Agree On Terms – What is cheating? It’s a question that doesn’t have a singular answer. Cheating has no definition in a relationship until it’s given one. This is the key thing for everyone to understand when it comes to relationships. What you think of as cheating may not be the same as your partner. This is why it’s important to define the term early on in your relationship. Don’t let a situation arise where hurt feelings may occur over not understanding the level of commitment expected from each other. A kiss or even flirting can be seen as cheating.
Is Playing Ok? – Some couples are okay with the idea of mutual masturbation or even oral sex. While others may totally be comfortable with their partner having sex with someone else. This is why what is cheating needs to be established early on in the relationship. Going behind the back o f your partner is never a good idea. Lies do not make for a solid foundation. Anything other than that will crack at some point and the relationship will be over. What do you think is cheating? Tell your partner and get it out in the open. This is one area that you can’t leave to interpretation.
Trust Is Key – You have to set boundaries or things will eventually get out of hand. Most relationships can’t and won’t last if there are trust issues. It goes far beyond sex and it determines a person’s character. The limits you place will also help in judging your partners honesty. Never think you fully know someone until you actually do.
Not Getting Lucky? – Every guy reading this wants to get laid. Pussy is the thing that you can’t stop thinking about. Most of you probably have wives or girlfriends. You always thought you’d be having plenty of sex once you shacked up with the chick. Then you find out that bigfoot is easier to find than your woman’s snatch. Most guys in this situation think the problem is with their women. It’s the chicks fault that theres no sex going on. Did you ever think that you may be the reason why youre not getting laid?
Be Generous – That might sound like the craziest thing you’ve ever heard. It also might be the truest thing that you’ve ever read. You might be the reason why you’re not getting any action in the sack. Let’s work on reversing this for the sake of your penis. Don’t overlook the power of flowers and small gifts. You might not be showing your woman how much you appreciate her. It’s not the value or really even the gift itself. What your woman wants to know is that you’re thinking of her. It may surprise you how important this is to your woman. It’s an odd fact of life that you’re going to have to get used to. Buying gifts for your woman should be something that you do on a constant basis. Don’t even try to understand why she likes them so much. Just get it over with and buy them.
Don’t Wish For It, Work For It – Do you want to know how to really score in the sack? Do housework. Wash the floor, do the laundry, cook a meal. All of these things will lead you to having more success in the bedroom. As guys we need to stop being macho and thinking that our lives are so much more difficult. Working women who take care of the household have it harder than men do. It’s the truth and you should realize it. Help around the house and make sure your woman isn’t exhausted when she goes to bed. She’ll reward your hard work with sex. It’s worth washing the dishes and folding some laundry in the long run.
The Pussy Is Booked – What’s the one thing that you can do to improve your sex life? Plan for sex. Schedule sex in to your daily routine life. Sex doesn’t always have to be a spur of the moment thing. Couples live busy lives and that means finding time to have sex can be difficult. It’s not out of the ordinary for those busy lives to end up making us quite tired at the end of the day.
It’s Sexy Time – This is another advantage to planning to have sex ahead of time. You can choose days when both of you will be less tired and stressed out. This will improve the quality of the sex that you have. Sex that isn’t spontaneous seems to be frowned upon by some couples. They feel that sex should be something that magically happens out of thin air. That’s not the way it works when both of you live busy lives. You’ve got to plan ahead and schedule sex like anything else in life. Chances are pretty good that both of you will rarely ever want sex at the same time. It only happens during vacations or weekends filled with nothing at all to do.
Togetherness Time – Just because sex is planned and not a spur of the moment thing doesn’t mean it has to be dull and boring. Spice up planned sex like you normally would spontaneous sex. You’ll find that it’s easy to get ready for planned sex as you’ll prepare yourself for it hours in advance. Sex is an important part of any relationship. That’s why you take it serious enough to plan for it. It’s the best way to ensure that you’ll have sex and enjoy it as well.
Looking Good – Guys do it and so do gals. The only people who don’t are those who are blind. We’re talking about looking at the opposite sex. You look and so does your partner. It’s a fact of life that everyone has to deal with. There are even plus sides to looking at other people. The truth is, everyone does it. Denying it is futile and it won’t get you very far. Humans are social creatures and looking at other people is natural.
Take A Picture It’ll Last Longer – This is mainly a problem that guys have. Especially those of you that haven’t learned the art of ogling. You need to look without having an expression of a hungry wolf. It’ll do more than make your significant other less jealous. You’ll also make the person you’re looking at feel less uncomfortable. After all, not everyone likes being looked at like they’re a piece of freshly fried chicken. You know how you look at a piece of crispy chicken before eating it at suppertime. That’s the say way you look at someone that’s appealing. Tone it down and you’ll seem less creepy. All while not letting your partner know about your viewing pleasure.
The Green Eyed Monster – Jealousy is one of the worst things in a relationship. It’s something that both parties have to deal with. That doesn’t mean you can’t lessen the impact that it has. If you’re the jealous type, you may want to buy some blinders. They work for horses and it’s worth giving a shot. In all seriousness, don’t get the ogling get to you. Instead, ask your partner what they like about the other person. Try to find ways to make yourself appealing in the same way. You’d be surprised by the little things that get your partner’s attention. Knowing what they are will allow you to improve yourself. This will intern give you the chance to work on your appearance. Self improvement is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship and one can’t grow without it.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Listen – Communication is the most important aspect of any relationship. Don’t expect your sex life to be great if you don’t talk to your partner. It’s an odd thing to think about. That is, until you actually think about it. Many couples don’t talk to each other. Most people these days live busy lives and they don’t have time to talk about the smallest things. It’s not too surprising that talk about sex would get lost in the mix. If you’re not talking about the important things, it’s safe to say sex isn’t being discussed either.
Regular Communication – Couples must constantly work on improving their communication skills if they expect to have a great sex life. There are plenty of uncomfortable subjects that can arise during some excitement in the bedroom. If you can’t talk about the boss being an asshole at work, then the conversation of farts during oral sex probably won’t happen either. It sounds funny until you’ve had your face next to what smells like a fresh pile of shit. Flatulence is a part of life, but maybe you should discuss your chili with beans lunch choice before oral sex. See, communication really is important.
Absorb What You’re Told – All joking aside, you’ve got to feel free talking about what you like and what you don’t. Thats not going to happen when the lines of communication are broken. Improving your sex life doesn’t start with buying toys or lingerie. It starts by two people talking and listening to each other. If you want a good relationship and a great sex life, it will always begin with communication. If you’re unsatisfied in the bedroom start by talking about something else. You’d be surprised by what a little communication can do.
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