Work For It!

 

Get Down And Dirty – Most of us admittedly masturbate on this site. It’s a wonderful activity. I had a conversation a while back with a partner of mine about different methods of masturbation. I replied how I prefer fingers over all else, how toys produce an inferior orgasm. I know many gals love their toys, so this is my point of view only. We discussed how with a toy you just lay there, letting it buzz away, not even moving really. With fingers, you are putting your whole body into it. Bucking your hips up to meet your hand, tensing your legs, breathing heavy.

Men Like Women Who Enjoy Themselves – Some men do like the idea of a gal using toys, the penetration. Some like the idea that as you are perhaps playing with them on the phone or on cam, the toy is a substitute for their cock. Other men prefer the idea of a woman using her hands and being more natural. Dildos do have a very long history, back to the cave man days even of ones carved from stone and ivory, but no toy pre dates the fingers, so curiously exploring fingers really are the most natural toys of all.

Cum For Me – Some women have only been able to orgasm from toys, vibrators specifically, so obviously for them, they will be the best solution, but for others of us, nothing beats having to “work for it”. To literally put so much effort into cumming, you might end up with a slightly sore forearm, or hand from going at it so passionately. Maybe some don’t enjoy that kind of physical exertion required for an orgasm, for some of us though, that feeling of being breathless and spent is the price for a fantastic, full body orgasm, so let’s all rub one out and scream!

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