Doable Fantasies – Don’t let porn videos or romance novels make your fantasies impossible. It can be way too easy to let that happen. You’re not even going to realize it. This is the problem with subjecting yourself to too much erotic material. Tame down your fantasies. Make sure they’re realistic. Just because you see or read something doesn’t mean you can do it.
Fantasy To Reality – How do you know if your fantasies aren’t realistic? Are you living them out? If not, then you need to dial it back a little. You can easily feel like a let down if your fantasies aren’t doable. You’ll feel like you aren’t achieving your sexual goals. This will have a negative impact on your sex life. Now you see why it’s important to have realistic fantasies. None of this means you shouldn’t shoot for the stars when it comes to your fantasies. You can always have one that’s almost unreachable. Just keep most of them realistic. Everyone knows the limits of their relationship. There’s no need to set the bar so high you can’t reach it. Instead, develop realistic fantasies that are within reach.
Hot Scenarios – Fantasies are extremely important. They allow you to be creative in the sack. A fantasy is a sexual dream that can come true. It can if you make them reasonable. A realistic fantasy is one where you can envision yourself living out. If you can’t, then it’s time to go back to the drawing board. There’s nothing wrong with modifying your fantasies to fit the real world. Actually, it’s quite logical.
Trying Something New – You’ve got a new fantasy that you want to live out. There’s just one thing getting in the way of you living out that fantasy. That one thing is your partner. It’s not uncommon for people to stumble upon strange things these days. You may discover something totally new at a porn site or, it may just come to you out of the blue. What one person calls strange in the sack another may think is normal. Strange is a relative term and there’s no way to determine what is or what isn’t. You know your partner and what they will probably think of as being strange. You more than likely also know what they’re willing to do in the sack.
Open To New Ideas – It’s those pesky gray areas that are difficult to navigate. How do you break it to your partner that you want to try something out of the ordinary? The best way is to do so as plainly as possible. You don’t want to present it in a way that scares them. You may even bring along a visual aid or two to help describe what your new found fantasy is. Always try to present things in a way that doesn’t seem too foreign. People will more than likely say no if they find whatever it is that you want to do as being too strange. Your likelihood of living out the fantasy depends mostly on presentation.
Combating Boredom – Spicing up what happens in the bedroom is a great way to prevent boredom. Being bored sexually can have as negative of an impact as not having sex frequently enough. Arousal is key to feeling sexually happy and fulfilled. Don’t be shy when it comes to telling your partner about your newly discovered fantasy. Living them out will increase your bond and strengthen the relationship as a whole.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Swing, Swing, Swing – Can you benefit from the swinging lifestyle? It’s a question that a lot of couples are asking themselves these days. Monogamy isn’t for everyone and there are those that are honest with themselves about it. There is nothing worse than a person breaking the trust they have with their partner. Swinging allows both people to be honest and upfront about their sexual needs. There are those people out there that need to have multiple partners. They’ll never be satisfied with just one person their entire life.
Variety Is The Spice Of Life – Make sure you find other couples that are actual swingers. Don’t go searching for a guy or a girl that’s just looking for a good time. This usually spells disaster from the very beginning. What these people are looking for is just sex. They aren’t looking to live the swinging lifestyle. Finding couples online is easy and it shouldn’t take you long to find some in your area. Swinging is becoming extremely popular and finding a couple is truly as easy as pointing and clicking when it comes to the internet.
Play Safe – Both you and your partner should get an STD test before meeting with the couple. It’s a good idea to ask the other couple to get one as well. You always want to practice safe sex when you’re swinging. Wearing a condom is a must and never ever have sex without one. It’s common for people to feel more at ease with swingers and let their guard down. You’re health and that of your partner is way too serious to even consider practicing unsafe sex in a swinging environment.
Don’t Knock It Until You Try It – Swinging isn’t for everyone and it might not be for you. Not every person can stomach the idea of someone having sex with their partner. Don’t be surprised if you or your partner decide not to go through with it. If that happens, don’t raise a big fuss over it. Just chalk it up to one of life’s lessons and move on. If you’re looking for more fun, check out The Red Zone – Free Picture And Movie Galleries .
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
From Fantasy To Reality – The importance of living out fantasies can’t be overstated. It’s the very thing that keeps your sex life exciting. It can be easy for sex to become dull and boring. Anyone that’s been with a partner for more than a few months knows that this is the case. It’s why you’re going to want to find new ways to keep everything fresh. A long lasting relationship can only be so if the sex is great. It’s when sex becomes dull and boring that people step outside of the relationship. This is the real danger of allowing your sex life to become dull. Both men and women have sexual needs and often times they’ll do whatever it takes to get them met. Even if it means being in the arms of someone else.
Be Direct About What You Want – The first thing you need to do when living out your fantasies is to communicate them. This means you’re going to need an open line of communication with your partner. You’re both adults and should be able to talk about sex. There’s no need to sugar coat things. Being open and blunt about your fantasies will only ensure that you actually get to live them out. Having to tell your partner what you want in some kind of code will only make it next to impossible to achieve.
Try Some Costumes – Allow yourself to be creative when it comes to your fantasies. Don’t be afraid to act out roles and even wear costumes. It’s not out of the question to wear wigs or even fake tattoos. The sky is the limit when it comes to what you can live out. That’s as long as you’re creative and allow each other to be honest when communicating what your sexual fantasies are. Don’t be shy and always tell your partner when you’ve got a new fantasy. You never know, they may be as excited as you are after hearing about it.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Jazz Up Your Masturbation – Masturbation is a whole lot of fun. Not a single one of you would disagree with that. Here we’re going to tell you how to make it even more fun. That might sound like something thats totally impossible. It isn’t and soon you’re going to find that out for yourself.
Try Some Toys – Have you ever thought about buying a male sex toy? These are things that you put your cock in. We’re not talking about inflatable dolls. These toys can look like real life pussies. They can even feel like them too. There are also devices that you can buy that give blow jobs. Usually these can be found at adult toy stores. If you’re too shy to enter one, you can always buy sex toys online. The difference is, you don’t actually get to see what they look like in real life. A picture and the real thing can often be quite different.
Switching Hands – You may also consider using different lubes. There are even lubricants that feel warm to the touch. Just imagine what it would feel like to be jerking off while every stroke gets warmer and warmer. You can also change things up and use different hands. It might seem a bit odd at first, but you’ll get the hang of it. Using both hands is actually kind of exciting. You’ll be able to masturbate even though your main hand is tired. Your cock will enjoy the extra attention you’re giving it.
Change Positions – Masturbation is a lot like sex. You’ve got to work at it to keep it interesting. This is the best tip of them all. Make sure that you’re mixing it up. You dont want to do masturbate in the same boring position all the time. Do it while laying down or sitting up. You may even want to try jerking off while standing up. Just make sure youre ready for the orgasm. The last thing you want to do is fall over while being engulfed with pleasure.
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