Please, I’m Begging You!

This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.

Not Tonight – Handling rejection in the bedroom can be a difficult thing. Men often take it personally when a woman tells them they don’t want to try something new. Neither party should take it personally when the other doesn’t want to have a new experience. The other person may very well be nervous about the idea. Maybe they really do want to try anal sex. But, they’re just a little too freaked out about it to actually do it.

Please, Can We Do It? – You first need to understand why your partner said no. It’s possible their “no” wasn’t exactly what it sounded like it. It very well could be that they either aren’t ready or they aren’t in the mood right now. What do you do if your partner flat out says no? The first thing you don’t do is freak out. You should figure out why they’re saying no to begin with. If it really is no and they have no interest, drop it. Don’t beg or put on some kind of show. Just deal with the fact that they don’t want to try something. You can hope that some day maybe they’ll change their mind. If they don’t, then move on.

No Means No – Don’t be one of these people that keep begging and being an asshole. Take no for what it means and find something that they’ll be up for. Boundaries are important in the bedroom. It’s also important that your partner know that you respect their boundaries. Without this respect a relationship can’t survive and thrive.

Tags: boundaries, relationships