The Call Of The Wild – Noisy sex can be good from some and terrifying from others. Women are no doubt much more vocal overall than most men. I say most, because some guys can sound downright terrifying, as in they can let out these murderous roars that sound like they are about to meet their maker. Others are so dead quiet, you have no idea if they’ve cum or not. People’s sounds do indeed run the gamut from silent to scary.
Rattle The Window Panes – Biologically speaking, there is a purpose to such noises, especially from the fairer sex. In cave man days when a woman was loud during her sexual encounters, it in fact alerted other villagers, or cave dwellers as the case may be, that there was a female not only ready for action, but already engaging in some, and it was basically a cry of alertment for others to come have a go at her. Like a cat in heat basically, calling all the neighborhood toms. Yes, you can be quiet if you have to, but it’s so much more natural to just let go and be yourself. I tell you, after a good phone date, my throat is sore usually from all my cries of passion!
Wake The Neighbors – It also usually acts as a trigger for the man to orgasm as soon as he hears the woman start hers, again Mother Nature in all her wisdom did this. Some studies have shown the chance of conception is a bit higher if a woman orgasms, since the uterine contractions can sort of “suck up the sperm” making it more likely, so if the woman starts said contractions seconds before her partner ejaculates, the chances are higher of pregnancy. Many things in nature have wonderful and interesting reasons behind them. So the next time your partner is rattling the window panes with their shrieks of passion, enjoy it, and be glad the men of the neighborhood aren’t outside your door awaiting their turn!
Mirror Mirror On The Wall – Sexually stimulating ourselves is normal, watching ourselves in a mirror as we do so can be an arousing addition to our masturbation mix. Full length mirrors allow us a full body view standing up, and hand held mirrors for girls allow us to get a real up close and personal look at our own bodies from a visual vantage point we otherwise could not have. People should be encouraging their young people to explore themselves in this manner, but our hush hush societal mentality on sexuality and masturbation in particular makes this not very likely to happen.
Enjoy Yourself Visually – You can’t expect someone else to please you sexually until you yourself know what feels good to you. Watching as the juices flow out of yourself with a magnifying mirror can be very exciting, watching your fingertips lightly caress your stiffened clit and watch your pussy contract with your orgasm and watch it pulse. Many couples enjoy having sex in front of mirrors, some really into it have mirrors placed above their beds. Guys into mirror masturbation often will cum right on the mirror and watch as it erupts against the glass and trickles down.
A Different Perspective – Your very own porn for one. Watching as you make yourself cum. It’s very sexy, and you can quickly understand why guys like watching a lady masturbate so much, it’s sensual and arousing and they love the look of a woman pleasing herself in front of them. So if you haven’t masturbated in front of a mirror in a while, maybe get one out and reacquaint yourself with the visual poetry that is yourself masturbating. I have a feeling you just might enjoy it.
Who Will You Be Tonight – Many people that enjoy cyber sex are also very much into fantasy role playing. I can’t even count how many times I have gotten an inbox message from guys with some long, elaborate, detailed role play scene. They could have saved themselves the trouble of their copy and paste if they’d read my profile in the first place and saw it’s not my particular interest, but guys being guys, they tend to cast a wide net and hope some gal they sent it to will reply back to them.
Be My Neighbor – The naughty neighbor lady is a popular one among guys that seem to enjoy the cougar/cub fantasy. The lonely neighbor lady that may just have an out of town husband that’s been neglecting her and they are only too willing to let the young neighbor boy look after their needs. The handsome young lad that’s horny and often not that experienced and is looking for a caring, affectionate, mature lady willing to guide them into manhood with blissful abandon, errant husband be damned.
Welcome To My Fantasy – Some impress me with their creativity, but it seems like a fair bit of work to me, I’m more grounded in reality, but to each their own. Some love to indulge in a good fantasy, escape the realities of their hum drum lives and let a tale take on a life of its own for them. It can enhance the experience for them and get them off a little bit better than if they just acted themselves. Many people come to an adult chat rooms to find other partners willing to play along with them and join in the fantasy together, masturbating while pretending they are living out this extraordinary fantasy that enhances their masturbation.
I’ve Got A Secret – The importance of fantasy in our lives is fairly sizeable for some people. Things that they think about in their private moments that they know they likely would never be able to actually live out. Sexual fantasies about celebrities, family members, all sorts of scenarios that will never get to actually happen.
From Mild To Wild – When we find someone we are comfortable with and can share our deepest, darkest fantasy with, we truly feel a kindred spirit. Most times even our partners are holding back, they won’t totally let their guard down. Some things are just too private to share with anyone, we worry our darkest selves would be rejected. They say true love is when you can expose those darkest sides to someone and they love us anyway, they accept us no matter how depraved our thoughts might be.
Naughty Thoughts – With people online it can be even easier to share those thoughts, since we don’t have to deal with them face to face, indeed many times we won’t even see their pictures, or know their last names, so we have nothing to lose in being totally honest and exposed to them. Many times it’s easier to be honest with a stranger than people we have to look at in the face. Ones we can enjoy cyber sex and phone sex with, we can share these fantasies with them and have total safety in doing so. There’s a lot more to online fun than just getting off, indeed we can explore a deeper side to ourselves as well.
Shy Girls – One thing that constantly perplexes me is guys telling me girls are too shy to have phone sex. They can have cyber sex until their clits are numb, but try to get some on the phone and they won’t do it. Some will conclude they are guys and this is why they won’t take the next leap. I won’t go on cam, yet chat by voice with anyone, even non sexual talks, yet unless you will go on cam, some guys will also say you are a man, at which point I mention my audios, but they are so convinced you’re a man unless you go on cam, they won’t even bother listening to an audio to hear your voice.
Be Brave – So many guys seem to have a sense of entitlement to seeing your pics, seeing you on cam, it’s ridiculous. If someone asks for pics, it personally makes me more reluctant to share. Don’t ask and I will share, ask and I’m put off. It’s that sense of them thinking they deserve to be granted some sort of special access they haven’t been invited to yet, annoys the hell out of me. Back to the topic at hand though, personally I don’t get why a girl is reluctant to phone. Ones not wanting to give their phone number can either get Google voice, if they are in the US, or use Yahoo or Skype or our own chat rooms that have audio.
Don’t Hide Your Light Under A Bushel – I say ones reluctant to have phone sex haven’t had good phone sex, because I can promise you once you do, it’s your favorite addiction and hobby. You don’t have to show yourself to them, it’s private, there’s nothing like being listened to as you cum and breathe heavy for someone else, it’s so sexy you’d never be shy once you experienced it and shared that orgasm with another interested party. Ladies, you are missing out, do not let another week go by without experiencing what masturbation can truly be like if you share it with someone. It’s a magical experience.
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