Sex During The Holidays – Many of us are extra busy during the holidays, and may not take the time out for sex or masturbation during this usually harried month. Shopping, traveling to visit far flung family members, late nights up decorating or baking or wrapping presents, drinking more than usual. Yet our bodies still have physical needs and we get horny and just may not have the privacy or time to masturbate and have as many orgasms as we would like. During this extra stressful month, the relaxation that orgasms can provide can be of extra benefit to you.
Orgasmic Christmas – December is really the prettiest month of the year with all the decorations and lights, so it can be more romantic than usual with all the pretty things about to look at and people dressed up in nice Christmas outfits and going to Christmas parties. According to statistics, nearly 60% of people have had sex at an office Christmas party when inhibitions are down and the booze is flowing, so at least someone is getting some time to be naughty! Drunken acts we may regret of fucking co workers and having to face them in the New Year, maybe think twice about that, you don’t want your job affected or strained working relations with people.
‘Tis Better To Give Than Receive – Christmas sex like birthday sex can be extra special and more giving, you want your partner to maybe have a treat they don’t get that much, maybe if your partner is crazy about anal and it’s not a favorite sexual activity for you, you could toss them a bone for the holidays and give that to them as a special little gift. You could always be playful and wrap yourself, or part of yourself, in a bow for them to “unwrap”. Enjoy your Christmas sex and orgasms!
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The Importance Of Privacy – With many headed off to college or university and not having the usual privacies of home, masturbation can become an issue if you suddenly have roommates. Many of us, especially only children, take privacy for granted, and all of a sudden find shared living quarters and small spaces add up to you being horny and nowhere to relieve yourself. Many students in dorms have told me this is a major issue. If you have a car, worse comes to worse, you can always drive to a secluded spot and do it in the car, not the most ideal environment, but a possibility.
Set Up An Alone Time Schedule – You could tell your roommate you need time for phone calls, or any other number of excuses that are plausible to get alone time. Learn your roommate’s class schedule, so you know when you will have the room alone for that time period. If you’re very daring, just do it while they are asleep in the same room. Believe me, it happens. One guy I used to chat with would even have sex with another person while his roommate was in the room , he just didn’t care! I’d think that a bit of an extreme case, and most wouldn’t be comfortable with that much openness.
Just Be Open – Some are direct types, and honestly, most prefer that. If you are comfortable enough to have a conversation with your roommate and can discuss this, most will be glad, since they are worried about it too, not many though will feel confidant enough to bring up a “masturbation schedule” though. One man I talked to said he couldn’t do that, his roommate was a religious freak and would not approve of anyone masturbating, let alone a time schedule for it! Shower time could be used for quickies, but a 5 minute quickie isn’t always enough to satisfy us, but may be all we can squeeze in. Masturbation is beneficial for health and mental relaxation. Being pent up and horny all the time isn’t doing anyone any favors. Don’t neglect your pleasure, find a way to fit it in.
Online Privacy – Chatting online and having fun like cyber sex and phone sex are wonderful for people looking to maintain some level of privacy in their online social activities. Many assume ones are not into cam sex because they must be ugly and this is why they are “hiding themselves”. Not at all, many are either simply not aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk, or else they are worried about their privacy.
Can I Trust You? – People blackmailing others by recording cam shows is a sad reality for some. You never know who you are dealing with on the other side of the computer screen. I laughed one time when some guy opened his cam, I hadn’t asked him to as it’s not an interest of mine, and I swear he had a bandanna over his face from the nose down like a bank robber. He had what he felt was a penis deformity and wanted my opinion, I kid you not. And, truth be told, it DID look deformed! The bandanna mask did take me aback as much as his deformed cock though. I thought he must have been burned once to do such a thing, and he didn’t know me well enough to know I was no threat.
Give Me Some Privacy – Many are self conscious about their looks as it is, and I don’t ask for pics as a rule, as long as their voice is what I want, I really do not need to see. Men being the visual creatures that they are however, often want to see who they are really talking to. If you refuse to go on cam you are accused of being everything from a man to very ugly. Many online are so suspicious, and many online have lied, so ones that have had such experiences often think the worst of everyone and assume the worst in all cases. Some things really are best left to the imagination.
Knock Knock – Lack of privacy for masturbation in a shared environment is something many people have to deal with on a regular basis. Often when one goes away to college and has a roommate for the first time this can prove troublesome. I used to mercilessly tease someone I chatted with that was going away to college as this was a real concern of his. I told him he’d be out walking looking for back alleys to jerk off behind dumpsters to get some privacy. He freaked out when I said his roommate was doing it as he slept in the bed next to him. It was so fun to tease and play on his worries!
Are You Alone – One I phoned with used to go out in his car, another went into a closet that still lived at home. I used to tell the one in the car, he’d drive out to the woods, I told him one night he was going to get his car stuck out there and was going to have to call a tow truck and how embarrassing it would be to explain what he’d been doing out there at 3 AM! I told him shortly after meeting his new roommate, they just be matter of fact about the matter and sit down calmly and create an “alone time” masturbation schedule. He was mortified, and I was laughing at his discomfort. Luckily I have never had a roommate to contend with, but joking aside, it is a problem. Many I have wanted to phone with were paranoid roommates might hear them talking, or they would only do it when the roommate were out of the shared quarters entirely.
Is Someone Watching – This is a real concern to many going away to college for the first time. The thought of being caught if someone walks in on them, there are some very funny real life tales online of experiences like this, getting caught masturbating, funny now but not at the time.
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