Are You Up To The Task? – This is an article for all of you guys out there. Sure, maybe a lesbian or two will benefit from this as well. However, a lesbian should understand the power of the female orgasm. Men don’t. Most claim they do. They really have no idea how important it is to make a woman cum. That’s just the truth. It’s a sad truth. Orgasms aren’t just for men. This is something every guy needs to get through their thick skull.
Make Her Cum As If Your Life Depends On It – Should you make your woman have an orgasm each time you have sex with her? Yes. Most definitely you should. Why would you even think twice about it? Sure, sometimes couples just have quickies and making her cum isn’t a priority then. If you’re having lots of quickies, then your sex life sucks. It has to suck really bad. Who wants to hurry and rush something as good as sex? The best way for a guy to make sure he gets laid often is by making sure his woman enjoys sex. She’ll enjoy it a whole lot more if she has an orgasm. This is just a fact. A woman who knows she’ll have an orgasm is someone who’s more than likely going to put out. Don’t believe these words. Just try it and see.
Become An Orgasm Donor – Give your woman an orgasm each time you have sex with her. See how much more sex you end up having. The benefits will speak for themselves. It can be very difficult to bring some women to the point of orgasm. It’s your job to learn how to do it. Each woman is slightly different. Your best bet is to get it out of the way before sex starts. Make her cum during foreplay. That way you can enjoy the rest of the time. She won’t say a single thing when it comes time for you to get off. You’ll even be able to take your time and enjoy it all.
Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.
Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.
Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!
Sex Sounds For You – Visual porn not for everyone, for some it’s just mechanical, fake and crude. Audio can be honest, arousing and genuine. For ones aroused by sounds over visuals, and many times visually impaired people are big fans of erotic audios, the heavy breathing, panting and moaning of another in the throes of orgasm, or someone with a sexy voice telling an erotic story is better than any porn video.
Ohhhh, You Sound Hot – The right kinds of sounds can make you hard or wet within mere seconds. Some do love the body rubbing, wet pussy squishy sounds, or a hard cock being rubbed with a well lubed hand, some like those body rubbing sounds. Must be awful to be deaf and never know such erotic sounds your lover could make when you play their body like a musical instrument. You don’t need to actually be with a lover to enjoy their sounds, phone sex and long distance lovers go a long way to enhance our masturbation.
Tell Me A Story – Some boys never outgrow the love of being told a bedtime story. When they get older though, it’s usually a hot story to listen to as they masturbate when they can’t find someone to phone with, or just to get aroused and highly turned on. Couples can even use erotic audios to enhance their lovemaking, quite a different choice than your soothing jazz many would choose. Almost like a different kind of threesome. So lay back, close your eyes, and relax as you listen to the sexy sounds and stories of another.
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