Going Down – Have you eaten any pussy lately? If you have, then you’ve certainly done something wrong. There are a million articles on the internet that tell you how to perform oral sex on a woman. Very few of them tell you what not to do. That’s what’s going to be discussed here.
Tease That Pussy – All guys and some gals need to know what to avoid when it comes to going down on their partner. The first rule of thumb when it comes to performing oral sex on a woman is not to eat it. If you’re hungry, go grab something to eat. Chewing and gnawing on a pussy won’t do anything other than cause pain. Stick to licking and sucking. Be very in tune with how your partner reacts when you lick certain areas. You’ll want to pay more attention on those that are more pleasureful. Don’t use your teeth. If you wear false teeth, take them out before performing oral sex. This will remove all possibilities of you biting them. There’s no part of the pussy that you want to bite. You need to get that through your thick skull.
Please Your Partner – The goal isn’t to just make your partner feel good. What you’re trying to do is score again. You want to eat pussy again in the not so distant future. If you do a good job, you’ll more than likely find yourself face deep in her pussy sooner rather than later. Don’t be in a hurry. Take your time and savor each moment. Getting to know your partner’s pussy is one of the best investments of time you’ll ever make. Learning how to sexually please your partner is the most important education you’ll ever receive. The next time you go down on her, don’t bite. Don’t chew. Just lick and suck. If you follow this simple guideline she’s going to be like putty in your hands.
Repetition To Learn – How do you get good at sex? It’s the same exact way that you get good at frying eggs. You have to do it over and over again. There is no substitute for practice. None at all. No one is good at sex from the very beginning. The same could be said about frying eggs. You’ll ruin quite a few eggs before you can cook them over easy. That’s just the way it is. Don’t expect perfect yolks if you’ve never fried an egg before.
Let’s Practice – This is the one area that pornography has caused the most problems. It’s mostly the case with men. But, some women are skewered into believing that all guys should be like porn stars. Oral sex is actually quite a difficult task. No guy should think a girl will immediately suck dick like someone who’s been in hundreds of films. Remember, these girls often work as escorts too. Their cock sucking skills are the result of lots of practice. Just like frying an egg, practice does matter. Lowering your expectations of your partner’s performance in the sack isn’t a lessening of your standards. It just means you have one toe dipped into reality.
Don’t Expect a Porn Star – Porn can be a tool used to stimulate your sexual desires. It can be a very bad thing when it comes to expectations. You should never ever expect your partner to perform like those you see in videos. You’ll be left feeling absolutely in shambles if that’s the case. Very few people can do what they do in those videos. Instead, spend your time practicing. You’ll have a whole lot of fun and your partner will enjoy your new found expertise.
Show Me That Pussy – Masturbation is a top pleasure for all of us, not a doubt. For many of us it’s the only sex we get if we do not have a partner, or go to an escort, have a fuck buddy, etc. Lots of people are exhibitionists and voyeurs as well, and for some if you are lucky enough to have a sexual partner, a top pleasure for them is seeing their partner masturbate in front of them.
Let Me Watch – What better way to show your partner how you like to be touched? It really isn’t just arousing, it’s downright educational. They will get aroused without a doubt, but to see how you like to be touched, teased, caressed, stroked, the speed, everything, they will better be able to duplicate that themselves. I will never forget seeing on some sex education show this guy show on an artificial vagina how he’d touch a woman. I literally burst out laughing and thought what woman would want to be touched THAT way? I’d slap his hand away! He was tapping away on the silicone clit like he was sending out Morse code, I couldn’t believe my eyes. It never ceases to amaze me some women will fake an orgasm with a man, why, all you are doing is reinforcing their ineffective sexual techniques. Tell them how to do it so they get it right. Don’t worry about their ego, unless their ego is more important to you than your orgasm, it’s ridiculous.
Touch Me Like This – Demonstrating the technique to your partner is the absolute best way to show them how you cum the easiest. All women are different and going to like something different. Just because your ex girlfriend loved it this way, doesn’t mean your current one will. Some like indirect touch, others firm and very direct, so it’s not a one size fits all situation. Your sexual partners could like very different things and if you want to click, you’d best get over your shyness and show them how you like it. Beating around the bush does no one any favors in the bedroom. Be direct and ask for what you want, your partner can’t read your mind.
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