This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
Show Me Your Cock – What is the one body part most men prize above all others? The one they are the most proud of and like to brag about, even when totally unwarranted? Hell, even ones with pitiful, little laughworthy dicks like to brag about how tiny they are. One guy recently said to me life wouldn’t be worth living without his cock. True, life without orgasms wouldn’t be nearly as much fun this is for sure.
Keep It In Your Pants – I don’t know about most gals, but I don’t think they toss around pics of their pussy as freely as guy do with their cock pics. And wouldn’t you know, most are not worthy of sending. I can’t speak for most women, but I know for me personally body hair on both sexes is a no-no. I get some hairy dick pics and all but hurl…For the love of God get rid of the hair. If you can’t tolerate totally bare, at least trim it within an inch of its life, but hairless is so much better.
Shave It & Snip It – Even though I have to admit to being recently convinced it’s best not to mess with nature and circumcise, it does look better if it is. Cock pics with a turtleneck of skin are not the prettiest things for sure. They don’t call it “bumping the uglies” because they are so beautiful. Not many guys have been blessed with porn quality cocks. Oh well, the delete button not hard to get to. And if they get a mocking, sarcastic reply to an unasked for pic, they get what they deserve.
Online Privacy – Chatting online and having fun like cyber sex and phone sex are wonderful for people looking to maintain some level of privacy in their online social activities. Many assume ones are not into cam sex because they must be ugly and this is why they are “hiding themselves”. Not at all, many are either simply not aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk, or else they are worried about their privacy.
Can I Trust You? – People blackmailing others by recording cam shows is a sad reality for some. You never know who you are dealing with on the other side of the computer screen. I laughed one time when some guy opened his cam, I hadn’t asked him to as it’s not an interest of mine, and I swear he had a bandanna over his face from the nose down like a bank robber. He had what he felt was a penis deformity and wanted my opinion, I kid you not. And, truth be told, it DID look deformed! The bandanna mask did take me aback as much as his deformed cock though. I thought he must have been burned once to do such a thing, and he didn’t know me well enough to know I was no threat.
Give Me Some Privacy – Many are self conscious about their looks as it is, and I don’t ask for pics as a rule, as long as their voice is what I want, I really do not need to see. Men being the visual creatures that they are however, often want to see who they are really talking to. If you refuse to go on cam you are accused of being everything from a man to very ugly. Many online are so suspicious, and many online have lied, so ones that have had such experiences often think the worst of everyone and assume the worst in all cases. Some things really are best left to the imagination.
Show Me Your Willy – A rose by any other name would smell as sweet they say. The pic above shows many different styles of cocks, all the differences, I’m sure you can choose which one most closely resembles your own, or your lovers if you are not an owner of a cock yourself, or pick your favorite. Surely there must be a similar type of diagram for women and their pussy styles. Not many have the pretty porn cocks and pussies, that’s for sure, they don’t call it bumping the uglies for nothing.
Playgirl Worthy Cock – There’s not a lot we can do, though body modification is becoming more common and plastic surgeries on private parts is growing in popularity, though isn’t it how things feel that’s the most important? I’d think so, but it is a good thing most are kept covered for the most part, as it’s certainly not the best looking part of most of us by a long shot. I’ve written in the past about genital cosmetics, hair removal, the very least we can do, and anal bleaching, there are certainly things we can do to make what we have improved in some small way in appearance.
Classy Cocks – What can you do if your privates are simply so ugly you don’t want them seen? Well, other than the above improvements, some minor surgery couldn’t hurt, you’d have to talk to a doctor for that and see what you would like done and if it could realistically be accomplished. After all, you can’t make a silk purse out of a sows ear. There’s always room for improvement, no matter how dire the situation may seem. As long as that cock is clean, and can stay hard as long as the lady needs it too, that’s pretty much all you can ask for.
Show Some Pride In Your Appearance – A pleasure for many of us is taking pride in our appearance. We like to look attractive for our mates and for ourselves to be as sexually appealing as possible. First ones thought shaving their genitals was enough in regards to grooming, after all they were clean, shaved, groomed, smooth, how could one ask for more? Then the introduction of anal bleaching came on the scene to further enhance our nether region attractiveness. For ones that have seen before and after pics of the anal bleaching, I must say, it vastly improves the appearance for sure.
Kissable Pussy Lips – For ones that for some ungodly reason decide not to shave, there is even pubic hair dye so you don’t show telltale signs of ageing by having grey pubes. And now apparently the final frontier in genital enhancements, genital cosmetics. Yes, you read it right folks, no I’m not talking “lipstick”, that would make some messy panties now, wouldn’t it? Someone has now decided that the pink is no longer pink enough, and that it lessens with age, I didn’t realize it did? Maybe that’s a blood flow issue?
Putting Your Best Cock Forward – There is now temporary dyes you can apply with applicators and they will make your pink parts all the pinker, and in 4 differing shades of intensity no less, it’s like choosing foundation I guess, best find the one that best suits your skin tone. I can just see some guy painting on pink dye to his cockhead to make it prettier for the gal that will be giving him a blow job later in the evening. Hope it doesn’t taste weird! There’s also genital jewelry to make things flashier, I wonder what they will think of next? I did come across “Cock Perfume” on a website a few weeks ago as well. So I guess after washing, shaving, perfuming, and bleaching one part and dyeing another, you’re all set. Who knew they were so high maintenance?!
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