When They Let Themselves Go

Have Some Pride – What do you do when your partner is no longer attracted to you? Let’s assume that you’re in a solid relationship and infidelity isn’t a concern. It’s not your partner’s job to be attracted to you. Your job is to be attractive to them. Many people feel like loss of attraction is their partner’s fault. They for whatever reason aren’t attracted to them any more. You need to find out why you’re no longer attractive to your partner.

Packing On The Pounds – Have you gained weight? You may have stopped taking care of yourself for whatever reason. It can be easy to get into a rut. You may not even notice that you’re not paying attention to your appearance. It’s often the case that people choose practicality and functionality over what looks good. The loose fitting jeans may be more comfortable ones that are skin tight. However, the ones that are skin tight will get your partner’s attention. You need to ask your partner why they aren’t visually attracted to you any more. Don’t be offended when they’re honest with you. Instead, take into consideration what they say. If their reasoning seems valid, then you need to make some changes. Ask them what changes you need to make. It could be as simple as shaving off the beard that you think looks so great. It may not look too great to the woman who has to see it every day. The same thing could be said about your housecoat. It sure is comfy, but it hides your curves.

Show Some Effort – You may want to prance around the house wearing something a little different from time to time. The value of being visually aroused and attracted to someone can’t be understated. A person who isn’t visually satisfied won’t be sexually satisfied. No one looks good without effort. You have to take care of yourself and how you look. Unless you’re a supermodel, this is going to be the case. Talk to your partner and ask them what changes need to be made. You’ll actually feel better about yourself when you know your partner likes what they see.

Tags: appearance, attraction, making an effort, relationships