When Is Right? – How long should you wait to have sex after a breakup? It seems the answer to this question is all over the map. It probably depends on if you’re asking a guy or a gal. Relationships end, and at some point you’ve got to move on. That doesn’t mean it’s easy and there won’t be quite a bit of pain along the way. Marriage can be different in terms of recuperating than simply dating. Though, in today’s world, many people date for years or even decades.
So Alone – For many couples dating is the equivalent to marriage. No matter if you’re a man or a woman, having sex too soon after a breakup is a bad thing. Deep down inside you know this. You know it because just the thought of it alone makes you feel uncomfortable. You’re not celebrating the fact that the relationship isn’t over. Even though some people who haven’t been in this situation think that a celebration is in order. Ending a relationship can be quite painful. It takes time for the wounds to heal. So, how long should you wait before having sex? It’s not a matter of days or months. The answer to that question is inside you. You’ll know when you’re ready to have sex again. There isn’t some arbitrary number that can be pulled out of thin air. It could take you months or maybe even years to have sex again. To some, waiting years to have sex sounds impossible. Those people have never experienced pain on the level that you are.
Be Patient – Don’t rush into having sex after a breakup. You shouldn’t rush into getting into another relationship either. You’ll know when the time is right. People think that immediately jumping into a new relationship will ease the pain. It won’t. It’ll only complicate the pain and it may add to it. If you breakup with them quickly, you’ll have double the dose of sorrow. Always remember to practice safe sex when you’re hooking up with a new partner. Even if you feel the relationship will last, use protection. It’ll possibility prevent any headaches that may arise with your new found lover.
Talk To Me – How often do you and your partner talk about sex? Sex can be a very uncomfortable topic for some people. It shouldn’t be. In fact, you should talk about sex quite a bit. There’s no reason why you shouldn’t be talking about it. Communication is key in all aspects of your relationship. Talking isn’t something that’s only done to figure out what you’re going to eat for supper. A communication break down will have a negative impact on all of your life. This also includes what goes on in the bedroom.
They Can’t Read Your Mind – How do you know what your partner likes in the sack? You talk about it. You tell them what you like. Don’t be shy to compliment your partner on a great finger banging job. How was the ball licking last night? Fantastic? Don’t forget to let them know how much you liked it. This of course is a humorous approach to get you to understand the power and importance of communication. However, your partner can’t know what you like without you telling them. It goes far beyond telling your partner what you like when it comes to sex. Talking about sex also opens up the channels to discuss your sex life in general. If you’re not getting enough action, then you need to talk about it. You’re not going to be able to talk about it if there’s a communication break down in your relationship. There is no reason why adults should feel uncomfortable talking about sex. It’s a normal healthy part of a relationship.
Communication Is The Key – Being shy about sex will only lead to future dissatisfaction. You need to be able to talk about this very important aspect of your life. Talk openly and freely about sex with your partner. Always make them aware that they can talk to you about anything. Big problems happen to relationships when the sex dries up. The easiest way to avoid these problems is by being able to talk about them.
The Ultimate Orgasm – Do you want to have great sex? Everyone does and most people have no idea how to achieve it. You don’t need huge tits or a big penis to have a great time in the sack. Flat chested women and guys with small penises are having wonderful sex every day. The difference is, they know something that you don’t. The only way you’ll consistently have great sex is by being in a long term relationship. A one night stand will never produce the kind of sex that fulfills your every need.
Know Your Partner – The reason for that is quite simple really. It takes quite a bit of time to know what you and your partner like. You’re not going to learn this during a conversation over a few drinks at your local bar. Practice makes perfect and it couldn’t be more true when it comes to the bedroom. You can’t pleasure your partner if you don’t know what they like. Sex isn’t like a one size fits all pair of socks. Great sex comes from knowing exactly what your partner likes. The same could be true when it comes to them pleasing you. Neither of you learned what foods or TV shows the other liked over night. It took time for you to develop an understanding of what the other likes. The same is true in the bedroom.
Comfortable Passion – Have you ever looked at a couple that’s been together in a relationship for a long time and envied their happiness? Now you know why they’re so happy. The reason is, both of them know exactly what the other likes in the bedroom. There’s no guessing or learning what needs to be done. This is the true secret to having great sex. Happiness is something you need to work at and so is being sexually satisfied. Any quick fixes that you find along the way will never deliver the promises they make.
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