Are You Doing It Again? – What do you do when you keep catching your partner masturbation? You’ve probably caught your partner jerking off or finger banging before. How do you handle repeatedly catching them do this? Many people make the mistake that their partner’s masturbation is a reflection on them. That could be the case. However, it very well may not be. You have to determine why they’re masturbating so much.
Horny All The Time – You’ve just caught your partner in the throws of self-pleasing themselves. Now what? Don’t freak out. Let them finish. There’s no reason to spoil a perfectly good orgasm. After they’re done, you need to talk. Ask them why they’re masturbating so much. Are you not having enough sex with them? If that’s the case, then something needs to change. You could be offering sex, but your partner isn’t interested. This is a big problem as well. You need to determine why your partner is choose their hand over you. You and your partner have sex quite a bit. They’re still masturbating. What does that mean? It means they have a strong sex drive. Sex alone isn’t enough to satisfy them. Masturbation isn’t wrong in this situation. After all, they’re giving you a break in a sense.
Mismatching Sex Drives – No two people are going to be perfect matches when it comes to the amount of sex they desire. Masturbation is a way for people to make up for the sex they don’t receive. There are those times when people just like to play with themselves. Every now and then the best sex partner is yourself. Don’t be alarmed to find out that your partner occasionally plays with themselves. If it’s often, then the reason is one listed above. Determine why they’re playing with themselves and deal with it.
Differing Sex Drives – Jerking off isn’t the worst thing in the world. Don’t act like it is when your partner doesn’t want to have sex. As a guy, you want sex just as much as you want food. That’s the truth and your penis knows it. The problem is, your woman probably wants sex a whole lot less than you do. The answer isn’t to run out the door and find someone that’s willing to have sex. It’s a mistake too many men make these days. The consequences of doing so can last a lifetime and a moment of lust isn’t really worth it.
I’m Not In The Mood – Your woman may not want to have sex for a variety of reasons. They could range from being that time of the month, too tired to have sex, or maybe just not in the mood. Just because she doesn’t want to have sex doesn’t mean the world as you know it is collapsing. It simply means it’s time to do what you’ve been doing for most of your life. Are you the kind of guy that greases up his hand or does it dry? Get ready to surf the web for some porn and to clean up your busted nut.
Get Ready For Some Self Lovin’ – Many guys in this situation overreact and make way too much out of it. You’ve been jerking off your entire life. Doing it one more time certainly isn’t going to hurt you. This is why it’s best to have all of your jerking off supplies handy for when you need them. You never know when that throbbing penis needs some tender loving care and your woman isn’t interested.
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