Have Some Pride – What do you do when your partner is no longer attracted to you? Let’s assume that you’re in a solid relationship and infidelity isn’t a concern. It’s not your partner’s job to be attracted to you. Your job is to be attractive to them. Many people feel like loss of attraction is their partner’s fault. They for whatever reason aren’t attracted to them any more. You need to find out why you’re no longer attractive to your partner.
Packing On The Pounds – Have you gained weight? You may have stopped taking care of yourself for whatever reason. It can be easy to get into a rut. You may not even notice that you’re not paying attention to your appearance. It’s often the case that people choose practicality and functionality over what looks good. The loose fitting jeans may be more comfortable ones that are skin tight. However, the ones that are skin tight will get your partner’s attention. You need to ask your partner why they aren’t visually attracted to you any more. Don’t be offended when they’re honest with you. Instead, take into consideration what they say. If their reasoning seems valid, then you need to make some changes. Ask them what changes you need to make. It could be as simple as shaving off the beard that you think looks so great. It may not look too great to the woman who has to see it every day. The same thing could be said about your housecoat. It sure is comfy, but it hides your curves.
Show Some Effort – You may want to prance around the house wearing something a little different from time to time. The value of being visually aroused and attracted to someone can’t be understated. A person who isn’t visually satisfied won’t be sexually satisfied. No one looks good without effort. You have to take care of yourself and how you look. Unless you’re a supermodel, this is going to be the case. Talk to your partner and ask them what changes need to be made. You’ll actually feel better about yourself when you know your partner likes what they see.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
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