50 Shades Of Naughty – Have you and your lover been looking for more exciting ways to get each other going? Maybe some sex toys might get you more aroused than just the same old normal routine. BDSM is something more and more couples are exploring and delving into these days. Missionary in the dark is fine, but for ones that want to put a bit more va va voom in their sex life, it might be worth exploring to see how you like it.
Tie Me Up, Please – Many times couples get into a sexual rut and need some variety to spice things up, after all, even steak every night can become boring. Toys, restraints, cuffs, all serve to further fantasy and roleplay that many find make things a lot more arousing than the same old routine. Many movies and books have storylines that might inspire you or excite you in ways you didn’t imagine would get your juices flowing. The 80’s classic “9 1/2 Weeks” has some very arousing scenes in it that might inspire you to kick things up a notch with your lover.
Please Sir, Give Me More – It can be very seductive to hand over control of your orgasm to another and have them make you beg for it, having them bring you to the brink and back again until you can’t take anymore. Give it to your lover across the backside with a riding crop. Being tied up can be very erotic. Blindfolding your lover can bring an element of surprise to each and every touch. Make them quiver and flinch! Submission and domination can be very sexy role reversals we are not used to in our everyday lives. Often seeking the opposite position to that which we normally hold.
National Masturbation Month – I’m sure most of us masturbate every single month, many every singe day, but May is National Masturbation Month. It was started in 1995 by a sex toy store in San Francisco to celebrate masturbation because at the time the US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was let go because she felt kids in school should be taught masturbation was an important part of sexuality as well. Apparently it was just too radical an idea.
Times Are Changing – Luckily some governments are moving forward, and for the last few years the UK and another European country actually have active campaigns to encourage the nations youth to masturbate to cut down on teen pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases and enhance pleasure for ones without partners. Many don’t know in the late 1800’s doctors preached so on the evils of self abuse, they came up with “libido deadening foods” like Corn Flakes and Graham crackers to supposedly take away the sex drive and lessen the chances ones would masturbate. Hard to believe, but 100% true.
No Shame In Self Love – Now no one’s suggesting you whip it out on a mall bench and have at it just because it’s an ok thing to do, it has its time and place. Masturbation is a normal activity most of us engage in and enjoy. It’s free, it’s safe, no risk of disease, is pleasurable and a stress reliever. When you find someone on a site like this to join you and have cyber sex, cam sex or phone sex with it kicks it up to a whole new level, once you try it with someone, alone no longer cuts it. So enjoy some self love today!
The Thrill Of The Voice – What is it about phone sex that is so exciting? Not everyone is into web cam sex. We don’t all get aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk and squirt online. Some like to be stimulated aurally, not visually. The words that can paint a very arousing, descriptive picture of what we would do to each other if we were there driving each other wild. The voice alone can make us imagine all sorts of exciting and vivid things. We don’t even need to see what they look like in many cases. The imagination alone can make us wet and have fantastic orgasms.
Hot Sex Sounds – Many we may choose to have phone sex with don’t even need to talk a lot if their sex sounds are hot enough. Many have such arousing and exciting breathing sounds, we can get off on that kind of sound and stimulation alone. Some are indeed into body rubbing sounds, wetness and squish sounds of fingers sliding into wet pussies and hands stroking wet cocks up and down, some truly go wild at such sounds and love it when their phone sex partner will hold the phone or mic down to their privates for the sound to be captured for their pleasure.
Find A Partner Tonight – It’s a wonderful thing to have a regular phone sex partner, or even better, a number of them we can enjoy on a rotating basis for variety. Everyone has something different to offer us. Some are very descriptive, others fairly quiet, some love to talk between orgasm rounds and before and after, each person has their own style. When the time comes for that orgasm, it’s fantastic to have someone listen to us and share it with. Look for a phone sex partner today in our chat rooms or in the forums Invitation Only section or on people’s profile pages. There IS fun to be had here!
Come Chat Tonight – Online chat and chat rooms are a very important part of socialization for many of us. Many people just do not make real life friends or acquaintances easily, yet online, we can be our true selves, when we don’t have to be face to face. People that are normally shy are all of a sudden witty and open and not hiding behind their veil of shyness. Online chat rooms are a lot of fun! Not everyone goes into adult chat rooms just to chit chat though, but that can be a lot of fun as well.
Find An Online Masturbation Partner – Many are there for one reason only, to find a partner for naughty fun, and that is a whole other kind of fun! Finding someone to masturbate with and watch them on cam, or talk to them on the phone or over voice chat online, or even just cyber sex. Chat rooms are the online equivalent of a bar, a pick up joint, a meat/meet market. Chat rooms are where we search for like minded, horny individuals that are looking for masturbation partners. It is soooo much more fun to masturbate with someone than alone. To enjoy the sexy sounds of another as they approach orgasm and then when they actually cum, how on earth could alone ever do after sharing that?! It can’t.
Chat To Your Hearts Content – Mutual masturbation is so much more fun, interactive and enjoyable and ones that might never consider ever going to a bar to look for a one night stand, might have no problem trolling around the internet chat rooms to find a masturbation partner. If no one in chat interests you, you can always have some lively banter with others in the room and say all kinds of fun things you might be too shy to say to your in person friends. There are some very nice people online, they aren’t all jerks and bitches!
Be Strong And Say Goodbye – Long distance relationships today are more common than they were because of the internet. People can meet online that a couple of decades a go would never have met, but online chat rooms and websites bring people together that otherwise would never find each other. One thing that is sadly common in real life relationships is abuse, and you may think how can an online relationship be abusive? Yet it’s more common than you’d think. Abuse can happen in cyber and phone sex relationships as well. Some people we connect with online can be like a drug to us, we know they are bad for us, yet they are so seductive and we are drawn to them like a moth to a flame. There is an intensity to more extreme people that can be abusive and that intensity can be like a hit of heroin we can’t stay away from. Some of the sex can without a doubt be the hottest and most intense in an abusive situation, there’s a love/hate combo going on that can make for very hot times.
Don’t Let Them Back In – It’s a lot easier to brush someone off online, after all, many times all we have is an email address or an online chat ID, maybe if phone sex was involved, a phone number. You can easily block a person’s ID so they can’t contact you, but if they are determined enough, they can create a new ID in a few minutes. Some people will keep going back at you to the point of harassment. What happens though when one person, the more trusting and kinder of the two, allows that person back in time after time, no matter how badly they may have been treated? You’d think how can they let themselves get sucked in time after time to the same ill treatment? Some of us are sadly gluttons for punishment indeed, and if we would tolerate that sort of behavior in real life, we likely would online as well.
You Deserve Better – Willpower is something you need to allow yourself to break free from an abusive online relationship. You always want to believe them, that they have changed, that they will no longer treat you badly, but the sad fact is, they do not want to change and that’s the hard part to accept. When you have seen how nice and sexy and sweet someone can appear and then you see their true colors, it can be hard to accept that the one we had feelings for, “the nice them”, doesn’t really exist and isn’t coming back. That is the mask they showed us at the beginning to suck us in with, not the true them, which is what we learn they really are. Predators aren’t always rapists or murderers, they can be people online that truly don’t care anything about you that seek to use you, harass you and make you feel bad, it’s nothing but a game to them. They are likely cowards who don’t have anyone in real life so find easy prey online they can manipulate for their own entertainment.
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