Don’t Give Up – How do you know if your partner has given up on sex? The answer to this question may not be as simple as you may want to believe. Some may think that the way to tell is by trying to remember when was the last time you had sex. If you are not currently having sex regularly, then it’s too late. You’ve already begun to slide down the slippery slope. This is one of those things that you have to nip in the bud. If you don’t, it very well could be too late.
How Long Has It Been? – There are telltale signs that your partner has lost interest in sex. The last of which is not having sex at all. Before it gets to this point, other things had to happen. The most important thing you’ll notice is that your partner no longer cares about their appearance. This is the most evident sign that your healthy sex life is in trouble. Sure, there are plenty of unkempt overweight people having sex. Those people aren’t normal. You should pay close attention to how your partner manages their appearance. The first thing you will notice is they begin to look sloppy. The second thing is far less obvious. You’ll notice over a period of time that day will begin to gain weight. Their lack of concern about how they look tells a lot about their sexual desires. We could go into length and talk about why your partner no longer desires to have sex. An entire book could be written on that. The meaning of this blog post isn’t to help you identify the causes for your partner’s lack of sexual interest. It’s simply to get the ball rolling and to help you understand what’s going on. This is why having a free flow of information is so vital.
Have Some Pride – You need to be able to communicate these sorts of things with your partner. Once you notice their appearance is going downhill, your sex life will follow soon afterwards. It’s important to you and your relationship that you solve this problem immediately. This is something that won’t go away by itself. A person who has a healthy sexual appetite will take good care of themselves. They know if their appearance begins to the disintegrate, so will their chances of getting laid.
Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder – This might sound a little strange in today’s world. Don’t judge a person’s worth based upon their body parts. If you’re in a relationship, you’re probably in it for reasons other than their tits or penis. Though, it’s far too easy to undervalue people in the world we live in today. As the world around us gets more mechanical, we tend to put too much value on aesthetics. This will continue aspeople have more free time to preoccupy themselves with things other than work.
Look Deeper – You should try to find things about your partner that arouse you other than their body parts. This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t find your partner attractive or visually stimulating. It’s to say that you should search out each other to find ways to be attracted to more than just what can be visually seen. The eyeball can be quite deceptive and this fact alone can be seen by how many relationships end up in separation. A person can easily get tired of looking at someone else even if they are extremely beautiful. That tight ass will be forgotten the very second you realize your partner is an asshole. If you’re reading this and not in a relationship, then you really need to take these words to heart. Don’t base your attraction solely on what you see. The value of a human being is more than their body. A person’s body is their only valuable asset when you see them only as what’s on the outside. This sort of attitude will never lead to a fulfilling relationship.
All Cats Are Grey In The Dark – The reason why you seek out companionship can’t simply be pleasure. After all, every person reading this can masturbate. There’s no guarantee that the stacked person with a smoking hot body will be any good in the sack. This is the painful truth that many people learn when they have their first encounter with someone who they hook up with solely based upon their body. Looks do matter in there’s no reason to feel uncomfortable about enjoying the appearance of someone else. Just realize that their appearance alone is not their only asset. If you base all of your relationships on appearance, then you’re probably going to end up extremely unhappy. Compatibility should always be your first and foremost concern. This will lead to a more pleasurable sex life and a greater sense of satisfaction.
Is That New? – This suggestion may sound strange to some of you. Save up some money so you and your partner can buy one nice outfit each. You don’t have to save up thousands of dollars. Just enough where both of you can dress to impress the other. Keep in mind that you can use this outfit for other occasions also. So, maybe you shouldn’t make it too sexy. This isn’t a good time to go shopping for crotchless panties or edible underwear.
Show Some Pride In Your Appearance – Why would you want to go through all the work of buying a great looking outfit? Every now and then you’ve got to look good for your partner. You’ve really got to wow them. That’s what this is all about. You want to impress the most important person in your life. It can be easy to forget that most of the time you’re not looking your best. Keep in mind what your partner sees every day. Sometimes you’ve just got to impress. This is something you should do at least a few times a year.
You Wear It Well – Go out and buy yourself something nice. Make sure that you’re with them the first time you wear it. Doing so will cement the outfit in their memory. Every time your partner sees it, they’ll remember the first time you wore it. You’ve got to keep your relationship fresh and relevant. Even those who deeply love each other can find themselves bored in the relationships. It’s your job to keep things exciting. Visual attraction is important for both men and women. You should try your best to be visually attractive every now and then. Life today is busy and there might not always be time to look your best. That doesn’t mean you should forget how important attraction is. Want to really mix things up? Have your partner pick out the outfit. You may be surprised by what they think is attractive.
Have Some Pride – What do you do when your partner is no longer attracted to you? Let’s assume that you’re in a solid relationship and infidelity isn’t a concern. It’s not your partner’s job to be attracted to you. Your job is to be attractive to them. Many people feel like loss of attraction is their partner’s fault. They for whatever reason aren’t attracted to them any more. You need to find out why you’re no longer attractive to your partner.
Packing On The Pounds – Have you gained weight? You may have stopped taking care of yourself for whatever reason. It can be easy to get into a rut. You may not even notice that you’re not paying attention to your appearance. It’s often the case that people choose practicality and functionality over what looks good. The loose fitting jeans may be more comfortable ones that are skin tight. However, the ones that are skin tight will get your partner’s attention. You need to ask your partner why they aren’t visually attracted to you any more. Don’t be offended when they’re honest with you. Instead, take into consideration what they say. If their reasoning seems valid, then you need to make some changes. Ask them what changes you need to make. It could be as simple as shaving off the beard that you think looks so great. It may not look too great to the woman who has to see it every day. The same thing could be said about your housecoat. It sure is comfy, but it hides your curves.
Show Some Effort – You may want to prance around the house wearing something a little different from time to time. The value of being visually aroused and attracted to someone can’t be understated. A person who isn’t visually satisfied won’t be sexually satisfied. No one looks good without effort. You have to take care of yourself and how you look. Unless you’re a supermodel, this is going to be the case. Talk to your partner and ask them what changes need to be made. You’ll actually feel better about yourself when you know your partner likes what they see.
Don’t Be A Slob – Maintaining your appearance is an important thing. Most guys think this only applies to women. That simply couldn’t be further from the truth. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t give you the right to look like a slob. That means you’re going to have to ditch our pizza stained white T-shirt. Hold your breath and count to five in an attempt to calm down. It goes even further than that. You’ve also got to care about how you look. You’re not doing this because you care about what others think of you. You care about what your partner thinks of you. That’s the key to understanding why you need to care about your appearance.
Take Care Of Yourself – This means you don’t eat too much. Get some exercise. Buy nice clothes and take care of them. Do you get the drift? This isn’t rocket science. All you’re doing is looking good for the person you love. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. You must be sexually attracted to the other person to make it work. The sexual attraction two people experience is the spark that creates excitement in a relationship. It’s not just about sex. It’s about enjoying the total experience you have with your partner. Sexual attraction is both thrilling and exciting. Every person should want their partner to experience this blissful connection that allows them to unleash their animal like desires. Sexual attraction is important in every relationship. It’s not uncommon for people to let themselves go at some point during a relationship.
Shape Up, Or I’ll Be Shipping Out – A kind reminder is what it takes to let the person know that they’re appearance isn’t up to par. It’s not being sexist or shallow to tell your partner that they’ve let themselves go. It very well could be a sign that there are other problems as well. Nipping something like this in the bud will go a long ways in ensuring that you maintain a level of sexual attraction that is needed for a healthy relationship to survive and thrive.
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