The following blog post was written by ClimaxConnection member “typeaer“.
Aurally Eargasmic – why I love sounds.
I was recently asked by an anonymous female chatter: “what’s so special about phone sex and why do you love it so much?
My reply: “Do you want the long or short answer?”
To which she replied: “Both.”
You Sound Hot – In short, sounds are the sensual reward to saying the right word, touching the right spot, letting your lover know how fucking good it feels. Sounds are critical to the passion and essential to making you wet and your man rock hard. Sounds let me know you’re getting close, very close and I’m doing the right thing in just the right way.
Hearing You Cum – Hearing without the benefit of seeing is the ultimate tease. The slide of a zipper, the faint slap of material as roaming hands explore the borders at the fringe of wetness and or hardness – therein lies the turn on. Sounds are involuntary signs marking the transition from one excitement level to another. They’re an auditory right of passage symbolizing my finger has just dipped into your wetness or your hand has just gripped and squeezed the extent of my hardness. Sounds trigger the duration, timing and urgency of not only foreplay and sex but most importantly, our impending climaxes.
What is my Kryptonite? My Achilles heal? Hearing everything that brings her to and ultimately makes her cry out: “I’m cumming. . .”
Sex Sounds – Sounds feed the voyeur in us. They tell an entire story with a single breath, gasp or sigh. Sounds reflect the temperature of your libido and embellish the experience by adding sexually charged fuel to the fire. Sounds complete the visual experience and intensify the scents and flavors of the moment. Without sound, sex is just a silent movie and that is why I love phone sex so much.
Before she signed off she replied:
“Fucking hell you have a talent with words. I want to call you up right now :$ If I had a dick, it would be painfully hard right now but I don’t so I just gotta deal with these wet panties. . .”
Call Me Up And Let’s Masturbate – If you’re looking for free phone sex, then you can likely find a willing partner here at ClimaxConnection. We have many horny guys and gals that are also looking to spice up their masturbation by adding in a healthy dose of phone sex. Masturbating with a partner is far more fun than alone, and you may soon find you are downright addicted to it and don’t even want to play alone anymore.
Auditory Stimulation – Alone is like black and white, together is like technicolor. Once you discover a good and compatible phone sex partner, or hopefully more than one even, you will wonder why on earth you didn’t get into this fantastic and fun hobby years ago. People simply do not know what they are missing if they do not try it. Our chat rooms often have randy and willing people in them looking to play and they may be horny the very moment you pop in to look!
Find Masturbation Partners – Our profile pages are also filled with people looking for that Climax Connection with just the right partner. You can easily search by interest from the members page. You can find others profiles that have phone sex listed as an interest and then message them and hopefully have a fun time together. Some are just looking for a one time connection, others are looking for a more reliable and regular phone sex partner to have fun with on a regular basis, hopefully you will find just what you are looking for and have the most fantastic orgasms you ever had while masturbating.
Sex For Your Health – We all love sex, even if it’s by ourselves, because it feels good. It feels good physically and emotionally. For ones that have tried phone sex, you know exactly what I am talking about. Masturbating alone is a physical release yes, one of my phone guys calls it a “utility orgasm”. Gets the job done, you have the release and can then get on with your day. No emotional satisfaction at all though. Try masturbating with another person and you go from black and white to technicolor that fast. You soon realize alone just doesn’t cut it anymore.
Clean Out The Pipes – Sex has very real health benefits. Yes, everyone goes on about safer sex and condoms and birth control, but over and above those concerns, sex does have genuine health benefits. Men especially can benefit from prostate health if they have the recommended 21 + orgasms a month. Keeps the pipes clean so to speak and has real benefits of future reduced risk of prostate cancer. So if teenage guys get caught by mom masturbating, they should simply state without embarrassment, “It’s for my health!” Getting your blood pumping from sexual activity is a form of cardio vascular exercise. I can’t think of any way I’d rather get out of breath! Sex relieves stress.
“The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.”
― Woody Allen
Get That Heart Rate Up – It burns calories, reduces blood pressure, strengthens pelvic floor muscles, releases feel good chemicals like oxytocin, boosts self esteem, and even increases pain tolerance. And we all sleep better without a doubt after a nice orgasm (or more!) There’s a lot to be said for orgasms and having sex, even just masturbation. With all these proven benefits, it’s a wonder so many societies are so sex negative or sweep sex under the rug. I can’t even count how many people I have talked to that got zero education about sex at home when they were growing up from their parents. You’d think people would want to help their kids become future good lovers and grow up without hang ups, and teach them there is no need for embarrassment. That it’s as natural to be horny as it is to be thirsty or tired. Sadly that’s not reality. So let’s embrace the health benefits and pleasures that sexual activity has to offer.
Call Me – What do you think would greatly jazz up your masturbation routine? Phone sex, that’s what. If you haven’t tried it, I seriously encourage you to get on the phone sex bandwagon. The sound of another person as they are breathing heavy right into your ear as they are stroking themselves is fantastic. The right partner makes all the difference. If you find someone and are just looking for what I call “hit and run phone sex”, you’re likely going to be disappointed.
Hear Me Roar – If you find someone and chat with them a few times before getting naughty though, you’re much more likely to have a good experience and not as high of a chance of someone hanging up on you and leaving you hanging and wanting more and perhaps having to finish alone. Many people think because they are online and their identities are not revealed that manners do not apply, so they behave accordingly. I shudder to think if they behave the same way to people in their real lives. It’s always much nicer to play with someone you’re familiar with and occasional phone sex partners with than a stranger you anticipate will just be a one time thing.
Sounds Like Fun – A long term phone sex relationship can be a wonderful thing. That’s not to say you’re going to fall in love with them, or them with you, it’s just a comfort thing. You can feel so much more relaxed with someone when you know what to expect and what they expect from you. Phone sex buddies can be like fuck buddies I guess, though I never had one of those. Casual sex isn’t for me, but phone sex, you rarely know the people you play with well usually, so it feels fine to be semi casual with phone partners. Looking online for just the right match for you can be tricky, but it certainly can and does happen, but it can take lots of hunting. Chat rooms are a good place to try and find like minded people looking for the same thing. So check out the chat rooms and see who interests you.
Short Dick Man – If there’s one thing adult chat rooms will attract, among other things and types of people, it’s guys with small cocks. Now, it’s not really their fault mind you, we both know they’d give every cent they own if they could just wake up with a normal sized cock, but alas, that’s not meant to be. Many times these unfortunate cases know they cannot get a real life woman, so they seek obtainable online fun with ones that will never see what a poor excuse their manhood really is.
How Small Is It – It doesn’t really matter if it’s 2 inches long for cyber sex, does it now…No. Some are even under the delusion that they do indeed have a big cock, when in fact it’s far below average size. One messaged me not too long ago and even had the screen name to state he had a big cock and when I asked the size he was so boastful of, was told 4 inches. Uh, OK…..You do realize 5.5-6 inches erect is average for North American males? He wouldn’t believe it. He should have gone to Asia, where he would indeed be average sized. The poor Asian ladies don’t know what they’re missing, I guess. An entire continent of tiny dicked men. I wonder what the sales of dildos are in such countries for the deprived ladies to at least help themselves out? I do not have any stats on that.
Is That A Clit Or A Cock – To look at average cock sizes around the world maps is amusing, there are literally maps with small countries and large countries all color coded. But I digress, many of these men come to online chat sites because they know they can either send a girl fake pics of their “big cock”, or just avoid it altogether with cyber or phone sex so the other person doesn’t see what they are dealing with. Honestly, I don’t need to see, I don’t want to know the cock sizes of the ones I have phone sex with. I will never be seeing it or touching it, so it really doesn’t matter, but I have been told by many guys some girls DO care and do want to see what their online partners have size wise. Let’s just lose ourselves in the fantasy people, let’s not get all caught up in the facts, this is for fun, not for judgments.
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