It’s Not A Race – This is an article for all the men out there. Women, you too can learn a thing or two from this. Every guy reading this wants to be able to last longer in the sack. It’s not a race. Finishing first doesn’t win you any prizes. The goal during sex should always be to satisfy your partner as much as yourself. This can’t happen if you’re finishing too fast. How can you last longer? That’s what this article will attempt to help you accomplish.
Slow Down – You can always jerk off before having sex. You’re going to want to do this a few hours before the actual deed itself. You don’t want to jerk off and think you’ll immediately be able to have fun in the sack. You’ll have to give your penis time to recuperate. Jerking off a few hours before hopping in the sack will help you prolong the pleasure. Skip the foreplay and get straight to work. The guy should be the one who skips out on foreplay. This can also give the man a chance to pleasure his woman longer. Take your time and enjoy yourself. You’ll both have a good time as a result. The key thing here is to make you last longer. By skipping the oral sex yourself, you’ll be able to do that. If you need a little help getting it up, then have her do that right before penetration.
Relax – You can always have a drink before sex. Sometimes alcohol can have a prolonging effect. You’re not going to want to drink too much. Have you ever heard of the term whiskey dick? You’ll know what it’s all about once you’ve tried to have sex after drinking too much. You’ll end up with a limp noodle in between your legs. Having a drink or two might help. At the very least, you’ll loosen up a bit and that may make sex better also. Take your time and enjoy sex. Don’t be in a hurry. This is the best advice anyone can give you. It can be easy to get too excited. Don’t allow this to happen to you. Pace yourself and have a good time. Not many women want to be pounded hard like you see in the porn videos. Take it nice and slow and you’ll both enjoy it better. Hurrying or being too excited will only spoil the fun.
Relax – Slow down. Sex isn’t a race. You’re not trying cross the finish line faster. No one wins a prize for having the fastest sex. Many couples tend to be in a hurry when they have sex. There can be several reasons for this. You may find yourself extremely aroused after not having sex for a long time. It’s also possible that you’re trying to fit sex into your busy schedule. Sometimes you just need to stop and smell the roses. Don’t be in a hurry when you’re having sex. Make sure that you do plenty of talking. Tell your partner what’s turning you on.
Life Is A Banquet – Take time out to touch and taste each other. You should plan your sex in advance. This will give you plenty of extra time to enjoy. Spontaneous sex seems like it’s the best kind at first. The best sex you’ll ever have is sex that you planned in advance. That means you can get all the stuff ready for a good time. Just think of all the fun you can have in the sack if you’re not in a hurry. You can have a glass of wine or some fun finger food. What about foreplay? You can even do that too. There are times when quickies are more appropriate. No sex life is complete without the occasional quickie. You don’t want them to be a part of your routine. Sex is best when it’s unhurried. When you can take your time and simply enjoy the act.
Enjoy One Another – You can’t undervalue quality time spent together. Sex isn’t always about getting your rocks off. Sex strengthens your relationship like nothing else can. Your life will always be improved when the bond you share with your partner is strengthened. The person you’re in the sack with isn’t just a fuck buddy. They should be your life partner. The person becomes just that by playing an ever more increasingly important role in your life. This only happens when your bond is strong. This is the true benefit of slowing down your fun in the sack.
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