The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.
Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.
Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!
The Call Of The Wild – Noisy sex can be good from some and terrifying from others. Women are no doubt much more vocal overall than most men. I say most, because some guys can sound downright terrifying, as in they can let out these murderous roars that sound like they are about to meet their maker. Others are so dead quiet, you have no idea if they’ve cum or not. People’s sounds do indeed run the gamut from silent to scary.
Rattle The Window Panes – Biologically speaking, there is a purpose to such noises, especially from the fairer sex. In cave man days when a woman was loud during her sexual encounters, it in fact alerted other villagers, or cave dwellers as the case may be, that there was a female not only ready for action, but already engaging in some, and it was basically a cry of alertment for others to come have a go at her. Like a cat in heat basically, calling all the neighborhood toms. Yes, you can be quiet if you have to, but it’s so much more natural to just let go and be yourself. I tell you, after a good phone date, my throat is sore usually from all my cries of passion!
Wake The Neighbors – It also usually acts as a trigger for the man to orgasm as soon as he hears the woman start hers, again Mother Nature in all her wisdom did this. Some studies have shown the chance of conception is a bit higher if a woman orgasms, since the uterine contractions can sort of “suck up the sperm” making it more likely, so if the woman starts said contractions seconds before her partner ejaculates, the chances are higher of pregnancy. Many things in nature have wonderful and interesting reasons behind them. So the next time your partner is rattling the window panes with their shrieks of passion, enjoy it, and be glad the men of the neighborhood aren’t outside your door awaiting their turn!
Phone Sex Rocks – So tell me, have you enjoyed any phone sex lately? Masturbation is oh so much more enjoyable if you share it with someone. So many gals seem to be shy to try it, guys tell me all the time gals will cyber with them, but not phone and they don’t get it. I have no answers for them as I don’t get it either. It’s harmless, fun and in many cases free if you use Yahoo or Skype or our own climaxconnection chat rooms with free audio and video chat.
Privacy Concerns – For ones that prefer to use a real phone and are worried about their privacy if they engage in phone sex, they can use things like Google Voice to get a free phone number they can give to someone without actually giving them their actual phone number. It is only for Americans at this point though. I’m Canadian and some overly paranoid guys have given me a Google Voice number rather than their actual phone number. I can call the Google Voice number, but can’t acquire one myself. Many people don’t even know about this option. You can also get similar Skype forwarding numbers. Many are concerned about sharing their numbers, but there is a way around it if you search.
Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine – Listening to another person get off at the same time you are is so much better than alone it’s not even comparable. Once you get into phone sex, alone simply does not cut it anymore. Ladies are seriously missing out if they don’t join in on the fun. Some guys will say they never did it before, or they wouldn’t know what to say. Honestly, it’s not rocket science people. I’ve had several “first timers” that were wonderful, sexy partners and pleased me a lot with their sounds. Others are quieter and there’s not a lot of talking, mainly listening to each other moan and breathe and trust me, that can be plenty sexy as well if their sounds are hot. So if you haven’t tried phone sex yet, by all means try it out, it’s hotter that Miami in July!
The following blog post was written by ClimaxConnection member “typeaer“.
Aurally Eargasmic – why I love sounds.
I was recently asked by an anonymous female chatter: “what’s so special about phone sex and why do you love it so much?
My reply: “Do you want the long or short answer?”
To which she replied: “Both.”
You Sound Hot – In short, sounds are the sensual reward to saying the right word, touching the right spot, letting your lover know how fucking good it feels. Sounds are critical to the passion and essential to making you wet and your man rock hard. Sounds let me know you’re getting close, very close and I’m doing the right thing in just the right way.
Hearing You Cum – Hearing without the benefit of seeing is the ultimate tease. The slide of a zipper, the faint slap of material as roaming hands explore the borders at the fringe of wetness and or hardness – therein lies the turn on. Sounds are involuntary signs marking the transition from one excitement level to another. They’re an auditory right of passage symbolizing my finger has just dipped into your wetness or your hand has just gripped and squeezed the extent of my hardness. Sounds trigger the duration, timing and urgency of not only foreplay and sex but most importantly, our impending climaxes.
What is my Kryptonite? My Achilles heal? Hearing everything that brings her to and ultimately makes her cry out: “I’m cumming. . .”
Sex Sounds – Sounds feed the voyeur in us. They tell an entire story with a single breath, gasp or sigh. Sounds reflect the temperature of your libido and embellish the experience by adding sexually charged fuel to the fire. Sounds complete the visual experience and intensify the scents and flavors of the moment. Without sound, sex is just a silent movie and that is why I love phone sex so much.
Before she signed off she replied:
“Fucking hell you have a talent with words. I want to call you up right now :$ If I had a dick, it would be painfully hard right now but I don’t so I just gotta deal with these wet panties. . .”
Call Me – What do you think would greatly jazz up your masturbation routine? Phone sex, that’s what. If you haven’t tried it, I seriously encourage you to get on the phone sex bandwagon. The sound of another person as they are breathing heavy right into your ear as they are stroking themselves is fantastic. The right partner makes all the difference. If you find someone and are just looking for what I call “hit and run phone sex”, you’re likely going to be disappointed.
Hear Me Roar – If you find someone and chat with them a few times before getting naughty though, you’re much more likely to have a good experience and not as high of a chance of someone hanging up on you and leaving you hanging and wanting more and perhaps having to finish alone. Many people think because they are online and their identities are not revealed that manners do not apply, so they behave accordingly. I shudder to think if they behave the same way to people in their real lives. It’s always much nicer to play with someone you’re familiar with and occasional phone sex partners with than a stranger you anticipate will just be a one time thing.
Sounds Like Fun – A long term phone sex relationship can be a wonderful thing. That’s not to say you’re going to fall in love with them, or them with you, it’s just a comfort thing. You can feel so much more relaxed with someone when you know what to expect and what they expect from you. Phone sex buddies can be like fuck buddies I guess, though I never had one of those. Casual sex isn’t for me, but phone sex, you rarely know the people you play with well usually, so it feels fine to be semi casual with phone partners. Looking online for just the right match for you can be tricky, but it certainly can and does happen, but it can take lots of hunting. Chat rooms are a good place to try and find like minded people looking for the same thing. So check out the chat rooms and see who interests you.
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