Dress You Up – You’re in a strange position that you never thought you’d be in. Your partner wants you to dress up as someone of the opposite sex. Should you be alarmed that they’re having homosexual fantasies? The quick answer is no. The truth is, they may not be having homosexual fantasies at all. They just want to do a little role playing. They may want to see you wearing something different. It could be something as simple as that.
Role Playing – Can it harm your relationship to live out gender bending fantasies? No. Actually, you might find your relationship stronger afterwards. Your partner will feel that they can come to you with any fantasy that they have. No matter how strange it may seem at the time. It very well could be a phase they’re going through. Living out the fantasy may get it out of their system and you can then move onto something else. The only caveat to all this is if you notice your partner watching a lot of homosexual porn. You may even notice them paying close attention to people of the same sex while out and about. If this is the case, it very well could be more than just a fantasy.
What Are The Risks? – The only real danger of this sort of thing is adultery. The risk of heartache and disease is real when people stray away from their relationship. As long as adultery isn’t in the mix, gender bending fantasies are okay. In fact, they’re quite healthy. You might as well put on a fake mustache and go down on your man. There’s no reason why he can’t put on a bra or wear some high heel shoes. If nothing else, the two of you very well could get a laugh out of it.
It’s A Bird, It’s A Plane, It’s Superman – Have you heard of cosplay? You probably have. It’s where you dress up like your favorite movie, cartoon, or video game character. It’s something that a lot of people are into. You know where this is going. You don’t have to just dress up like one of these characters at your favorite convention. You can even do it in the bedroom. You can be the big hunk that your woman has always wanted.
Rescue me – Maybe your guy has always wanted to have sex with a princess. You get the drift. Cosplay gives you the chance to live out your fantasies on a whole new level. Let’s be honest for a second. Your partner probably won’t look like a princess or a bodybuilder hunk with abs made of steel. That doesn’t mean you can’t live out the fantasy and have a good time in the process. It’s all about spicing up your sex life. Sometimes things can get far too routine. Many couples stop having sex because everything becomes boring. It’s like you’re going through the motions just one more time. Get it over with and then go on with your day. Cosplay is no different than role playing or anything along those lines. The difference is that it uses your favorite characters and it allows you to think outside the box. You can be a whole different person and sometimes that can be a good thing.
Let’s Get Creative – Cosplay doesn’t have to be expensive. You can even make your own costumes. You can be as creative as you want. It’s truly all about you. What character are you going to be? Here’s a twist that you probably didn’t expect coming. You can even play someone of the opposite sex. A guy can be a damsel in distress that needs saving. Remember, this is just for you and your partner. It’s not just about the sex. What you’re trying to do is have fun and let your hair down. Have a few drinks and put your costume on. Enjoy some fun and a few giggles along the way. It’ll make the experience something that you’ll wonder if it’s a fairytale or not.
Click the player to listen to the blog being read.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red
The Boss and the Secretary – As one of many roleplays where one person has the power under which the other becomes utterly helpless, this is a great introduction to bondage.
The Hitchhiker – Let go of your inhibitions and take your role play fantasies out of the house with this naughty classic that combines the excitement of car sex and the added risk of picking up a total stranger.
Teacher and Pupil – Another classic that is especially good, as it allows the two of you to reverse the roles whenever and however often you want.
Home Delivery – Something’s wrong with your Internet connection, there’s a light bulb that needs changing that’s just out of reach, or maybe sabotaging your electrical appliances has left you hungry for a little bit more than what the pizza delivery guy has got in his box.
Man/Maid Action – The man of the house needs help keeping his place ship-shape, so who better to call than the local French maid cleaning service?
Playing Doctors and Nurses – We know this scenario is a little cliché and far from an original role play idea, but there’s a reason why it’s such a time-honored favorite. And that reason is: because sexy nurses and dashing doctors are awesome.
****************************************************************************************
We do hope you enjoyed this informative, helpful and interesting 4 part series that eric60red was kind enough to have contributed to our site blog. We have no doubt many of the ideas and suggestions herein can be put to good and naughty use in your cyber sex roleplay sessions! Have fun, and be creative! We just know there’s someone here for you in the chat rooms or forums looking for a fun partner to masturbate with.
Let’s Pretend – For many that come to our site climaxconnection, they are into cyber sex and role playing. They enjoy crafting elaborate sexual scenarios where they play people much more exciting than themselves and like to interact with other people much more interesting than themselves! Some like to pretend they are older or younger than they really are and get into elaborate romance novel like descriptions of what they would do to each other.
Who Are You – Role playing isn’t restricted to ones into cyber sex though, many even into phone sex like to get into scenarios of naughty neighbors or teacher student, or any other number of roles they may dream up to enhance their masturbatory games. Role playing can stretch across all genres of sex chat, cyber, phone, and even real life sex. Costumes have brought to life many fantasies and made them more realistic. The French maid doing more than the room cleaning for the hotel guess can be made all the more real with a cute outfit to go with it. I guess ones into cam sex could also get in on the fun in the same way if they were dedicated enough.
Act This Way – With pretending, your roles are only as limited as your imagination. You can pretend things that are otherwise taboo and likely never to happen, you can have the cougar you phone with become mommy, you can fuck your college professor on the desk, fuck your boss that you’d wanted to nail since the day you were hired. These things are likely never going to happen, but with a like minded role playing partner, all of these things are possible and can be extremely arousing to imagine happen as you masturbate together as you pretend, “what if”…
I’m Ovulating – Many people that enjoy phone sex and cyber sex enjoy incorporating an element of role play into their conversations. One role play that seems to have a number of fans, especially men, is impregnation and breast milk fetish, they don’t always go together, but many times they do. I’ve spoken to guys that liked one or the other but not always both and some that did like the combination. The combination of the better feeling of bareback sex and the risk of chancing getting pregnant is a heady combination to some, even ones who do not actually wish to get pregnant, or get someone pregnant in real life.
Breed Me – The breast milk fetish is also an appeal for many, though not all impregnation aficionados. It surprised me when I learned so many men are into this, since my first thought is guys would want to do everything possible to avoid getting a woman pregnant, and yet they love to fantasize about it. I think many young men have never had sex without a condom on and the idea of finally being able to do it without one and have it feel so much better is what perhaps fuels this fantasy popular with so many of their role play fantasies.
Give Me Your Seed – Lots of guys are into breasts, and the thought of those breasts also being filled with milk, nourishing and nurturing, swollen and so appealing, that gets some rock hard. Taking their young, potent seed inside your fertile womb and giving them a baby made from your love together, your unprotected, steamysex.
Twitter
Tumblr
Newsletter