Don’t Be A Jerk – I wrote the following to a member who had written me and asked what he could do to cut down on his experiences with women online that were cybering or camming with him and then going offline as soon as they came, leaving him in the lurch. I decided my reply was sensible enough to be posted for others to see and hopefully learn something from. Even if you are not a religious sort, the do unto others as you would have them do onto you bit is sound advice that every single person should be practicing.
Assholes Online – Many online are assholes, this will come as no revelation, I am sure. Keyboard warriors who are bold due to their anonymity alone. One way to avoid getting dropped during a cam, phone or cyber session, is not to engage in one until you know the person better, but I know most people come on when they are horny and want something right then. This has never been my personal game plan, it’s like going shopping when you are starving, you’ll grab the nearest morsel you can get.
Don’t Just Be Horny, Be Polite – I realize my personal “audition process” is not what most people do, but it cuts down on bad experiences when you chat with someone a few times before playing, there’s more of an investment of time, so they are not as apt to run off as soon as they cum. Even with this method though, it has happened to me. I have been hung up on by a handful of guys after they came, and I was livid and immediately deleted and blocked them. One I even had chatted with for 6 weeks before playing with him and he did this to me the first and only time we played. I have never done this to one person I have phoned with, even when I knew I’d made a bad choice and would never be playing with them again, I got through it and did it and finished the call.
Cum & Go – I have heard countless guys tell me girls they were phoning, camming, or cybering with some girl who immediately left when they came. There are some rude, inconsiderate individuals out there. Obviously they wouldn’t do that to someone they were looking for a long term online playing relationship with. But a “hit and run encounter” with someone they have no intention of playing with again, they just don’t care. Other sites will be the same, CC doesn’t have the market cornered on thoughtless jerks and bitches, all sites will have the same sorts. Selfish idiots looking to get off and only their own orgasm to care about. Show others some respect and let them finish, even if you know you will not be playing with them again.
You Get What You Give – Karma is a reality, what goes around does indeed come around. Show others the same courtesy and respect you yourself would wish to be shown. Would you like to be hung up on? Your screen go black as they have turned off their cam? See them log out in chat when they say they have cum? I doubt you would. Treat others decently and maybe you will have someone to play with again in the future, and not some one time hit and run encounter that you’d be embarrassed to be confronted about.
Let’s Get Together – What can an adult social network site mean to you and your daily life? The huge impact of social networks on all of our lives in the last ten years has had far reaching implications for many people. We all know the biggest of the big one and how many people are seemingly addicted to it and it certainly doesn’t need further publicity by my naming it, but we all know what it is…
Join Our Community Of Masturbators – Some of us however believe it or not have no interest at all in broadcasting what we had for lunch or what little junior wore to school to the people we went to high school with 20 years ago. It seems beyond absurd to me that so many are sucked into such site. It has zero value to me personally. An adult social network though, now that has a lot of interest to me. I do enjoy getting to know people on an adult and erotic basis from around the world, and yet on a naughty social site, we usually don’t know the real last names or family details that are so broadcast on the mainstream social sites.
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hare Your Kinks With Like Minded Others- I guess for horny and alternative types of people, the appeal of the adult social network is where it’s at. With the level of anonymity that comes with being on such sites, many not using their own pictures and not full names etc., you can honestly be a lot more free and open and not worry about the judgments of others not so interested in the adult pleasures the internet has to offer. Many may love posting pics to show aunt Millie their latest trip and whatnot, but they wouldn’t be posting their cock pics and ones of them fucking their cream pie filled girlfriend and sharing those on a site their neighbors and co workers or boss might be apt to hunt them down on, so adult social network sites are for our other, more private and intimate sides.
Online Friends – What do they actually mean to us? I have pondered this many times since my online life began and I started making “friends” online. I shudder to think some treat people in their actual life as they do others online. Yes, there are some decent people out there in cyberspace, not a doubt. I have been lucky enough to meet many.
Fuck You And Block – There are unfortunately also the “keyboard warriors” out there who look at the anonymity of their computer as a license to be rude, aggressive and downright cruel since there are no repercussions for their words and actions. In real life it would be nice to hit “ignore”, “block” etc. When someone is annoying us, if one online annoys us, we can simply do this. Not everyone is this way though, and there are some truly nice people you can meet online.
Chat With Me – Some online friends I have chatted with literally for years and I enjoy chatting with them, some have grown to be more than online friends and become online lovers, they are in a category all their own, those are the ones we have cyber sex, web cam and phone sex with. Some of them also can hang around for years, others are like ships passing in the night, you enjoy your little tango and then you will likely never hear from them again. People in real life obviously do this as well for a one night stand, I myself wouldn’t want that, I like the continuing relationships and find them much more fulfilling, but many are just looking for a quick fuck for sure. Hopefully here at climaxconnection you too can meet some people that will become online friends you can chat with and have fun with.
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