Are You Ticklish? – You and your partner have been wanting to branch out and try something different. The world of fetishes may seem scary and confusing. Don’t be alarmed, many couples experience the same thing. Have you ever thought about tickling? You can get your ha-ha on and consider it foreplay at the very same time. Tickling as a form of foreplay may sound silly to some people. There’s nothing at all silly about it.
That Tickles! – Some people actually enjoy being tickled. Do you? If so, you may want to try doing it before love making. This is one of those fetishes that you don’t need to go to extremes to test out. Just tickle your partner using your hands. Sure, you may want to go out and buy a feather some day. The key word there is buy. Don’t use a feather that you find out on the street. It could have lice. Your partner will never forgive you if you give them lice.
Can I Touch You There? – Where should you tickle? Start out with the most obvious places. The places where you know your partner is the most ticklish. You may try tickling their stomach or even genitals. There’s no limit to where you can tickle. This is the really fun part. Try to discover new places that your partner never thought were ticklish. You’ll both learn something in the process. Give tickling a try. Have fun. Enjoy the experience. If you don’t like it, stop. You’re not going to be out much of anything. If nothing else, at least you got in the sack with your partner. That in itself is a reason to celebrate.
Show Me That Pussy – Masturbation is a top pleasure for all of us, not a doubt. For many of us it’s the only sex we get if we do not have a partner, or go to an escort, have a fuck buddy, etc. Lots of people are exhibitionists and voyeurs as well, and for some if you are lucky enough to have a sexual partner, a top pleasure for them is seeing their partner masturbate in front of them.
Let Me Watch – What better way to show your partner how you like to be touched? It really isn’t just arousing, it’s downright educational. They will get aroused without a doubt, but to see how you like to be touched, teased, caressed, stroked, the speed, everything, they will better be able to duplicate that themselves. I will never forget seeing on some sex education show this guy show on an artificial vagina how he’d touch a woman. I literally burst out laughing and thought what woman would want to be touched THAT way? I’d slap his hand away! He was tapping away on the silicone clit like he was sending out Morse code, I couldn’t believe my eyes. It never ceases to amaze me some women will fake an orgasm with a man, why, all you are doing is reinforcing their ineffective sexual techniques. Tell them how to do it so they get it right. Don’t worry about their ego, unless their ego is more important to you than your orgasm, it’s ridiculous.
Touch Me Like This – Demonstrating the technique to your partner is the absolute best way to show them how you cum the easiest. All women are different and going to like something different. Just because your ex girlfriend loved it this way, doesn’t mean your current one will. Some like indirect touch, others firm and very direct, so it’s not a one size fits all situation. Your sexual partners could like very different things and if you want to click, you’d best get over your shyness and show them how you like it. Beating around the bush does no one any favors in the bedroom. Be direct and ask for what you want, your partner can’t read your mind.
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