Introduce Yourself – The importance of profile pages on an adult community website cannot be underestimated. If someone can’t even be bothered to upload an avatar, the chances they will fill out an interesting profile are not great either.
What Are You Looking For – This is your “resume” for the naughty world, listing your personal likes and dislikes and what exactly you are looking for on a site like this. People cannot read minds, they need to know what you are looking for to see if they are a match for your interests. You get out of a site like this what you put into it. If you have a detailed, interesting profile, some pictures, not even ones of yourself, but things you find of interest, participate in the forums and chat rooms, messaging others, if you put forth effort, you will likely find fun and entertainment there given enough hunting. If you create a username and have one sentence on your page, if that, what can you expect?
Let Your Personality Shine – Personalization, links to songs you like on Youtube, entertaining poems etc. Let people know about you and what you’re like. It’s like an online room of yours to decorate to show off your tastes. Make it inviting, share something different about yourself ones might not expect, something that will make you and your profile stand out. It’s online, it’s usually fairly anonymous, this isn’t Facebook, your boss and mom are not reading it, so I personally find you can be even more yourself than if everyone knew it was you. I don’t understand why ones feel the need to lie online. I find it much easier to be my real, true self. Feeling free to say things I’d never have the nerve to face to face. Be yourself, be real, don’t use your real pics if that’s not something you’re comfortable with, but put forth some effort and find what you seek.
Knock Knock – Lack of privacy for masturbation in a shared environment is something many people have to deal with on a regular basis. Often when one goes away to college and has a roommate for the first time this can prove troublesome. I used to mercilessly tease someone I chatted with that was going away to college as this was a real concern of his. I told him he’d be out walking looking for back alleys to jerk off behind dumpsters to get some privacy. He freaked out when I said his roommate was doing it as he slept in the bed next to him. It was so fun to tease and play on his worries!
Are You Alone – One I phoned with used to go out in his car, another went into a closet that still lived at home. I used to tell the one in the car, he’d drive out to the woods, I told him one night he was going to get his car stuck out there and was going to have to call a tow truck and how embarrassing it would be to explain what he’d been doing out there at 3 AM! I told him shortly after meeting his new roommate, they just be matter of fact about the matter and sit down calmly and create an “alone time” masturbation schedule. He was mortified, and I was laughing at his discomfort. Luckily I have never had a roommate to contend with, but joking aside, it is a problem. Many I have wanted to phone with were paranoid roommates might hear them talking, or they would only do it when the roommate were out of the shared quarters entirely.
Is Someone Watching – This is a real concern to many going away to college for the first time. The thought of being caught if someone walks in on them, there are some very funny real life tales online of experiences like this, getting caught masturbating, funny now but not at the time.
Look At This – Something many look for at an adult chat site is a partner for cam sex, otherwise known as cam to cam, or c2c. Guys are not only very visual by nature, but I am convinced most have an exhibitionist streak by default. I cannot count the number of guys that ask me daily if I would like to watch them perform on cam for me. Many also ask if I’d like to cam with them, as in show myself as I masturbate at the same time. It’s just not for me, so I decline.
Free Cam Sex – I have spoken to a number of guys that have been blackmailed after cam sex shows they gave or that there has been an attempt at blackmail if the guys show their face or if they have their real name on their Yahoo or Skype. I jokingly said they should wear a mask like Zorro to conceal their face, but if you don’t know someone, I’d suggest setting up a Yahoo of Skype account under a dummy name so your actual name isn’t revealed. Most times you don’t need to worry about people doing something crazy, but it only takes one nut to ruin a lot.
Watch Me Masturbate – The excitement of watching another masturbate as you do yourself for some is extremely arousing, close-ups of dripping cocks and pussies and shooting cum for many proves irresistible and they want to watch and be seen. Many guys also enjoy masturbating with other guys and are not always seeking a female to get off with on cam. There is something to be said for variety for sure. If you are comfortable with your body and like to show off, maybe cam sex is just the ticket for you to spice up your masturbation routine.
Voice Your Opinions – Many adult chat sites also offer adult forums for the site users to ask questions and answer them in. Forums make asking and answering fun and fresh for people. You’d likely be too embarrassed to ask or answer some questions in your real life with people that know your real identity, but adult chat sites for a great many users are private. They do not always use their own pictures, so they are safe behind their online identity they have created without fear of ones in their life knowing they are on a site like that.
What Have You To Say – Many fun and entertaining questions can be asked and answered in forums under every topic under the sun. People can ask website related questions and get answers from the site owners as to what is happening. Announcements can be made like a bulletin board of sorts, forums serve all sorts of useful purposes on a website. A true adult community benefits from a well put together and varied forum. The exchange of ideas and useful answers, as well as entertaining and silly ones, can be a must have addition to any adult community website.
What Do You Think Of That – Website owners that care about their sites monitor forum posts daily to see what users are happy or unhappy with. A user driven site must keep those users happy to keep coming back. If they realize a site is run by an owner and mods that don’t seem to care, or listen to their ideas, why should they themselves care? Forums are like an online town hall meeting, a place for everyone to exchange ideas to make the site better and useful for everyone involved.
Find Someone To Talk To – For ones looking for adult chat sites, it can be a pretty difficult thing to find just the right site for you. You can try out different sites, yet not find the right mix of users you are looking for. It takes the right mix of individuals there on a regular basis to help a community grow.
Are You Lonely – What sorts of people are looking to chat on adult chat sites? All kinds. People think adult chat is nothing but horny people. Nothing could be further from the truth. Many just like adult conversation and talk about everything from naughty chat to politics to entertainment to current events. You can really let loose in a chat room and let your humor and personality shine. Many shy people excel in chat rooms, since they are too shy in their real lives to show their true personalities and become the life of the party. Adult chat rooms are often a great place for hams to showcase their eccentric personalities.
Let’s Chat – Yes, chat tends to be a bit blue and naughty, as most in private messages are there looking for fun it the phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex arenas, but in the open chat rooms there can be a lot of humor and interesting exchange of ideas. It’s an online party of sorts. Many may not be party people in real life, yet feel they can be their true selves in the confines of an anonymous chat room with other adults. An adult community website is truly user driven. If you don’t have the core group of entertaining regular visitors, it won’t gel and come together as you want it to. It’s important to have good mix of people to make it like the online party that it really is.
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