It’s just a typical Wednesday night, you’re done with work for the day and open up your laptop to wind down with a nice wank. You open up your favourite porn site and scroll through the endless videos of the same thing you watched the day before and the day before that. It’s all the same and you get bored – variety is the spice of life, as they say, and porn is no exception. Our tastes change over the years and even if you know you like one particular kind, there’s no harm in testing new waters and trying something different.
In this article, we list 3 kinds of porn that perhaps you haven’t tried (or even heard of!) that you may want to give a go.
Get real with virtual reality
Having sex is great, but if you’re currently single or are simply home alone and want to enjoy a bit of solo-action, then the second-best to the real thing is VR porn.
Imagine this – you put on a VR headset and suddenly your messy room transforms into a beautiful hotel room, or maybe a secret kinky dungeon, or your stepmom’s house – whatever you may be into! You can see it all around you in 3D, so realistic that you could almost touch it. Then a gorgeous girl/guy comes over and starts giving you sexual pleasures that you witness from a point of view perspective as if it’s actually happening.
Compared to regular 2D films, VR porn gives the user the chance to feel like they’re actually part of the experience and if you combine it with some physical activity, then this could be an incredible way to experience fetishes and fantasies that you may not be comfortable doing in real life yet. For example, imagine a dominatrix standing over you, telling you that you have to obey her every command. She puts nipple clamps on you and at the same time, your partner in real life puts some clamps on you, so you can get even deeper into the virtual reality world.
Hentai – where fantasies have no limits
Now that you’ve given realism a try, why not go the complete opposite to the strange but wonderful world of Japanese anime and manga. These beautifully-drawn cartoons will grab anyone’s attention, but do you have what it takes to watch it till the end?
Hentai refers to sexual situations that are considered perverse with a side of fantasy, such as strange partners (think aliens and demons with very phallic tentacles as opposed to your strange next-door neighbour), for example. Hentai provides an outlet that explores darker, odder regions of human psychology and can shake people out of their standard thinking. You don’t know what you may be into until you try it right? If you can imagine it – hentai probably has a video on that!
Sounds too weird? Don’t rule it out just yet! Hentai is a massive genre of porn and for many years running, it has maintained its place as the 2nd most searched term on Pornhub, so there’s got to be something to it. If it’s not your kind of thing, you can always try our next tip!
Get your senses tingling with ASMR
ASMR is a relatively new trend, which sees people tune in to various sounds and role-play to trigger head tingles, also known as a head orgasm. ASMR stands for Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response and it’s a tingling sensation that can be felt on the skin, usually in the scalp, upper neck and spine.
It started off with YouTube videos of people tapping their nails on random objects, brushing hair, scratching stuff, whispering and a bunch of other seemingly odd things that trigger that tingly sensation. The only thing you need is a good pair of headphones to experience it fully.
ASMR porn is generally based on whispering and/or doing something on video that the viewer finds “satisfying”. For example, it could be a video of someone masturbating, looking into the camera as if at you and whispering how much they want you. They would describe in detail what they want to do to you and the sounds that they make in the video will be specifically designed to give you a tingling sensation.
Generally, it’s considered to be on the softer side of porn and not everyone experiences ASMR. If you watch one video though and don’t feel any tingles – perhaps you just haven’t found your trigger yet.
Why Are They Watching? – What should you do if you discover your partner has been looking at pornography? Don’t think this is a question just women have. Women are increasingly turning to porn to satisfy their need for arousal. There are many reasons for this and none of them are the point of this article. Most people, men or women, turn to porn due to a lack of sex. That’s the reason why porn exists in a nutshell.
Are They Turned On? – Should you freak out if you find out that your partner looks at porn? Maybe break a vase or two in the process? Relax, don’t get upset. Instead, investigate what they’re looking at. Ask them what type of porn they’re watching. You may even want to try watching it with them. Does your partner seem more aroused during certain sex acts than others? If so, ask if they’d like you to do that to them. Use this as a learning opportunity to discover why you’re partner is looking at porn. If you’re not having enough sex, then that’s more than likely the reason. It could also be that the sex you are having isn’t fulfilling their needs. Remember, you’re not fooling around in the sack just to pass the time. The goal should always be to fulfill the others needs. If this is done, the result will more than likely be a reduction in porn viewing. Even some highly sexually active people still look at porn.
Relax – Masturbation for some people is a stress reliever. They play with themselves as a means of getting rid of whatever stress has been bottling up. This can be healthy depending on how often a person masturbates. If masturbation is getting in the way of day to day life, then it’s a signal something else entirely is wrong. That’s a topic for a whole different article.
Too Much Of A Good Thing – How do you know if you watch too much porn? Many people don’t realize that they’re watching too much. Too much of anything isn’t good for you. Porn and masturbation go together hand in hand. Most people who watch porn masturbate while doing so. We’ve already talked about how masturbation can have a negative impact on your sex life. Porn can have the same negative impact, along with a few other things that most people aren’t going to realize. Watching too much porn can give us too high of expectations of one another. No one can perform like they do in porn videos. This is a truth that should be common sense.
Reality Check – Watch professional athletes play a game and see how they perform. You can’t slam dunk a basketball like they can. Why would you think that you or your partner should have the same oral sex skills as a porn star? Then there’s the bodies that the porn stars have. The guys have huge cocks and most of them spend all day in the gym. The women have big tits and rarely have an extra ounce of fat on them. Chances are you and your partner look nothing like the people in porn videos do. Unrealistic expectations when it comes to both performance and appearance is what watching too much porn will result in. Then no one is happy.
Everything In Moderation – This isn’t to say that you should quit watching porn entirely. Just make sure you’re not jerking off to porn more than you’re having sex. Porn is a lot like restaurant food, a little every now and then is okay. Don’t eat more takeout than food than what your own two hands cook. Don’t watch more porn than you have sex. It’s as simple as that.
Let’s Watch Some Sex – Both men and women look at porn. Sure, men consume far more porn than women do. This always has been and always will be the case. What do you do when you discover your partner is looking at porn? Maybe they’re even watching a lot of porn. There’s the tubes, webcams, and even erotic literature online. So much smut exists on the internet it’s difficult to not run into it. Many people stumble across their partner’s browsing history and become shocked. Why would they ever want to look at porn when they have you? That’s what we’re going to talk about here.
Getting Enough Real Sex? – Your partner’s porn viewing habits may or may not reflect what’s going on in the bedroom. Do you have an active sex life? If so, then your partner isn’t viewing porn because they aren’t getting any action in the sack. If you don’t have an active sex life, then that tells the story right there. Your partner probably doesn’t want to cheat on you and is masturbating while looking at porn. Nip it in the bud and get your sex life back on track. This sort of thing can wreck a relationship and luckily you saw the warning signs before it was too late.
Get Some Sex Ideas – Let’s pretend for a minute that your sex life is great and your partner is still looking at porn. Should you feel hurt? The short answer is no. Get involved and watch porn with your partner. See what kind of stuff they’re into. The real fun part is acting out what you see in the videos. You can spice up your sex life by recreating your partner’s favorite sex scenes. Take this opportunity to explore and learn about you and your partner’s sexuality. The process will help you grow and enable the both of you to share in something new. Just remember those people in the videos are more than likely professionals. They have sex for a living and that means they’re a whole lore more skilled and flexible than the rest of us. You may want to skip twisting yourself up like a pretzel if you’re not a gymnast by nature.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Adult Bookstores – Have you ever thought about going to an adult bookstore with your partner? If not, it’s high time that you do. Back in the day people mainly went to adult bookstores to buy porn videos and magazines. These days those two things are mostly bought by old men that can’t get it up. Everyone now gets their porn online in one form or another.
Don’t Be Embarrassed – Sex toys are the reason why you go to adult bookstores now. Sure, you can buy them online and it’s really convenient to do so. The problem is, you can’t see what you’re buying. Being able to see the sex toy in person gives you a whole different perspective. It also enables you to see your partner’s reaction when they touch it and hold it. Take your time and look around at what the adult bookstore has to offer. If you’ve never been in one before, you’re going to be surprised and maybe even a little embarrassed. Don’t let that stop you from having a good time in there.
One Stop Porn Shop – Your local adult bookstore should have something for everyone. You should also be able to find some good deals. That means you’re not going to have to break the bank to walk out of the store with something. Walking through the aisles of an adult bookstore is a great experience and every couple should give it a try. Go in with an open mind and you just make walk out with a brand new toy. You can buy more than just sex toys at your local adult bookstore. You should also be able to buy lube, condoms, and even lingerie. That’s even more reason why you should head to your local adult bookstore today.
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