So Many Miles Apart – What are people to do if they meet online and they live far apart from each other? Sometimes things can start innocently enough. You find someone to have phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex with and then it can evolve and real feelings develop. If all you are seeking is a casual weekend or a week long hookup, I guess you could always meet on vacation or something, but long distance relationships that develop can be hard on both people.
Don’t Measure The Distance, Measure The Love – One will be expected to uproot their life for the other and many times that will cause a resentment. Some may have no problem going any which way the wind blows and picking their lives up, but for others, it’s just not a consideration. The longing you can feel when you make such an online love connection can be intense and bittersweet, to know their life is there and yours is here and never the two shall meet. If only…….Ones that live nearby can be of no interest and ones far away can make it seem as though the sun rises and sets on them.
Love Across The World – Especially after sharing so many intimacies over the phone or on cam, you can really develop feelings for someone and it’s hard to come to terms with the fact that in reality that is all it will likely ever be. It can go on for years and that will still be all there ever really is between you. There is a saying, “A bird and a fish can fall in love, but where will they live?” I guess in today’s world a lot of people do uproot their lives for another person. It’s unthinkable for some though. So you either resign yourself to regular journeys to stay with each other for short periods or change your life drastically.
Bigger Is Better – Are you a plus sized gal that’s always worried about her size and wonder if guys will like you? Don’t worry, there are plenty of guys that go for big girls and adore having sex with them. A softer, more voluptuous body can feel a lot better than a boney one. Most guys adore bigger breasts and a bigger ass to go along with it. And they feel they don’t have to be as gentle thrusting into a bigger girl than some scrawny twig they fear they may injure. More cushion to the pushin’ ideed!
More To Love – Sex should be enjoyable no matter our size. Many times you may find a bigger girl has a big appetite in all areas, a lusty, earthy disposition in all areas is usual in many cases. A good sized appetite for food and sex, all pleasures of the flesh are to be enjoyed and cherished. I can think of several larger people off the top of my head and they all had big appetites across the board, for food, alcohol and sex. Very earthy folks…And I have heard a gynocological nurse say bigger girls have tighter pussies too. The Dr.’s many times have to use a smaller speculum in bigger girls since the weight and size pushes them closer together inside making them feel tighter.
Squeeze Me – When you think of someone so skinny, that Victoria Beckham comes to mind, one guy I chat with refers to her as “The Stick Insect”, you just can’t imagine anyone so thin having much energy for sex, they’d be too hungry and the guy might crack a rib or something on her! Some men even like supersized gals and have a fetish for them. One told me he loved girls over 400 lbs, now that’s very big for sure, double what most guys would weigh. People do have their different tastes though for sure. So don’t feel bad if you’re a big girl, lots of guys are loving to tap that!
Bend Me Over Baby – In the last 20 years there has been a marked rise in the number of couples experimenting with anal sex. The rise of home porn accessibility has made it seem like a more normal sexual activity since it is being viewed more. With familiarity comes acceptance. It is the most dangerous sexual activity out there due to the higher chance of disease transmission, but that doesn’t stop the rise in the number of backdoor action fans out there. Most men want to do it, not just because of its taboo nature, but because of the tightness.
Anal Explorations – So is backdoor fun for you? Well if you think it is, you’d better use lube, and plenty of it. The very tightness men crave is right there waiting for them, tighter than the tightest pussy. Men love to get it once in a while as well, ask your guy how he feels about a strap on. Many go wild for the prostate stimulation that it provides, yet not many women are comfortable giving it to the guy that way, so lots of guys have a secret stash of toys they use alone since they know there’s no point in asking their women to do them.
Peg My Ass – Some women however relish the idea of become a Mistress in their own bedroom and taking the sexual reigns and being the aggressor and have no issue with strap on play. Some like to turn their men into their bitch and thoroughly pound them. More times than not though, anal sex is seen as the man fucking the woman. As long as you’re safe and as long as everyone agrees to said activity, have at it. Bottoms up….
Last Longer – It seems Mother Nature in one her many tricks upon mankind made men stronger, but gave women better stamina. I always find it amusing how I can outlast guys half my age when it comes to orgasms. So many, most, are one and they’re done wonders. Not many can go multiple rounds. Some can yes, and they are my favorites for sure. I guess for some guys an orgasm does deplete them of their strengths. You always think of the silly advice of coaches telling their players not to have sex before a big game, perhaps there’s something to that.
Go For It – Women on the other hand, can often feel invigorated and ready to take on more, it can be a getting a second wind situation that perks us up. Funny how we have been built so differently in many cases that way. If it’s that way with most half my age, I don’t even want to think how the ones my own age or older are even beginning to satisfy their ladies. I guess they aren’t. Depressing. Granted some women don’t have the drive or the interest in the first place, but some of us do and for ones like us, it’s hard to find a partner that can keep up with us.
Sexual Endurance – So when we stamina filled women do come across one of the rare men that can keep up with us, it is a treat to be sure. To be left exhausted, breathless and spent is the most wonderful feeling! No, I can’t bench press heavy weights like many guys can, but then, I don’t think there’s many guys that can cum 7 times in 90 minutes either…….Um, I like my skill better!
Isn’t It Romantic – Valentine’s Day can be very romantic for one if they are part of a couple. If alone, not so much. It can actually make you bitter and angry! Looking at all the couples hand in hand and swooning over one another to the single person can make them pretty much go, “Barf, gag!” Lovely dovey is nice if you’re one of them, lonely if you’re not. Many that are couples they can still feel alone, you have no idea how many people I talk to that are part of a couple yet are “alone” in sexless relationship.
Love Is In The Air – If you are lucky enough to be in a healthy, satisfying relationship, do what you can to keep it that way and keep it fresh and exciting and filled with hot sex and spontaneity. There’s no need to spend lots of money, as some have been doing. Many say it’s becoming like Christmas, too commercialized and benefiting mainly greeting card companies, and florists and candy factories. A lovely dinner at home or out can be just fine for couples on a budget. There’s no need to spend a fortune and go into debt.
I Love You SO Much – Valentine’s Day has also been one of the most popular days for couples to get engaged. Love is just in the air surrounding that time and many of us hope Cupids arrow will hit our intended target. I recall once I made pink heart shaped sugar cookies for a guy I had a crush on and had my mom deliver them, oh God, I wince at such antics… I didn’t get him anyway, but I tried. I thought the cookies were appropriate and got the point across.
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