Online Friends – What sorts of people visit adult chat rooms on holidays such as Christmas and New Year’s Eve? Ones that may not have lots of plans with friends and family, or ones that have had enough of holiday social responsibilities. Many people that visit chat rooms are not just there because they are horny and looking for some sort of sexual action. They look at their chat room of choice to be their online hang out of sorts. The day of the year matters not. There is usually the same core group of people there pretty well everyday for some part of the day or the other.
Companionship For The Lonely – For some people that work at home, like myself, they can often have the chat room window open in the background on their computer screen and check on it from time to time. I recall years ago the first chat room I used to frequent some must have thought me a masturbation addict as I’d have it open over 16 hours a day! I was there to look for fun yes, but also had my computer on every waking minute for business, so that was just one of the many tabs I had open on a constant basis. But not everyone works from home or even considers ones that do, so they think you have nothing better to do, but people have many different reasons for being in them so frequently that are regulars.
Talk To Me – I was surprised some that visit adult chat rooms are not all there waiting for private messages, some do not even wish to be messaged privately and are only there for the group experience of chatting in the main room. Many people may not have large circles of friends in their everyday lives and the chat rooms provide the interaction and social time they need to feel a part of things. Some may have disabilities, or be very shy, or no way to get out if they don’t drive etc. and it can be a very good thing for them to be able to communicate with others they otherwise would not have the opportunity to interact with. Adult chat rooms serve different purposes for different people. They make the world a bit less lonely for many individuals.
I’ve Got A Secret – If you have a partner, should you tell them about your forays into online fun? This is a common question and worry I read about in forums about people in relationships. I have seen profiles with text on them that said things like, “Got a gf now, so long everyone!”
Life’s A Banquet And Most Poor Bastards Are Starving – I guess if many find real life fun, the draw of online fun lessens. Real trumps imagined. Many in real relationships though are not getting much sex, either due to lack of interest on their partners part, health issues of their partner, boredom, all kinds of reasons. Online fun is a much needed outlet for many individuals not getting any, or not getting enough at home. Should a partner worry or feel threatened, 99% of the time, not at all. Variety is the spice of life and if people are content to remain in sexless relationships, they at least need some outlet to express their sexuality in. Whether that’s cyber sex, phone sex, camming, or simply hanging out in adult chat rooms at all.
Take Your Pleasure Where You Find It – There was a forum post I answered recently some place and this poor bastard was feeling guilty since he was into cam sex and his wife would only give him sex 5-6 times a year. How insane he should feel guilty over that! It’s sad how many are living lives of quiet desperation and guilt over nothing. Everyone has the right to private lives, you do not owe full disclosure to anyone. Enjoy yourself and get your enjoyment where you can. An adult chat room or online fun is nothing to feel guilty about unless it’s making you forgo other routine activities you are a part of.
On the first day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
A crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the second day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the third day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the fourth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the fifth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the sixth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the seventh day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the eighth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the ninth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Nine little dicks,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the tenth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Ten gooey footjobs,
Nine little dicks,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the eleventh day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Eleven voyeurs spying,
Ten gooey footjobs,
Nine little dicks,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee.
On the twelfth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Twelve perverts perving,
Eleven voyeurs spying,
Ten gooey footjobs,
Nine little dicks,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven cock suckers,
Six glory holes,
Five big cock rings,
Four strap ons,
Three masturbators,
Two panty boys,
And a crossdresser in a pink tee!
Merry Christmas!
How Many Have You Done The Deed With – Should you tell your partner how many partners you have been with? This is a common thing that comes up early on in relationships some are worried about. The only time I think you should answer this truthfully is if the answer is none. Someone deserves to know if they are about to go where no man has gone before. They may not be ready for the responsibility of that title bestowed upon them. Otherwise, no good can come of revealing such a thing.
Keep Your Mouth Shut – The old double standard is alive and well, and a truthful answer may have a guy thinking you are a slut if you’re honest with them. Just the other day a guy I was chatting with stated he’d been with over 100 women, and he’s under age 30. May be true, may be not true, but I was not impressed. Imagine if a woman stated such an answer. Who would honestly say they wouldn’t first think “slut”?
Do They Really Need To Know – We really do not have a right to judge others, we do not know the circumstances that brought them to have as many or as few partners as is socially acceptable. For ones that are very open, the types perhaps into the swinger lifestyle, a high number of partners and revealing of the experiences that goes with that may prove very arousing to both parties, to others it may color their perception of us and make us question their fidelity. Do you REALLY want to know “the number”? Wouldn’t it just taunt you and perhaps worse, be used as future ammunition in arguments? As long as both people are disease free and willing to prove that if asked, revealing numbers of any sort is not the way to go. What is an acceptable number for one person, may be a staggering amount to another. Some things really are best left under our hats.
Online Hook Ups – For many people, being part of an adult social network like this site allows them to explore things they either have not had the opportunity to in real life, or things they haven’t the nerve to try in real life. Looking for play online is often a fact of life when either one has no partner at all, or when the partner they do have is not as sexual a person as they are and they are needing to fulfill a need not being met by their partner.
Masturbation Cyber Style – Some people look at it as cheating, others not. Many couples are very open and seek online fun together, either alone by themselves, or together to spice things up. Being friendly online to some is just a much safer way of playing around with no risk of disease. Even if I had a partner, and they were ok with my playing around online, I’d prefer to keep that to myself. It’s private and my own little naughty, harmless secret, I wouldn’t want to make that part of my couple life. The need for variety is great and if they too were playing online with others, I wouldn’t want to know about it at all. Ever.
Help Me Get Off – Most people that phone, cam, cyber together will never, ever really meet. Of course there are exceptions, but mostly it’s not a worry. So for a partner to take that need for variety as a threat to their relationship is groundless most of the time. It’s occasional escapism with a sexual twist, and that’s how they need to view it, nothing more, nothing less. Now if a partner was camming every night for 3 hours or something and taking away from their relationship time, then that is an addictive behavior, but if it’s in moderation, say a few times a week, then I’d say it’s a fun excursion in their sexual life with no need to worry about it.
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