Don’t Be A Slob – Maintaining your appearance is an important thing. Most guys think this only applies to women. That simply couldn’t be further from the truth. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t give you the right to look like a slob. That means you’re going to have to ditch our pizza stained white T-shirt. Hold your breath and count to five in an attempt to calm down. It goes even further than that. You’ve also got to care about how you look. You’re not doing this because you care about what others think of you. You care about what your partner thinks of you. That’s the key to understanding why you need to care about your appearance.
Take Care Of Yourself – This means you don’t eat too much. Get some exercise. Buy nice clothes and take care of them. Do you get the drift? This isn’t rocket science. All you’re doing is looking good for the person you love. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. You must be sexually attracted to the other person to make it work. The sexual attraction two people experience is the spark that creates excitement in a relationship. It’s not just about sex. It’s about enjoying the total experience you have with your partner. Sexual attraction is both thrilling and exciting. Every person should want their partner to experience this blissful connection that allows them to unleash their animal like desires. Sexual attraction is important in every relationship. It’s not uncommon for people to let themselves go at some point during a relationship.
Shape Up, Or I’ll Be Shipping Out – A kind reminder is what it takes to let the person know that they’re appearance isn’t up to par. It’s not being sexist or shallow to tell your partner that they’ve let themselves go. It very well could be a sign that there are other problems as well. Nipping something like this in the bud will go a long ways in ensuring that you maintain a level of sexual attraction that is needed for a healthy relationship to survive and thrive.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Spicing Things Up – Lets be honest for just a minute. Sex can get stale and it does in every relationship. Every relationship starts out white out and then it fizzles down. Its going to happen to you if it hasn’t already. Couples go through peaks and valleys when sex is great and it isn’t. The first valley is always the worst. Thats because you wont know how to handle it. You may even think your partner is cheating on you. A dry spell is normal and it shouldnt freak you out. It should only cause alarm if its a consistent thing.
Look Pretty For Your Man – What you need to do is find ways to get each other in the mood for sex. Lingerie can play a big part in this. No man can turn down a woman thats looking sexy. Just like a man cant turn down a big juicy steak. Men are programmed a certain way and nothing is going to change that. It doesnt matter how tired he is or how bad of a mood hes in. Lingerie will do the trick each and every time.
Look Sexy For Your Lady – Guys, you can dress sexy too. Its not only the women that can wear sexy outfits. You can buy a pair of leopard print underwear to drive her crazy. Women, find out what your guy likes to see. You dont need to take them to the lingerie store. You can show your guy a lingerie site and have him pick something out. You can then buy it online or go to the store and buy it in person. Getting his feedback will go a long ways in making sure that hes excited by what you buy.
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