The Dating Game – They say around one out of five couples meets via online dating these days. For many of us online is really the only viable option. We may work with mostly people of our own sex, or alone at home, not have a circle of friends to set us up, for some online is it. No other options. Yet when you meet people online, it can be very fake. Tons of people use fake pics. I can recall the one who messaged me using the Brazilian pop singers pics, I thought he was a bit TOO good looking. Or the one using the soccer player from Spain’s pics.
Who Are You – This nonsense goes on and on. I mean why would you use fake pics if you’re looking to really meet the person, if you meet, they’re going to know it’s not you. I tell you the reverse look up pic thing on Google is so easy to run their pics through. You have your own little profile and page stating your likes and what you want, it’s like a resume for your love life. So many people lie online and make up fake “facts” about themselves to make themselves seem appealing, but it can all be lies and you have to take your chances. But truth be told, a guy you meet at a bar or a grocery store could sell you a bill of goods as well. You have to be wary no matter the source unless you’re being paired up with a known person by friends or family.
Let’s Meet – Online fun can be great, but when taking things into real life you need to be careful. It’s one thing to have phone sex with someone or cam with them, meeting and starting a real life relationship is a whole other ballgame. It can be a great time saver and shortcut to romance if you get lucky. Everyone online is not a creep or a liar, but you have to be a bit more suspicious of online people than “regular ones”.
Phone Sex Rocks – So tell me, have you enjoyed any phone sex lately? Masturbation is oh so much more enjoyable if you share it with someone. So many gals seem to be shy to try it, guys tell me all the time gals will cyber with them, but not phone and they don’t get it. I have no answers for them as I don’t get it either. It’s harmless, fun and in many cases free if you use Yahoo or Skype or our own climaxconnection chat rooms with free audio and video chat.
Privacy Concerns – For ones that prefer to use a real phone and are worried about their privacy if they engage in phone sex, they can use things like Google Voice to get a free phone number they can give to someone without actually giving them their actual phone number. It is only for Americans at this point though. I’m Canadian and some overly paranoid guys have given me a Google Voice number rather than their actual phone number. I can call the Google Voice number, but can’t acquire one myself. Many people don’t even know about this option. You can also get similar Skype forwarding numbers. Many are concerned about sharing their numbers, but there is a way around it if you search.
Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine – Listening to another person get off at the same time you are is so much better than alone it’s not even comparable. Once you get into phone sex, alone simply does not cut it anymore. Ladies are seriously missing out if they don’t join in on the fun. Some guys will say they never did it before, or they wouldn’t know what to say. Honestly, it’s not rocket science people. I’ve had several “first timers” that were wonderful, sexy partners and pleased me a lot with their sounds. Others are quieter and there’s not a lot of talking, mainly listening to each other moan and breathe and trust me, that can be plenty sexy as well if their sounds are hot. So if you haven’t tried phone sex yet, by all means try it out, it’s hotter that Miami in July!
Please Don’t Hurt Me – So what do you do when one of your online fun partners gets more serious about you than you are about them or vice versa? It’s not a pleasant situation and I’ve been on both sides of this. Cam, phone sex and cybering are all important activities to the ones involved in them. Guys, and I assume gals, fall into different categories in our online play. Some are fun, like friends we play with, joke around with, but it never gets serious.
I Love You So Much – Friends like these though, it never gets intense and intensity, to some of us anyway, can be like that hit of heroin. Intensity is what makes us feel alive and crave more. Some partners can be like this, even ones that can be total nut jobs we’re better staying away from, they have a pull, a draw, and we can’t get enough. It’s a sad thing when one of you feels more deeply about the other, someone is bound to get hurt. Some want to meet in real life and when the other one doesn’t want to, you can feel very hurt and rejected by this person that has come to mean so much to you, and to them sadly they just view you as an online fun partner and nothing more.
It Felt So Real – I always remember one guy I chatted with that said he never phoned with a girl more than once because he “didn’t want them falling in love with him.” I recall laughing so hard thinking what a high opinion he had of himself to come to this bizarre way of thinking. Obviously he and many others wish to avoid drama, and emotional messiness which can sometimes result when feelings become involved. It is very, very cruel to ever lead anyone on and make them believe in any way something real and offline can result if you do not indeed feel that way, and several people I’ve known like to heighten things and make it seem like a possibility when in fact it’s just adding a further dimension of enjoyment to make it seem real.
You Broke My Heart – The more vulnerable party gets very badly emotionally crushed as a result. Be careful when someone hands you their heart. And sadly when things like this happen, and one gets hurt, you often lose the best masturbation partner you ever had because it can’t ever go back to being how it was before. The one doing the heartbreaking often feels badly they’ve hurt the other person, and the one pining away often feels so rejected and foolish they can’t enjoy the other person anymore.
Ring In The New Year – Not everyone is interested in going out on New Year’s Eve. Sometimes a nice, quiet night at home is the best medicine. No worry of running into drunks on the road and going out in the cold and having to get all dolled up. Wouldn’t a relaxing and stimulating at the same time, night of online fun be welcome as well? For ones that work and have to go out every day to work or school, it’s nice to not have to go out yet again.
Masturbate & Cum At The Stroke Of Twelve – Many of us have outgrown our clubbing and dance club years, we don’t wish to be in a hot, crowded bar with blaring music and half drunk idiots. Spending some time in an adult chat room, and maybe having some hot and steamy phone sex, or cyber sex, or for the more adventurous exhibitionists, web cam sex and show off your naughtiness to your masturbation partner. How many people out and about will have a nice orgasm? Perhaps not as many as are on an adult site actively seeking a masturbation partner!
A Sexy Evening At Home – It doesn’t cost anything to spend some time online and have fun, yet if you went out, you’d be paying for drinks, cover charges, parking, the price of a new outfit sometimes. So it’s more cost effective if you’re watching funds as well. You can have a toe curling good time with the online stud or gal of your online dreams and both enjoy some terrific orgasms as well, with no risk of disease or getting knocked up.
Sexy Christmas – Christmas can be a very romantic and fun and flirty time for couples. Sex underneath the Christmas tree, booze and eggnog flowing and an overall happy spirit. Sexy lingerie with naughty Christmas themes, all kinds of playful possibilities. With our online friends we won’t really be spending time with in person, maybe some naughty pics in said Christmas lingerie might make a naughty email bring a smile to someone’s face, and erection to their cock though!
If you can happen to steal away time together over the holidays for some phone sex or webcam or cybering fun, so much the better, though with many people’s even more hectic that usual schedules, it might prove troublesome. People are often hard to co ordinate their time under the best of circumstances, over the holidays it proves even more difficult with family commitments, and command performance office parties and the like.
I recall once for a year I kept track of how many times I masturbated by making a little heart in the squares of the calendar of the days I played on and added them up at the end of the year and December did indeed have the fewest, was just so busy doing stuff, hardly masturbated all month. So do take some time to masturbate this holiday season, stresses are running high and a few orgasms can do wonders fro your state of mind and release of physical tensions. And if so inclined to send naughty holiday themed pics, I’m sure they’d be welcomed by your online fun partners.
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