeks” has some very arousing scenes in it that might inspire you to kick things up a notch with your lover.
Please Sir, Give Me More – It can be very seductive to hand over control of your orgasm to another and have them make you beg for it, having them bring you to the brink and back again until you can’t take anymore. Give it to your lover across the backside with a riding crop. Being tied up can be very erotic. Blindfolding your lover can bring an element of surprise to each and every touch. Make them quiver and flinch! Submission and domination can be very sexy role reversals we are not used to in our everyday lives. Often seeking the opposite position to that which we normally hold.
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