Bend Over – You or your partner has been thinking about getting into spanking. There are many couples who enjoy spanking. You don’t need to be on the fence about this fetish. Go ahead, spank that ass a little. There’s nothing at all wrong with wanting to be spanked. It’s only a problem if the violence gets out of hand. Then, you’ve got a real problem on your hands. Violence and sex never go together. With that said, spanking really isn’t violence. If anything, it’s all about appreciating a fine ass.
Spank Me Hard – An ass so nice, it needs to be spanked. How do you begin spanking? Just bend over and take it like a grown up. Seriously, that’s all you have to do. You’re either the one being spanked or the one spanking. You can switch it up and do both. Spanking should never hurt too bad. You’re not looking to punish your partner. All you’re trying to do is get your juices flowing a little. Think of spanking as a form of foreplay. You’re not trying to hurt the other. It’s all about adding an extra amount of spice to your sex life. Spanking can surely do that.
Simple Smack – Spanking doesn’t require anything other than a hand. That means there’s no trips to the adult bookstore needed. No waiting in line with perverts to buy a sex toy. It’s just your hand and an ass. Give it a try. Smack that ass a little. You’ll be surprised by how much excitement it adds to your normal sexual routine. You’ll wonder why you never thought of spanking before now.
Finger My Ass, Please – Your heart is beating fast right now. You’re shaking and definitely confused. Collect your thoughts. There’s no reason to freak out. You’ve got to get a hold of yourself! Your man only asked you to stick a finger up his asshole. It’s not the end of the world. Sure, it may be a little gross at first. That doesn’t mean you’re not going to like sticking a finger up his poop chute eventually. It’s not uncommon for a man to want to have his prostate stimulated during oral sex. Many men actually enjoy it. However, shouldn’t finger bang your man’s asshole without his permission. The shock of having a finger shoved where the sun doesn’t shine may be something he can’t recover from. Keep the asshole fingering as an optional blowjob accessory. It doesn’t always have to be a package deal.
Enhance Oral Sex – Don’t flip out if your man wants you to shove a finger up his ass while you’re sucking his dick. If it freaks you out, don’t do it. You can also put on a rubber glove before doing it. You’re not going to want to use one of those yellow dish washing gloves. The latex variety that medical professionals use are what you want. You should be able to find these at any drug store. They actually do make something called finger condoms. These are generally used by people in the tech industry. They do exist, but you may have a difficult time finding them.
Tickle My Prostate – Try pounding his asshole with one of your digits. Ask him what feels good and what doesn’t. That’s the only way you’ll learn what your man likes. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, simply stop. There’s no reason why anyone should feel uncomfortable during sex. You may find your partner’s added pleasure very exciting. If this is the case, it may just become second nature. Just don’t forget to wash your hand afterwards. You’ll be left with a stinky finger if you don’t.
You Want Me To Do What? – You’ve got a big time dilemma on your hands. Your partner wants you to give them a rim job. Yes, they actually want you to lick their asshole! What do you do? What you don’t do is freak out. It’s natural for someone to want their asshole licked. You’ve probably wanted your poop chute licked a time or two before. If this is the case, then you can identify with the desire.
Scrub Up Well – How do you go about licking an asshole? The first thing you’re going to want to do is to ask your partner to wash themselves. There’s nothing worse than a stinky asshole. Keep in mind you’re going to be face deep in that ass. You’re going to want it to be as clean as possible. That’s why a good scrubbing is necessary before you get to work on it. Be creative and enjoy the asshole. Lick around the opening. You may even want to open the asshole a little and lick inside it. This is something that experienced rim job performers may enjoy more. Don’t push yourself too fast. After all, this is your very first time getting up close and personal with an asshole. Don’t be surprised if you gag a few times. It’s only natural. You’ll get used to the idea of licking an asshole after awhile.
Spread ‘Em – Both men and women enjoy having their asshole licked. It’s something that you can do to each other. Does the idea of licking an asshole freak you out? If it does, simply tell that to your partner. Great sex comes from having open and unrestricted lines of communication. They should fully understand if you don’t want to put your tongue where the sun doesn’t shine.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Elbows Down, Ass Up – Every guy wants to have anal sex and every girl is afraid of it. Especially those that have never done it before. It’s understandable that any woman would think twice about getting her back door knocked on by a big, fat stranger. Every couple should try anal sex at least once. Here we’re going to give you some tips to make sure anal sex is fun for both people involved.
Relaxation Is The Key – The very first thing you’re going to want to do is calm down. When you’re nervous your asshole tightens up. That’s not a pretty way of stating it, but it’s the truth. Maybe have a drink or two before trying anal sex for the first time. You may also consider doing some breathing exercises before taking the big plunge. The bottom line is, you’re going to want to be calm. Nothing good is going to come out of being tense and nervous. The only thing that will do is cause you plenty of pain.
There Can’t Be To Much Lube – Don’t be skimpy on the lube. Make sure that cock is greased up real good. This isn’t a time to be a penny pincher. Wasting a little lube is okay in the long run. Just make sure that the cock glistens in the light. That’s the way you know there’s plenty of lube on his man meat. Guys, you should beat off earlier in the day before having anal sex. You’re going want to take it nice and easy back there. The best way of doing that is to not be overly excited. You’ll want to pound that ass hard if you’re too worked up.
Don’t Knock It Before You’ve Tried It – Following these tips will ensure that anal sex is a real good time. Both of you’ll enjoy it and maybe even do it again. This is why you guys want to be gentle and lubed up properly. You always have to think of the next time. What you’re hoping for is that there will be a next time. The best way to ensure that is if you’re not rough and she actually enjoys anal sex.
Kiss My Ass – Some find a great deal of pleasure from ass licking and rimming. You used to call someone an ass kisser and it was not a compliment or about what they were willing to do sexually, it was an insult about them kissing up to someone for personal or likely professional gain. Now it’s considered a fairly common sexual act by man. Not everyone is interested in this anal delight, but some want it badly.
Lick My Booty Or Hit The Road – Recently I heard of a guy that broke up with his girlfriend because she was always pressuring him to do this and he just was not interested in it and it ended things. You need to make sure both parties are interested in engaging in such an activity and not make them uncomfortable if they are not interested in it. Someone should not make a sexual act a deal breaker if their partner is uncomfortable with it. If it’s that important to you, maybe you need a different partner more of like mind.
Sensitive Tissues – Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self lubricating, and plenty, even what one might consider too much lube, is needed. For rimming saliva is likely what’s being used as lube and the thousands of sensitive nerve endings are going to be pleasurable for many people. The ick factor is also for many going to not even have this sexual delicacy on their menu of treats. If you want to bury your face into the ass of your lover and lick away, be my guest. Some like swirling motions, others go for the full on tongue fuck and penetration, it just depends on what you desire and what your partner is comfortable with. Know the risks, this is not a risk free habit.
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