This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red.
There has been and is possibility more information about sex than any other subject, on and off the internet. It has been reported that men think of sex at least once every day, and ¼ of females think about it frequently, is this true? Is this why more men than females frequent chat rooms looking for sex? Or is it a challenge to see if they can chat up a female into some sex act to fulfill their own cravings? Does that make them sexual prowlers? I am not qualified to delve into the whys and wherefores of sexual philosophy and physiology.
All I know is that I have sexual fantasies and desires, which I can fulfill in a chat room chatting with male or female, to me it’s about satisfying my need to have a climax. In other words to stimulate my need to masturbate hoping that the other person is also aroused by what I type, or show in photos. Some show themselves on web cams, there is nothing more annoying than being forced to look at naked body parts, when I am not asked. The feeling is I suppose that if you see an erection or a pair of breasts it arouse you, that is not necessary so.
I am a hedonist, a pleasure seeker, I have this strong urge to have orgasms, alone or sharing. I visit a chat room in the hope of arousing myself and others into an act of mutual masturbation. Sometimes a sex chat is very fulfilling and the sparks fly, other times it just titillates the need and perhaps I will masturbate alone later thinking about the conversation or if they sent me a photo, looking at it as I cum.
One of the attractions is that you can be whoever you want, your real self or a fantasy person, and perhaps by your chat name give an idea of your own needs. There are different types of chat rooms in different formats. The chat format at Climax Connection has been carefully thought out, some have audio and webcam facility which if you don’t want to use you can turn off. There are a number of different rooms to cater for most tastes.
Give Yourself An Orgasm For Christmas – What can you give yourself every single day of the year that is free, healthy and good for you at the same time? An orgasm, of course! Many of us are overly stressed at this time of year with the holidays and demands that are placed on us. Office parties with command performances at, family stresses and entertaining demands. It can all just be too much. The stress release of an orgasm is a very important one and one that doesn’t take more than a few minutes, but will make us feel a lot better and more relaxed. I’m not saying to whip it out at the mall during a break from your Christmas shopping, but a good way to start or end your day, depending on your preference for time of day orgasms.
Wrap Yourself Up – If you are lucky enough to have a real life lover, be playful and tie up your naughty bits with ribbons or in some other way in a festive manner. Give them a laugh as well as yourself. Being playful and sexy is also a way to show your significant other you can have fun and invite intimacy at the same time. Many will appreciate your efforts and reward you with some special attention that you crave. You need not be as obvious as placing mistletoe in the waistband of your underwear or anything quite so in your face, but be creative and sexy Christmas colored lingerie is always a good idea as well in emerald green or fire engine red.
All I Want For Christmas Is You – For many of us that are alone, Christmas and the holidays sadly enhances that and makes us feel even more miserable than other days of the year. For ones with no one else, online chat rooms can provide a welcome place for the the ones with perhaps no friends and family. For many, their online friends are all they have. They might be shy, or a social misfit in some way, and connecting with others online may be their only social life. Sounds sad in a way, but for some it is the way life has turned out, so their online connections to others is it for them. Their entire social network. Happy holidays everyone. We here at climaxconnection hope all our members have a safe and happy and orgasm filled holiday season.
Adult Chat For You – Have you been searching for just the right phone sex, cam sex or cyber sex partner for yourself? An adult chat room can be a great place to start looking for a partner. Other just enjoy unwinding at the end of a long and boring or perhaps stressful day and talking with some other fun and colorful individuals can be an entertaining way to relax and have a good laugh at the end of the day.
Virtual Communication – Sometimes shy people or ones that aren’t comfortable going out to bars or clubs seek easier and safer connections, like online chat rooms. There’s not the same pressure to get dolled up and dressed and have to worry about parking and expensive bar drinks and all of the hassle that comes with that sort of environment. Sometimes you want to relax and just have some goofy fun, and if some naughty fun comes as a result, so much the better.
Be Well Behaved – As with any sort of place, there’s always troublemakers that find their way in. Most people are well behaved and cause no trouble, others look at any sort of attention getting venue as a time to misbehave. Time spent in a chat room can be very enjoyable and make the hours fly by. Sometimes you have to be careful if you only have a set amount of time to spend in there, as it goes by so fast! So if you’ve no plans and an empty social calendar, come hang out in the Climax Connection chat rooms and find some fun!
Come Chat Tonight – Online chat and chat rooms are a very important part of socialization for many of us. Many people just do not make real life friends or acquaintances easily, yet online, we can be our true selves, when we don’t have to be face to face. People that are normally shy are all of a sudden witty and open and not hiding behind their veil of shyness. Online chat rooms are a lot of fun! Not everyone goes into adult chat rooms just to chit chat though, but that can be a lot of fun as well.
Find An Online Masturbation Partner – Many are there for one reason only, to find a partner for naughty fun, and that is a whole other kind of fun! Finding someone to masturbate with and watch them on cam, or talk to them on the phone or over voice chat online, or even just cyber sex. Chat rooms are the online equivalent of a bar, a pick up joint, a meat/meet market. Chat rooms are where we search for like minded, horny individuals that are looking for masturbation partners. It is soooo much more fun to masturbate with someone than alone. To enjoy the sexy sounds of another as they approach orgasm and then when they actually cum, how on earth could alone ever do after sharing that?! It can’t.
Chat To Your Hearts Content – Mutual masturbation is so much more fun, interactive and enjoyable and ones that might never consider ever going to a bar to look for a one night stand, might have no problem trolling around the internet chat rooms to find a masturbation partner. If no one in chat interests you, you can always have some lively banter with others in the room and say all kinds of fun things you might be too shy to say to your in person friends. There are some very nice people online, they aren’t all jerks and bitches!
This is a guest blog submission by a ClimaxConnection member. This submission was written by member, YourMister_Dark.
Erotic Talk – Whether you’re a newbie or a veteran, you can always learn to be better at chatting. From the old rough days of BBSes right up to the most modern cam-, Skype, or cyber chatting, the lessons of good communication have never been more important and one of the key notes to hit is empathy. Not sympathy, but empathy: the ability to “feel’ as others feel, instinctively.
Hot Talking – Empathy allows you to “tune in” on people’s feelings, moods, and even unspoken attitudes. We all know about communication disasters when two chatters lock horns (not in a good way) because their moods don’t mesh or compliment each other in the right way. And while women seem to have a stronger sense of empathy, guys need to tune in as well.
Hot Chat – If you think — as many guys sadly do — that you can just jump right in, metaphorically or on cam wave your magic wang and get lucky, think again. Good erotic communication is not like a porn clip or that rampant sex scene in your head. First off, most women chatters of any persuasion want to know who they’re fucking, even if you start off as a “stranger”. They’re opening themselves up on a very intimate level, after all, and whether they want a hard, fast quickie or a long, sensual, slow scene, they very rarely respond to crude and rude pickup lines. “I have a big cock” or “I want to fuck you so hard” or even “Wanna fuck” might work after they’ve got to know you, but hardly ever if it’s the first thing you type to them. Ladies like to be seduced. Well, truth be told, so do some men, but guys seldom take the time for that to happen. And, fellows, remember, if all you want is that quick satisfaction then the pleasure of it is going to fade away just as quick. The “three minute wonder” is rapidly forgettable, even if it succeeds.
Seduce Me With Your Words – Sensual chat is something else altogether. It’s friendly, fun, provocative, smart, and sexy without being too crude. It’s never rude, not confrontational, never insulting. It can be clever, should be fresh and even creative. Use your mind, your imagination, be direct and honest, but seductive and fun.
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