Put A Little Something On – Here’s a unique idea that very well could improve your sex life. Don’t be surprised by the results of this little experiment. You may discover something about your partner that’s totally unexpected. Take your partner shopping with you. You’re going to want to buy something very specific. Ask your partner to pick out one outfit or item of clothing that they think is sexy. This will be something only for the bedroom. It can be as kinky as you want it to be. Maybe, it won’t be kinky at all.
Dress You Up – This is the interesting thing about the experiment. We all have an idea what our partner finds sexy. That doesn’t mean we actually know what they find sexy. This will give you an opportunity to find out what they think is in fact sexy. Keep in mind this isn’t an outfit that you’re going to wear outside. This is an outfit or article of clothing meant for the bedroom only. It can be a short little skirt or those tight underwear for men that Europeans like to wear. It will be interesting to find out what your partner is turned on by. Sex can often become routine. This is never good. It’s healthy to spice things up. You’d be surprised by how big of an impact just one outfit can have. Arousal is a two way street. You’ll become more aroused when your partner is.
You Wear It Well – Your sexual enjoyment will be greatly increased when they’re turned on. Use your imagination. Buy something for your partner that they normally wouldn’t wear. Let them do the same thing for you. Just remember that it’s not for every day wearing. There’s no need to feel uncomfortable in something that’s too skimpy. No one is going to see it other than you and your partner. Knowing this should ease your mind. Be playful and have fun in the bedroom. It’ll go a long ways in improving the quality of sex you and your partner enjoy.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Spicing Things Up – Lets be honest for just a minute. Sex can get stale and it does in every relationship. Every relationship starts out white out and then it fizzles down. Its going to happen to you if it hasn’t already. Couples go through peaks and valleys when sex is great and it isn’t. The first valley is always the worst. Thats because you wont know how to handle it. You may even think your partner is cheating on you. A dry spell is normal and it shouldnt freak you out. It should only cause alarm if its a consistent thing.
Look Pretty For Your Man – What you need to do is find ways to get each other in the mood for sex. Lingerie can play a big part in this. No man can turn down a woman thats looking sexy. Just like a man cant turn down a big juicy steak. Men are programmed a certain way and nothing is going to change that. It doesnt matter how tired he is or how bad of a mood hes in. Lingerie will do the trick each and every time.
Look Sexy For Your Lady – Guys, you can dress sexy too. Its not only the women that can wear sexy outfits. You can buy a pair of leopard print underwear to drive her crazy. Women, find out what your guy likes to see. You dont need to take them to the lingerie store. You can show your guy a lingerie site and have him pick something out. You can then buy it online or go to the store and buy it in person. Getting his feedback will go a long ways in making sure that hes excited by what you buy.
Trick Or Treat – Adding some costumes to your lovemaking routine can absolutely kick things up a bit excitement wise in the bedroom. Not everyone is into fancy lingerie or costumes, but once a year for Halloween, it can be a festive change of pace you and your partner might both enjoy. The choices are endless these days due to the availability of online shopping and everything being only a few mouse clicks away.
Spice Things Up – Having a partner look a bit different can be a very good thing, as wonderful as steak is, do you really want it every single night? No, of course not, costumes and wigs and anything that makes things a bit different and out of the ordinary will help the two of you keep things filled with variety and not routine and boring. So many couples that are married don’t even have sex anymore. I can’t even count how many callers say they haven’t had sex in many years or even decades, yet they for some reason stick around. If someone made an effort to be innovative or romantic, they might not be living like roommates.
Tricks Aren’t Just For Kids – You’re never too old to play dress up and have some fun, Halloween isn’t just for the kids, it’s actually become more of an adult holiday the last few decades than it ever was before, and dressing up isn’t just for the elementary aged school set, you can get some racy costumes and have fun doing all sorts of naughty things with your partner. It’s not too late, see what you can come up with for this weekend and enjoy the big day and even bigger night.
You Like What?! – What do you do if you find a new partner and learn they have some weird fetish? Many times it’s better if a fetish is kept under your hat unless you’re pretty sure they share it too. It can make it pretty weird and there’s no going back. I seriously do not think I could deal if I walked in on a boyfriend and he was wearing ladies lingerie, heels and makeup kind of thing. I know it’s harmless, but I’d never look at them the same way again and it would be the end, not a doubt.
Secret Desires – Many people hide their fetishes from their partners since it’s just easier to do so than to rock the boat. Men hiding makeup kits in their car, using vegetables as dildos, all because they are afraid of getting caught by their wives or girlfriends. Panties and lingerie are very popular among fetish for men and lots have items like this hidden away. If your girlfriend saw a pair of size 13 red stilettos, what do you think she would say? To me it would be worse than if you had shoes hidden away that belonged to your girlfriend on the sly than to think *horrors* they were yours!
Hidden Kink – Different things turn on different people and some of the fetishes and perversions out there are astounding, and many simply cannot deal with a partner being into stuff that makes them feel uncomfortable or that they themselves do not understand. Some are so engulfed in their fetish it would be difficult to stop them entirely, so they just drive them underground and hide them. Sometimes secrets are not a bad thing, and you wish you could forget some things you found out about as it can irreparably damage things between the two of you.
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