Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.
Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.
Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!
National Masturbation Month – I’m sure most of us masturbate every single month, many every singe day, but May is National Masturbation Month. It was started in 1995 by a sex toy store in San Francisco to celebrate masturbation because at the time the US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was let go because she felt kids in school should be taught masturbation was an important part of sexuality as well. Apparently it was just too radical an idea.
Times Are Changing – Luckily some governments are moving forward, and for the last few years the UK and another European country actually have active campaigns to encourage the nations youth to masturbate to cut down on teen pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases and enhance pleasure for ones without partners. Many don’t know in the late 1800’s doctors preached so on the evils of self abuse, they came up with “libido deadening foods” like Corn Flakes and Graham crackers to supposedly take away the sex drive and lessen the chances ones would masturbate. Hard to believe, but 100% true.
No Shame In Self Love – Now no one’s suggesting you whip it out on a mall bench and have at it just because it’s an ok thing to do, it has its time and place. Masturbation is a normal activity most of us engage in and enjoy. It’s free, it’s safe, no risk of disease, is pleasurable and a stress reliever. When you find someone on a site like this to join you and have cyber sex, cam sex or phone sex with it kicks it up to a whole new level, once you try it with someone, alone no longer cuts it. So enjoy some self love today!
The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.
Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.
Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!
Mirror Mirror On The Wall – Sexually stimulating ourselves is normal, watching ourselves in a mirror as we do so can be an arousing addition to our masturbation mix. Full length mirrors allow us a full body view standing up, and hand held mirrors for girls allow us to get a real up close and personal look at our own bodies from a visual vantage point we otherwise could not have. People should be encouraging their young people to explore themselves in this manner, but our hush hush societal mentality on sexuality and masturbation in particular makes this not very likely to happen.
Enjoy Yourself Visually – You can’t expect someone else to please you sexually until you yourself know what feels good to you. Watching as the juices flow out of yourself with a magnifying mirror can be very exciting, watching your fingertips lightly caress your stiffened clit and watch your pussy contract with your orgasm and watch it pulse. Many couples enjoy having sex in front of mirrors, some really into it have mirrors placed above their beds. Guys into mirror masturbation often will cum right on the mirror and watch as it erupts against the glass and trickles down.
A Different Perspective – Your very own porn for one. Watching as you make yourself cum. It’s very sexy, and you can quickly understand why guys like watching a lady masturbate so much, it’s sensual and arousing and they love the look of a woman pleasing herself in front of them. So if you haven’t masturbated in front of a mirror in a while, maybe get one out and reacquaint yourself with the visual poetry that is yourself masturbating. I have a feeling you just might enjoy it.
“Thou shalt not put instrument of the devil (phone) to thy ear whilst manipulating thy genitals for lascivious purposes.” – Sharon Somers
You’ve Got To Be Kidding Me – Now it goes without saying I’m an atheist, I have little use for ones living their lives by a book of fairy tales and imaginary sky fathers, it’s quite laughable to me and I’ve seen the lives and families torn asunder by religion. I’ve often thought that animals in a great many ways have more sense than people. They don’t get down on their knees and pray to an imaginary being, they don’t feel guilty for mating, it’s just part of them, part of their instinct, they just do it and get on with life. Yet they interact with each other, have a pecking order, they get along fine without a lot of the nonsense that people seem to need to incorporate into their lives.
Get Your Heads Examined – If one can look at the above picture and not get just how absurd some of us people are, I don’t know what to tell you. That some parents terrify their children into thinking they will go insane or blind from touching their own bodies, well not so much now, but in the past, less than 100 years ago. And even now in today’s world, female genital mutilation is continuing on in many cultures because they wish to dissuade their daughters from lustful, dirty thoughts, fantasies and actions. Cut off their clit, problem solved, she has no sexual pleasure, so she will remain chaste. Sickening.
Religion Is A Societal Control Device – I have had guys I chat with tell me they feel guilty for masturbating, that they feel it’s sinful. I ask them if they feel guilty if they are tired or hungry or thirsty, of course not they reply, so why feel guilty if you are horny? It’s just as natural to be horny as tired, or hungry, or thirsty, they are all biological drives. It’s sad how so many have been brainwashed by religion. I recall a Mormon I talked to, he and the lady he married had never had sex or even spoken of it before they wed, and he learned after she didn’t like sex, and he was told she’d never, ever be doing oral, and she made him feel dirty and guilty when she caught him watching porn and masturbating, yet she wouldn’t do anything to help him. I just shook my head and told him to get out before they had kids, but of course he wouldn’t shame his family with a divorce. It’s so sad to live in a self made prison. Let yourself out and let yourself be free. Masturbate and have sex and enjoy it. Don’t live by a repressive thought process bought into by the weak minded.
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