Online Hook Ups – For many people, being part of an adult social network like this site allows them to explore things they either have not had the opportunity to in real life, or things they haven’t the nerve to try in real life. Looking for play online is often a fact of life when either one has no partner at all, or when the partner they do have is not as sexual a person as they are and they are needing to fulfill a need not being met by their partner.
Masturbation Cyber Style – Some people look at it as cheating, others not. Many couples are very open and seek online fun together, either alone by themselves, or together to spice things up. Being friendly online to some is just a much safer way of playing around with no risk of disease. Even if I had a partner, and they were ok with my playing around online, I’d prefer to keep that to myself. It’s private and my own little naughty, harmless secret, I wouldn’t want to make that part of my couple life. The need for variety is great and if they too were playing online with others, I wouldn’t want to know about it at all. Ever.
Help Me Get Off – Most people that phone, cam, cyber together will never, ever really meet. Of course there are exceptions, but mostly it’s not a worry. So for a partner to take that need for variety as a threat to their relationship is groundless most of the time. It’s occasional escapism with a sexual twist, and that’s how they need to view it, nothing more, nothing less. Now if a partner was camming every night for 3 hours or something and taking away from their relationship time, then that is an addictive behavior, but if it’s in moderation, say a few times a week, then I’d say it’s a fun excursion in their sexual life with no need to worry about it.
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