Self Pleasuring – People masturbate in many different ways. So many different ways to enjoy ourselves. Needless to say I chat with many different people and masturbation is always a popular topic. Most use our hands for sure. Seems the more natural way to go about things, so simple, so natural and easy. Water induced orgasms are also very nice. They can be rather fast and furious though, and I always felt guilty about the waste of water, but they are nice.
Variety For Your Masturbation Routine – Then you’ve got the fans of toys. So many women are in love with their vibrators, and men love their toys as well. Fleshlights are very popular, as are pocket pussies and similar types of accessories. And need we forget the infamous scene in “American Pie,” where the apple pie was violated on the kitchen counter. There are fruit fuckers out there and not just of the baked goods variety. Holes cut in melons, oh the things that people do to get off. Some find humping pillows very enjoyable, and I won’t even go into ones that involve family pets, or someone else’s pets.
Hands Free Masturbating – Recently I’ve been hearing more about people that can think themselves to an orgasm without touching themselves. Yes, I’d heard of it before, but I seem to be hearing more and more people are able to do this. Why do I not possess such a talent? I’d make use of it during boring times, believe me. I also know a few men that pump their cock between their thighs rather than use their hands to masturbate. No hands, just pure thigh action. Some girls can squeeze their thighs to cum as well. However you masturbate, as long as you cum hard and often enjoy it. It’s one of the greatest gifts and pleasures we have. Free, no worries of pregnancy or disease. Good cardio vascular exercise, too many benefits to count.
Online Hook Ups – For many people, being part of an adult social network like this site allows them to explore things they either have not had the opportunity to in real life, or things they haven’t the nerve to try in real life. Looking for play online is often a fact of life when either one has no partner at all, or when the partner they do have is not as sexual a person as they are and they are needing to fulfill a need not being met by their partner.
Masturbation Cyber Style – Some people look at it as cheating, others not. Many couples are very open and seek online fun together, either alone by themselves, or together to spice things up. Being friendly online to some is just a much safer way of playing around with no risk of disease. Even if I had a partner, and they were ok with my playing around online, I’d prefer to keep that to myself. It’s private and my own little naughty, harmless secret, I wouldn’t want to make that part of my couple life. The need for variety is great and if they too were playing online with others, I wouldn’t want to know about it at all. Ever.
Help Me Get Off – Most people that phone, cam, cyber together will never, ever really meet. Of course there are exceptions, but mostly it’s not a worry. So for a partner to take that need for variety as a threat to their relationship is groundless most of the time. It’s occasional escapism with a sexual twist, and that’s how they need to view it, nothing more, nothing less. Now if a partner was camming every night for 3 hours or something and taking away from their relationship time, then that is an addictive behavior, but if it’s in moderation, say a few times a week, then I’d say it’s a fun excursion in their sexual life with no need to worry about it.
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