Finger My Ass, Please – Your heart is beating fast right now. You’re shaking and definitely confused. Collect your thoughts. There’s no reason to freak out. You’ve got to get a hold of yourself! Your man only asked you to stick a finger up his asshole. It’s not the end of the world. Sure, it may be a little gross at first. That doesn’t mean you’re not going to like sticking a finger up his poop chute eventually. It’s not uncommon for a man to want to have his prostate stimulated during oral sex. Many men actually enjoy it. However, shouldn’t finger bang your man’s asshole without his permission. The shock of having a finger shoved where the sun doesn’t shine may be something he can’t recover from. Keep the asshole fingering as an optional blowjob accessory. It doesn’t always have to be a package deal.
Enhance Oral Sex – Don’t flip out if your man wants you to shove a finger up his ass while you’re sucking his dick. If it freaks you out, don’t do it. You can also put on a rubber glove before doing it. You’re not going to want to use one of those yellow dish washing gloves. The latex variety that medical professionals use are what you want. You should be able to find these at any drug store. They actually do make something called finger condoms. These are generally used by people in the tech industry. They do exist, but you may have a difficult time finding them.
Tickle My Prostate – Try pounding his asshole with one of your digits. Ask him what feels good and what doesn’t. That’s the only way you’ll learn what your man likes. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, simply stop. There’s no reason why anyone should feel uncomfortable during sex. You may find your partner’s added pleasure very exciting. If this is the case, it may just become second nature. Just don’t forget to wash your hand afterwards. You’ll be left with a stinky finger if you don’t.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Are You Gay? – Your guy wants you to fuck him in the ass with a strap on dildo. What exactly does that mean? Simply put, it means he wants you to fuck him in the ass with a strap on dildo. Women for some reason freak out at this request and wonder if they’re partner is gay. The truth is, a guy doesn’t have to be gay to enjoy anal stimulation.
The Male G Spot – The prostate is back there and it feels great when stimulated. Your man is gay or at least bisexual if he wants a man to do it. It’s by no means gay in the slightest for your man to want you to do that to him. It’s not uncommon for women to have concerns about this topic when their man wants to be anally stimulated. Why does he want you to fuck him in the ass while wearing a big fat cock? It’s the same reason why you like doggy style. It’s simply a position and that’s it. Don’t fear the fact that he wants to take it from behind while on all fours. In fact, you may even find it exciting. Finally you’ll be able to experience what it’s like to have doggy style sex from the other position.
Fuck Like A Man – You’ll get to experience it almost as if you were a man. Generally speaking guys just don’t come right out and ask you to fuck them in the ass. It may start out with a finger up the rear or maybe even a dildo. Don’t be surprised by any of those or even a strap on. The bottom line is, you’re man isn’t gay. What your man wants is someone to pound the living daylights out of his ass. Just feel good that he wants the person to do that to be you!
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Elbows Down, Ass Up – Every guy wants to have anal sex and every girl is afraid of it. Especially those that have never done it before. It’s understandable that any woman would think twice about getting her back door knocked on by a big, fat stranger. Every couple should try anal sex at least once. Here we’re going to give you some tips to make sure anal sex is fun for both people involved.
Relaxation Is The Key – The very first thing you’re going to want to do is calm down. When you’re nervous your asshole tightens up. That’s not a pretty way of stating it, but it’s the truth. Maybe have a drink or two before trying anal sex for the first time. You may also consider doing some breathing exercises before taking the big plunge. The bottom line is, you’re going to want to be calm. Nothing good is going to come out of being tense and nervous. The only thing that will do is cause you plenty of pain.
There Can’t Be To Much Lube – Don’t be skimpy on the lube. Make sure that cock is greased up real good. This isn’t a time to be a penny pincher. Wasting a little lube is okay in the long run. Just make sure that the cock glistens in the light. That’s the way you know there’s plenty of lube on his man meat. Guys, you should beat off earlier in the day before having anal sex. You’re going want to take it nice and easy back there. The best way of doing that is to not be overly excited. You’ll want to pound that ass hard if you’re too worked up.
Don’t Knock It Before You’ve Tried It – Following these tips will ensure that anal sex is a real good time. Both of you’ll enjoy it and maybe even do it again. This is why you guys want to be gentle and lubed up properly. You always have to think of the next time. What you’re hoping for is that there will be a next time. The best way to ensure that is if you’re not rough and she actually enjoys anal sex.
Kiss My Ass – Some find a great deal of pleasure from ass licking and rimming. You used to call someone an ass kisser and it was not a compliment or about what they were willing to do sexually, it was an insult about them kissing up to someone for personal or likely professional gain. Now it’s considered a fairly common sexual act by man. Not everyone is interested in this anal delight, but some want it badly.
Lick My Booty Or Hit The Road – Recently I heard of a guy that broke up with his girlfriend because she was always pressuring him to do this and he just was not interested in it and it ended things. You need to make sure both parties are interested in engaging in such an activity and not make them uncomfortable if they are not interested in it. Someone should not make a sexual act a deal breaker if their partner is uncomfortable with it. If it’s that important to you, maybe you need a different partner more of like mind.
Sensitive Tissues – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self lubricating, and plenty, even what one might consider too much lube, is needed. For rimming saliva is likely what’s being used as lube and the thousands of sensitive nerve endings are going to be pleasurable for many people. The ick factor is also for many going to not even have this sexual delicacy on their menu of treats. If you want to bury your face into the ass of your lover and lick away, be my guest. Some like swirling motions, others go for the full on tongue fuck and penetration, it just depends on what you desire and what your partner is comfortable with. Know the risks, this is not a risk free habit.
Up Yours – If there’s one thing I sadly hear about it’s guys putting things up their ass that they shouldn’t be. There are obviously toys designed for such a purpose, but many are afraid to use them or own them for fear of anyone finding them. So they use candles, cucumbers, apples, carrots. The shame many guys feel at desiring anal stimulation is very common because of the prostate so many men find pleasurable to have stimulated.
Anal Explorations – Men as a rule seem more curious about ass play than women, I just don’t hear about them doing the same sorts of things men do. People end up in the hospital every day seeking medical attention for sex play gone awry. I recall a story I read online about a preacher that had to seek medical attention because he had a potato stuck up his backside. When he went to the ER to get help the doctor asked what he had a potato lodged up there, to which he replied he’d been hanging curtains in the nude and fell backwards onto the kitchen table where some potatoes were sitting that hadn’t yet been put away.
Backdoor Stimulation – Now if anyone would believe that outlandish tale, I’ve got a bridge in Brooklyn I can sell you…The fact is many guys fear liking something up their ass which usually stimulates the prostate which is supposed to give similar sensations to the lady’s G spot, many think it makes them gay and they are uncomfortable with this notion, so they keep it quiet from their partners and don’t share these things. It’s usually easier to keep quiet than deal with unwanted embarrassment.
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