Sex Toys for Adults
One of the biggest kept secrets hidden in many a bedroom around the country is just how many people enjoy adding a few toys to increase their pleasurable relaxation time. It’s something that people often think they need to kept concealed, yet once someone in a group of friends lets slip about what could be found at the bottom of their wardrobe on in their nightstand, it’s generally a great surprise to hear that everyone else has something just as interesting.
So why do we worry about whether we enjoy using sex toys? Mostly it stems from the idea that sex is something wrong, that it is only ever something to be engaged in if you are actively wanting to have children. While there are still people who have this view, maybe even you, it certainly doesn’t mean that you can’t have a screaming orgasm while you’re trying (or not trying) to procreate.
Fun Games Outside The Bedroom
While we’ve all heard of vibrator’s and blow up dolls, and probably a few of the more standard range of adult toys, one that every could should look a little more closely at is remote controlled eggs or bullet vibrators, with some excellent reviews to be found on Tempting Alice here.
These are small, discreet and generally portable, which means that you and your partner can have all sorts of fun. The only place you really shouldn’t be using this is while driving, but it is certainly a way to spice up school productions, visits to the in-laws or church (there’s nothing against it in the bible).
As with all sex games, set a few rules up first, and although it isn’t strictly a BDSM game, having a safe word could come in handy if you suddenly have to answer a phone call which kills the mood. Using your safe word just because your mother has phoned probably doesn’t count, that would be a grin and bare it moment.
If you have a slightly more adventurous group of friends it could even become a party game, with one person from each couple inserting one of the little friendly devices, and the remain members of the couple getting a lucky dip on the remote controls. Enjoy a nice meal out with a great group of friends, a few wines, and see where the night takes you. Do make sure to tip your server well for keeping a straight face while serving a table full of giggling frisky adults.
Worldwide Connections
Another use for sex toys that people often don’t think about is when you have a travelling partner, or you are separated for whatever reason. Phone calls may keep the contact alive, and video calls are a wonderful way to keep in contact, but what about if you through a vibrator that can be activated no matter where in the world your partner is? Learn more about it here.
Yes, such things do now exist! Long gone are the days of the only option in sex toy being a carved wooden dildo, now your partner can let you know they’re hoping to see you naked and on screen by giving you a remote thrill when you’re least expected it.
You can get options for vaginal insertion, anal insertion or clitoral stimulation, so it is really up to you as to which option is going to keep the excitement alive in the relationship.
Personal Alone Time
While your fingers are usually pretty handy, sometimes you just need an orgasm and get into a position suitable to get one. You don’t need to be a sex addict to have a desperate need to cum, and while those that have never experienced the urge may tell you that you should just hold on, sometimes it is like being so thirsty that you can’t think straight until you have quenched your thirst.
Orgasms are important to our health and wellbeing, while too many within a short period of time won’t do you a great deal of benefit, one or two a day can help get your blood flowing. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3812004/
As well as being a fantastic way to relieve stress sexual activity and the resulting orgasm is considered to be a moderate-intensity activity, so you could conceivably skip the gym and go straight to the bedroom.
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