Party Time – How do you find someone to have a threesome with? It’s a question that many couples end up asking themselves. Truthfully, finding a guy to have a threesomes with is usually pretty easy. It’s just a matter of asking. Most guys will jump at the opportunity to have a threesome. The harder thing to find is a willing female. Asking a friend to join you in the sack may not have the best results. You risk losing their friendship or things becoming awkward down the line.
Looking For A Third – The internet is a great place to find someone to have a threesome with. Quite a few dating sites have a section for hookups or whatever they call it. Make sure that you spell out exactly what you’re looking for. You should also be very descriptive about what type of person you’re looking for. Clearly state if you’re looking for a man or a woman. You’ll end up getting tons of replies from men. Probably much fewer replies from women. Being extremely descriptive will cut back on the amount of time you spend reading and replying to unwanted messages.
Sensible Searching – Don’t go searching on dating sites for people who you’d like to have a threesome with. Guys and gals more than likely don’t want to be bothered by your threesome request. You have to remember you’re a complete stranger to them. Guys might be flattered, while women will probably freaked out about it. Cutting corners and doing things the easy way will only ensure that you don’t get the threesome you want.
The More The Merrier – Can your relationship survive a threesome? You or your partner has been wanting a threesome. Maybe it’s something that neither of you have ever done before. It’s a common fantasy for both guys and gals. How do you know if a threesome is right for you? The truth is, you kind of don’t. That is until you actually give it a try. Are you or your partner the jealous type? If so, then you know right away that a threesome isn’t right for either of you. It’ll open a can of worms that will create friction in all aspects of your relationship. There has to be a level of trust to pull off a threesome.
The Problem Of Jealousy – You’re going to need to have some boundaries. The first being, no sex with other people outside of the bedroom. This is where trust issues creep in. Can you trust your partner to not have sex with anyone else outside of the threesome? What happens when they experience sex with someone else and like it? They very well could go on to someone else. It’s possible and it’s why you want to make sure there are firm rules in place. That means no one is allowed to have sex with anyone else unless its together as a threesome. The second thing you need to be concerned about is feeling uncomfortable. What happens if you decide that you want this threesome to end? Do you think your partner would be okay with that? If not, then it’s best to not even try it.
Sexual Comparisons – You might not feel comfortable and will want to end the whole thing right as it’s starting. Stranger things have happened in the bedroom. Don’t be surprised if you have second thoughts about a threesome once you see your partner in the arms of someone else. A threesome is rarely a good idea. It sure sounds like one in the beginning. This is usually the case for men that dream of being with two women at the same time. It rarely works out the way they think it will. This is because most men get the idea of a threesome from watching a porn video. Keep in mind the guys in those videos are pros and they’ve been around the block a time or two. For most people a threesome is a bad idea. It very well could ruin your relationship. If you think you’re up for it, then give it a try. Just remember that it’s okay to back out at the last minute if either one of you feel uncomfortable about it.
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