Going Down – Have you eaten any pussy lately? If you have, then you’ve certainly done something wrong. There are a million articles on the internet that tell you how to perform oral sex on a woman. Very few of them tell you what not to do. That’s what’s going to be discussed here.
Tease That Pussy – All guys and some gals need to know what to avoid when it comes to going down on their partner. The first rule of thumb when it comes to performing oral sex on a woman is not to eat it. If you’re hungry, go grab something to eat. Chewing and gnawing on a pussy won’t do anything other than cause pain. Stick to licking and sucking. Be very in tune with how your partner reacts when you lick certain areas. You’ll want to pay more attention on those that are more pleasureful. Don’t use your teeth. If you wear false teeth, take them out before performing oral sex. This will remove all possibilities of you biting them. There’s no part of the pussy that you want to bite. You need to get that through your thick skull.
Please Your Partner – The goal isn’t to just make your partner feel good. What you’re trying to do is score again. You want to eat pussy again in the not so distant future. If you do a good job, you’ll more than likely find yourself face deep in her pussy sooner rather than later. Don’t be in a hurry. Take your time and savor each moment. Getting to know your partner’s pussy is one of the best investments of time you’ll ever make. Learning how to sexually please your partner is the most important education you’ll ever receive. The next time you go down on her, don’t bite. Don’t chew. Just lick and suck. If you follow this simple guideline she’s going to be like putty in your hands.
Time For Some Variety – When you and your partner have been together for a couple years, you have mostly explored all the different things about sex. At one point of time, it gets a little boring and you long for something new. Something new with the same person because well cheating is not that is on your mind. You just want to explore the wilder side now.
Toys For Adults – The best way to possibly spice up your sex lives is trying out some latest collection of sex toys. Why sex toys? Because there is so much that you haven’t tried yet. Using sex toys also reduces your own energy and effort and doubles the pleasure. When you do not have to try as hard as before, you will feel everything more intensely. You can add an element of surprise to it by bringing one to your partner on a regular day and say we’re going to try something new today. They will love it when you try to do something special for them. You can talk about your fantasies and act it out with the help of bondage kits.
Oral Sex Toys – The whole definition of oral sex will change for you when you make the use of toys like auto blows and pussy lickers. Not everyone has a sexual partner, but most people enjoy oral sex , or some may have a partner that refuses to give them oral sex at all. So what is the answer? Find someone that will give it to you, or get a toy that’s a reasonable substitution for it. You don’t have to do the work anymore, all you have to do is let your partner rest and take charge. You will never want to let go of them because you can adjust their speed and intensity all based on your preferences and use them for as long as you feel like because unlike humans, machines don’t get tired.
Timing Is Everything – When is the worst time to tell someone you love them? When you’re face deep in their genitals. Sure, everyone wants to feel loved. There’s a time and a place for such expression. Many people don’t feel comfortable saying those three words. For whatever reason some people may feel more comfortable during the heat of the moment. Back up and just forget about it. Don’t even think about telling your partner how much you love them. It’s almost like you’re talking directly to their genitals. That’s never a good place to start a conversation.
Is There Ever A Wrong Time? – All this might sound funny to some of you. Those of you with a partner who doesn’t know how to express their love know all about this topic. They’ll tell you how much they love you at the strangest times. It can be easy to fall into the same trap as them. The only way out is to live by example. You need to be open about your love throughout the day. Don’t just limit it to sex. Doing so will reinforce the idea that this is the appropriate time for such announcements.
Look Them In The Eye – Are you the type that tells your lover your feelings while face deep in their naughty parts? If so, try to break that habit. It’s kind of cheesy. It makes them think that you only love them for sex. Instead, leave little reminders of your love. You’ll eventually feel more comfortable telling your special someone just how much you love them. This will in turn make them feel better. Who knows, you may even get more action in the sack because of it.
Say What – The double standard is alive and well in the dating game, or the sex game is more accurate. I read an article recently that spoke of the differences in people and casual sex, oral sex specifically. It said how getting a blow job for a guy was pretty common, yet women were certainly not getting anywhere near the same amount of downtown action. Seems a bj is pretty casual and standard, but for a guy to go downtown on a lady he needs to know her better. What utter nonsense, couldn’t think it true, but it is.
Equal Rights Orgasms – A guy I chat with said the same thing, how he gets bj’s all the time and expects them-yet he’d never go down on a woman the same way unless she was a girlfriend. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing, yet he was so matter of fact about it. He said they didn’t ask either, so it’s not like he was declining them when they asked, but I wonder, why are they not? Why is a woman’s sexual desire or needs any less than a man’s? Does a woman need to feel she knows someone better before allowing that level of intimacy? Yet why is it different to give one to a guy casually? I don’t understand.
Going Downtown – Just a generation ago, oral sex was considered a lot more intimate than intercourse, and not something that would be doled out so casually, yet since the rise of AIDS, it’s seemed a safer option than full on sex . And lest we forget the, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman…” (In other words, she gave me a bj, but I didn’t fuck her.) So oral is thought of by many to not even BE sex. It’s a confusing world these days, but I just don’t think it’s fair that women are seemingly doing all the giving and are apparently content to do so. It’s important to reciprocate, or don’t ask or expect someone else to do something you’re not willing to yourself.
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