Love On A Budget – Quite a few couples are on a budget these days. Romance isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when making a budget. Don’t worry, you can spice up your love life for next to nothing. You don’t need to break the bank to have a quiet sexy evening at home. Sex is free and what leads up to it can be fulfilling and cheap. Cook a meal at home. You don’t need to go out to a fancy restaurant. You can even have a picnic. If you have kids, go outside and eat. Don’t feel guilty for not inviting them to the meal. Send them off to their grandparents while you have some time for yourself. There’s no need to pay for a babysitter. Your parents 
will love spending some time with their grand kids.
Spend Wisely – Don’t run out and buy a CD of romantic music. Does anyone buy CDs these days? You can find all the music needed for free on YouTube. Almost the same exact thing could be said about candles. There’s no need spend big bucks on a candle. It’s all about creating an atmosphere and cheap candles found at any dollar store can do just that. A decent bottle of wine can be bought for just a few bucks. You should always buy wine from a store with knowledgeable employees. Ask them what’s good and cheap. You should be able to get a good bottle of wine for five dollars or less. Yes, that’s cheap. Some will say that you can’t get a good bottle for under ten dollars. Buy what’s on sale. You’re bound to find a deal if you put in the leg work.
Priceless Moments – By far the most important aspect of all of this is spending some quality alone time with your partner. You can do that without any of the stuff mentioned above. Don’t have any cash at all? You can still listen to YouTube if you’re reading this on some sort of electronic device. Find a quiet place and make out before having sex. Enjoy the alone time and have sex. Setting aside a little time for the two of you is what’s the most important thing. All the other stuff is just an attempt to get you in the mood to do the deed.
A Day Of Romance – Valentine’s Day will be here before you know it. Guys often make the mistake of thinking that this is just another commercial holiday. A day meant for nothing more than spending your money. There may be some truth in all of this. That’s not the way you want to approach this day though. If you do, be prepared for all out war. Your woman is never going to understand why you think it’s not a good idea to celebrate a manufactured holiday. Don’t even think about going there.
Symbols Of Love – For most couples Valentine’s Day is about more than just expensive gifts. It’s a day where you can celebrate your relationship. You can openly discuss why you’re in love with each other. This is the true value of Valentine’s Day. A box of chocolates or even holiday sex is less important than this. That may seem far fetched to all of you who very rarely get any action. It truly is more about more than just a quick romp in the sack. People need to have the reason why their partner loves them reaffirmed. It’s sad to think that a holiday is the day most people will choose to do this.
Express Your Love – The most important lesson about Valentine’s Day can be learned simply by listening. Take a moment and share with each other why you’re in love. Don’t be shy and never hold back. You shouldn’t need a special day of the year to tell your partner why you love them. This should be done every day. Not everyone is good when it comes to expressing their feelings. This is something that every person needs to get use to. The relationship cannot grow if there is no honesty. There will be times when you need to tell your partner that you’re not happy. Just like there will be times when you tell them you’ve never been happier in your entire life. The full spectrum of emotion should be expected throughout the duration of any relationship.
Enjoy The Love – Take this day and enjoy it the way you see fit. Splurge and buy your partner something they like. Take a moment that just a few minutes to yourselves. Reaffirm to each other the values of your relationships. Love is the most beautiful thing any human will ever experience. The hope should be that you get to enjoy it every day and not just once a year. Work towards this and make every day Valentine’s Day. It’s not easy, but to reward is well worth it.
Rub A Dub Dub – Have you ever thought about taking a shower or a bath with your partner? This isn’t away to help improve their personal hygiene. Taking a bath or a shower with your partner can actually be quite exciting. You get to see them naked. That’s always a plus. Who doesn’t like seeing someone of the opposite sex naked? Just seeing them naked is like winning the lottery. All the other fun stuff that happens in the bathtub is just a bonus.
Sexy Bathing – What can you do while in the shower or bathtub? You can wash each other. You’ll be surprised by just how erotic of an experience this can be. The slippery feeling of soap on your partner’s skin can be very arousing. You’ll also enjoy the feeling of them washing your body as well. How should you go about washing each other? Doing so in the shower is pretty straight forward. Anyone who needs help with that has bigger issues at hand. You can share a bath if your tub is big enough. You may even consider burning some incense or candles.
Get Clean To Get Dirty – Try to make it as romantic as you can. A little bubble bath might also be fun while taking a bath together. The quality of your relationship is a reflection of how much effort you put into it. The little things that you do together add up. There’s no one thing that will make a relationship great. Taking a bath together is all about sharing some quality time alone. It’s a period of time when the two of you can just unwind and relax.
How Do I Love Thee – When is the last time you wrote a love letter to your partner? This may sound like a stupid question for an adult. It’s not as stupid as it sounds. Everyone likes to know how their partner feels about them. Words can be difficult to say. Writing them makes it so much easier. Not only that, but it also takes time. People appreciate when someone takes time out to do something for them.
Read How I Feel – Write your significant other a love letter. Tell them exactly how you’re feeling inside. The love note can be steamy. Maybe you’d prefer to write a letter about sex. There’s no reason why you can’t do this. Sure, it won’t have the same appeal as a love letter would. That doesn’t mean your partner will toss it in the trash can. They’ll pull out the naughty letter when they’re in the mood to get kinky. You never know, it may be their go to masturbation material. Don’t worry if you’re not a writer by nature. Feelings from the heart or loins are what’s important. Just say what you’re thinking and feeling. Honesty is important when writing a letter such as this. Throw everything you were taught about grammar out the window as well. Just lay it all on the line. Your partner will actually be amazed by what you’ve been bottling up inside you.
Your Words Take My Breath Away – Go put pen to paper and spill out your heart. Maybe include a few lines of lust in it as well. Those who enjoy a healthy sex life know it takes work. Happiness in any form doesn’t just show up out of nowhere. The same could be said about the quality of your sex life. You should work on improving it every day. It’s the little things that add up in your efforts to do so. Go write the person you love a letter and see how they react. Their reaction will more than likely surprise you.
We all want our loved ones to have a gentle, and possibly romantic, start to their day, the following suggestions just might endear you even more to your beloved. Be creative and playful and thoughtful.
Breakfast In Bed – We don’t always have time these days to make ourselves a glorious, time consuming fancy breakfast, more often than not it’s cold cereal, a muffin or an energy bar and some coffee. How about making your lover some pancakes, or bacon and eggs, or French toast? It will be a lovely surprise, and a treat from what they usually get. What a decadent way to start your day!
Plans For A Surprise Date – Has your lover mentioned how much they’d like to see a concert that’s coming, or a museum exhibit? Wave some tickets under their nose and tell them you’ve planned a fun evening out that they can then look forward to, whether it’s that night, or two weeks from tonight.
Surprise Oral Sex – Most guys wake up with morning wood, why not take advantage and suckle on his manly bits as he opens his eyes and greets the day. Not many guys are going to be unhappy with this morning surprise! About a half hour before he’s due to wake up, slide under the covers, and if he sleeps nude, it won’t be too difficult, if he sleeps with boxers on, just be slow and careful not to wake him so you can be in the middle before he knows what’s happening.
Ride ‘Em Cowboy – Not wanting oral in the morning? If he’s got a woody, why not straddle him and lower yourself down onto him and he can wake up with you riding him. All of this depends of course on how sound a sleeper he is, hopefully you can get into it before he awakens and give him the ride of his life!
Splish Splash – If your lover has already awakened, surprise them in the shower and have some hot, steamy sex with the hot water pounding over the two of you, what an invigorating way to begin the day! Help soap each other up, then bend over and let the good times roll!
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