Don’t Be A Slob – Maintaining your appearance is an important thing. Most guys think this only applies to women. That simply couldn’t be further from the truth. Just because you’re a guy doesn’t give you the right to look like a slob. That means you’re going to have to ditch our pizza stained white T-shirt. Hold your breath and count to five in an attempt to calm down. It goes even further than that. You’ve also got to care about how you look. You’re not doing this because you care about what others think of you. You care about what your partner thinks of you. That’s the key to understanding why you need to care about your appearance.
Take Care Of Yourself – This means you don’t eat too much. Get some exercise. Buy nice clothes and take care of them. Do you get the drift? This isn’t rocket science. All you’re doing is looking good for the person you love. Attraction is a big part of a relationship. You must be sexually attracted to the other person to make it work. The sexual attraction two people experience is the spark that creates excitement in a relationship. It’s not just about sex. It’s about enjoying the total experience you have with your partner. Sexual attraction is both thrilling and exciting. Every person should want their partner to experience this blissful connection that allows them to unleash their animal like desires. Sexual attraction is important in every relationship. It’s not uncommon for people to let themselves go at some point during a relationship.
Shape Up, Or I’ll Be Shipping Out – A kind reminder is what it takes to let the person know that they’re appearance isn’t up to par. It’s not being sexist or shallow to tell your partner that they’ve let themselves go. It very well could be a sign that there are other problems as well. Nipping something like this in the bud will go a long ways in ensuring that you maintain a level of sexual attraction that is needed for a healthy relationship to survive and thrive.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Looky Here – A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. Take advantage of your partner’s wandering eye by asking some key questions. What is it that attracts their eye? The most common answer is going to be someone that’s good looking. But, ask them to be specific. Are they attracted to outfits or body shapes? What you’re trying to do is be more appealing to your partner.Yes, you knew there was something sneaky going on. The goal is to make yourself look more appealing in the process.
Take Some Pride In Your Appearance – Give your partner something to stare at and their wandering eye may just be a thing of the past. But, let’s be honest here for a second. Everyone looks and it’s not going to stop anytime soon. What you’re trying to do is improve your relationship by understanding what your partner likes. If you noticed we’re being fairly gender neutral here. The reason for that is, both men and women look. It’s done by both genders and there’s no need to deny it. Ask your partner to go with you when you’re buying sexy outfits. Sure, they’re not going to want to go with you when buying sweatpants. That’s why you’re going to want to make sure they know what the shopping trip is for. Any guy out there, or girl for that matter, will enjoy watching their partner try on some sexy clothes. You can even make a little show out of it for your partner.
Don’t Get Jealous – Always remember that a wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. It tells that your partner is still interested and chances are that’ll translate into being focused on you. All you have to do is get them to focus that energy on you and not someone that’s passing by.
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