This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
On The Road Again – Are you the type of person that travels a lot? If so, then you know exactly what it’s like to be away from your partner. Have you ever thought about having phone sex? Sure, it’s not as good as the real thing. But, it can help you get through a dry spell. Nothing is better than hearing the one you love moan with pure delight as they’re having an orgasm. It can be a lot of fun and you don’t have to totally go without sex.
Watch & Listen – Do you have a webcam or a smartphone? If so, you can take old school phone sex to a whole new level. You can actually watch each other masturbate! This can get real exciting and don’t be surprised if your first time is extremely thrilling. It can feel like you’re having sex again for the very first time. Don’t forget to give close ups of the good parts while you’re masturbating. Your partner will want to see exactly how aroused you’re making them.
Close To You – Remember it’s about more than just pleasure. Sex is about building a bond between you and your partner. Phone sex cements your relationship and takes it to another level. It also lets your partner know that you need them on a sexual level. It’s not uncommon for people to feel concerned when their partner no long desires sex with them. Keeping this desire alive and well is important for more than just experiencing sexual pleasure. It’ll also strengthen your bond and help you work towards building a lasting relationship.
Make Love To Me With Your Words – Phone sex is one of the most erotic ways that someone can masturbate. Until you have masturbated with another person, you truly have no clue what you are missing. I cannot sing the praises of phone sex and erotic audio enough. So many people today are into watching porn, but there’s no doubt that watching it a lot desensitizes you, this is a fact. The type of interaction you get while having phone sex and listening to sex sounds is not only a more natural way to get aroused, but can be much more fulfilling once you get used to it.
Arousal For The Visually Impaired – There are several blind or visually impaired people that have contacted me over the years that are very turned on by audio recordings of people having sex, and other types of erotic audio recordings. These people cannot watch porn, so they turn to the auditory porn they can enjoy and get off to. To them sounds are everything when vision is not an option. Due to amazing computer programs now available for the blind, they too can enjoy adult chat sites like Climax Connection and go in the chat and participate and search for fun as well.
Listen To Me – Even many of us with perfect vision are simply not turned on by porn, it just seems fake and contrived and not for everyone. How many of us have been in a hotel and heard someone in the next room going at it and pressed our ear against the wall trying to hear even better, visualizing in our own mind what was going on because of what we could hear? A good number, I’d venture. For many of us, hearing sex sounds was something we encountered long before seeing our first porn. Hearing your parents, or sibling with their partner for many would be their first exposure to sex and for some of us, it’s still a very arousing thing to hear others in the throes of passion, even if we can’t see a thing going on other than in our minds eye.
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Erotic Audio Recordings – Sex sounds of other people can indeed be very sexually stimulating. For some people, hearing another in the throes of orgasm is much more erotic than watching porn of the same thing. Many men are very visual and unless they are watching, they really won’t be aroused much. Some however such as visually impaired people cannot enjoy porn, so audio stimulation is all that they have in the way of audio or visual arousal. Even ones with perfect vision are often not aroused by porn and find audio far sexier.
Sex Sounds – Imagine for a moment people halfway around the world getting turned on by your sex sounds. The sounds you make as you masturbate or the sounds you and your sex partner produce together. That’s pretty amazing that people so far away can be turned on by the way you sound, your breathing, your moans, your orgasmic screams of ecstasy as you pleasure yourself and cum.
Phone Sex – Not everyone is comfortable enough to have full on phone sex, yet they love another’s sexy voice. Some are just too shy or don’t know what to say at all. I can promise you, there can be plenty hot phone sex even with very minimal speaking. Moaning and breathing is very sexually arousing in and of itself, and is very natural to hear during such times of pleasure. Think about it. What is more natural to have happen during actual sex, listening to natural moaning and breathing sounds from another person, or watching some fake, produced porn? No question. So many people have outright desensitized themselves by watching porn, yet I doubt too many have become numb from listening to another moan and breathe sexily on the other end of the phone. Phone sex and erotic audios-the more natural choice! They can enhance your masturbation experience a great deal, and we hope you find some that will make you happy here at Climax Connection.
You Too Can Have Phone Sex – Many people ask me how they can have phone sex if they have never done it before. There is no right or wrong way to have phone sex, what might arouse another person to the point of frenzy may very well leave the next person cold. Sexual interests are as varied as ice cream flavors, something different for every taste. Many first timers, ones who’ve never phoned before are often reluctant to phone, nervous as to how they will be, especially with a more experienced partner. First timers can be just as exciting and arousing to listen to as ones at it for years.
Sexy Is As Sexy Does – If you sound sexy, it doesn’t matter if you’re inexperienced. I’ve had some very hot partners that never phoned with anyone until I corrupted them. LOL…..They were plenty hot. It seems to be an innate talent some have. I think ones that are good at communication can be good at it, since they have a good vocabulary and descriptive ability to begin with likely. Some calls with some phone sex partners can be ret hot without even much talking at all, the breathing and moaning and panting can be more than enough with the right people.
Some Will Just Be Too Shy – Try as some might, they will always be best suited to cyber, they are just too shy to talk or verbalize to another person as they masturbate. Whether due to inexperience or just overall shyness. It is such a hot hobby though, I full encourage ones to try phone sex and see what they have been missing. Once you find a few good partners, or even just one, you will wish you’d been into it years ago and wonder why you waited.
The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.
Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.
Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!
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